My boyfriend has a change of heart, what do you think I should do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I guess he's just a momentary impulse, and if you love him, please don't give up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    ...He actually told you that he was afraid that he was not the first male of the woman?

    Oh, my God! Can this kind of thing be said to you? Then he really doesn't deserve what you do for him.

    From your description, I feel that he is very ruthless, and he doesn't care about you, he doesn't break up with you and just treats you as a substitute"Ride a donkey to find a horse"mentality. Do you really need to hang on to him? Although there is really no way to be rational about emotional matters.

    But I think the most sensible thing to do is to leave him, stop thinking about him, and live your life well.

    If he leaves him, if he is still saved, he will understand his mistakes, he will know how to cherish you, and if he can break up with that woman, it is not that he can't forgive him.

    If he just lets it go, then don't be too sad, it's really not worth it to be sad for this kind of person. Leaving him early is not necessarily a bad thing. Because even if you don't take the initiative to leave, I'm afraid that in the end, it will be difficult to keep him, but let him look down on him. It's better to dump him before he dumps you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He eats from the bowl and occupies the pot

    I always want the best, but I'm not the best

    This kind of person should find a dinosaur and trample it to death!

    Unless it changes, you will absolutely give it up, do you think it is safe to let it accompany you for a lifetime?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't be a man like that.

    Eating from the bowl and looking at the pot, he seriously despised him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Such a man doesn't even have a basic sense of responsibility, let alone the days to come, there is a first time and a second time, unless he turns back immediately, otherwise there is no need to give up, this kind of person is not worth it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Miss Miyamoto Mingqiu, I have encountered your experience before, although it is not my own experience, but I feel it deeply, maybe I can help you.

    Your boyfriend is indecisive, if you really love him and really think about him, you should make decisions for him, and instead of falling into a triangle and delaying each other, it is better to be Bo Yibo.

    I have two options:

    a) You go out yourself. When you call ** on their date--, the content can be: "-I have bought two tickets to go, I will wait for you for 30 minutes, if you don't come, it means that you have chosen her." ”

    2) Get your friends (preferably boys) for help. Your friend can go to her and say to her, "The reason why I'm looking for you is because I don't want to see Qiu Ming in pain."

    In the heart, who is he can't let go, in fact, he doesn't know ,-- is also very painful, if you love him, you should make this decision for him, I have two tickets here to ......”

    Explanation: I know you love him, and if you do, you must be prepared to give up that love. Love is about fate, maybe it is the result of fate, even if it fails, it does not mean that you are not beautiful, not excellent, not human, it can only mean that he is not your true destiny.

    Whether you succeed or not, please let me know. ad:

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This kind of man,I advise you not to ask for it.。。 Upstairs said well, eating from the bowl and occupying the pot

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is there to be nostalgic for this kind of man.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Squash him, leave him, he doesn't deserve your love

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. My dear, I have absolutely not changed my mind about you, the relationship between us has always been very sincere, and the love between us has always been very stable. The love between us is not only a feeling, but also a trust, a commitment, and a promise that will never change our mind.

    The love between us is a deep feeling, a deep bond, a deep dependence, a deep commitment, and a deep love. The love between us is an eternal love, a love that never changes, a love that never changes, and a love that never leaves. The love between us is a firm love, an unwavering love, a love that never changes, and a love that never changes.

    The love between us is a sincere love, a true love, a love that never changes, and a love that never changes.

    My dear, I have absolutely no change of heart towards you, the relationship between us has always been very sincere, and the love between us has always been very stable. The love between us is not only a feeling, but also a trust, a commitment, and a promise that will never change our mind. The love between us is a deep feeling, a deep bond, a deep dependence, a deep commitment, and a deep love.

    The love between us is an eternal love, a love that never changes, a love that never changes, and a love that never leaves. The love between us is a firm love, an unwavering love, a love that never changes, and a love that never changes. The love between us is a sincere love, a true love, a love that never changes, and a love that never changes.

    Fellow, I really didn't understand, I can be more specific.

    First of all, I would like to say that I am not changing my mind about you, but that there are some problems between us that we need to discuss seriously before we can find a solution. We can start with communication and try to express each other's thoughts and feelings as much as possible in order to better understand each other's thoughts. At the same time, we can also try to let go of our emotions and look at the problem with an objective attitude in order to solve the problem better.

    Finally, we can think together about how to improve the relationship between each other, and how to communicate better so that we can better solve problems. In short, problems between us can be solved through communication and understanding, rather than blindly blaming each other. Only when we can all let go of our emotions and look at problems with an objective attitude can we solve problems more or better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The relationship between men and women has always been very delicate and fragile. Even in a relationship, there are sometimes misunderstandings and even quarrels. However, it can be very painful and heartbreaking when your boyfriend thinks that he has made you change his mind.

    At this time, you need to take some positive steps to salvage your relationship.

    First, you need to try to understand your boyfriend's feelings. He thinks you've changed your mind, most likely because he feels less attention and love from you. Therefore, you need to show him your love and concern for him and spend as much time as possible with him.

    You also need to communicate with him honestly, tell him about your feelings and thoughts, and listen to his opinions and suggestions.

    Second, you need to recall the good times you had together and highlight the values and interests you shared between you. By recalling and renewing your connection and interactions, you are able to make him feel the intimacy between you again, which strengthens your emotional bond.

    Finally, you need to give him time to digest and accept your thoughts and feelings. Sometimes, boys need some time to think and reflect on their feelings and ideas. Therefore, you need to give him enough space and time to process his feelings and keep showing him your support and understanding.

    In conclusion, when your boyfriend thinks you've changed your mind, you need to take some positive steps to salvage your relationship. By understanding his feelings, reminiscing about your good times, and giving him enough time and space to process his feelings, you are able to strengthen your bond, rebuild your emotional bond, and build a deeper intimacy.

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