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Love should be tasted slowly, don't worry, what is yours is yours, not yours, never forced love is not sweet.

It's a normal state of mind, and it's also a very positive state of mind, especially for lovers who break up peacefully. After all, I used to love, and I also had some sweet memories, and it was basically impossible to break it too far, and since then, it has been passers-by, and even enemies to this extent, which cannot be treated normally.

It's normal. Some people want to have the possibility to continue to develop, or they can't forget about each other at all. I personally suggest that after a breakup, it is not appropriate to contact more.

Unless, you don't have him or her in your heart at all, it doesn't matter if you don't contact him or her. If you want to contact, you can contact you, and if you don't contact you, then we will not take the initiative to contact you.

One is that they haven't really loved each other, and it doesn't matter if they are friends, and it has no effect on their further search for a partner; One is that there is still hope for the two to get back together, and they can occasionally continue to chat, eat and meet in the name of friends, and share their lives and moods. There is also a kind of thing that you don't want the other party to forget about yourself, don't want the other party to be so fast, or don't want the other party to find a new partner, but you also know that you won't get back together, that is, you will continue to let the other party go as a friend.

There is no mentality, people are emotional animals, such as nostalgia, many times it is involuntarily, I think it is meaningless to deliberately force yourself, now in this era is nothing to say, as long as you love what I want to do other people's opinions are just boring. For example, after breaking up, your salary is still exchanged for this woman, and I will be friends with you, and it will not affect the finding of a partner to marry and live.

I ate this dish, but I didn't think it was very tasty, but I wasn't going to pour it, so I decided to wait and see if there were any other good dishes, and if there were, then I would eat the other dish, but I didn't pour the dish I ate next to me, and if I wanted to eat it again one day, I would try two more bites.

The person who says this can only say that you have never interacted. It is impossible for people who have really been in love to break up and still be friends. Two people who used to know each other very well broke up because they were not suitable for some reason, thinking how could you still be friends?

I think that breaking up and wanting to be friends can only mean that two people break up peacefully, they don't love each other, and they can return to the state of friends, and then they break up, and one party can't let go, although they can't be lovers, but they want to wait as friends.

Now that we've broken up, why bother to be friends again? If you want to be friends, you must want to get back together, if you don't want to get back together, then don't be friends at all. It's better to go their separate ways and not see each other, and go to find their true love.

He is more Buddhist, open-minded, and does not like to deal with others. The career is relatively successful, and the work is peaceful! Such people are safer! The pattern and field of view are relatively large!

It's good, I'm good friends with my ex-girlfriend now.

Here are three suggestions for your reference: 1. Take the initiative to contact her, tell you what you think, and promise to love her well in the future.

2. Convey your thoughts through her girlfriend or friend, or mutual friend.

3. Wait slowly for her to come to you. But it may never be possible.

In a relationship, if a guy doesn't like a person, he won't be overly enthusiastic about that person, let alone take the initiative or have other emotions.

And once he is emotional, it will become different, he will become very naïve, very jealous, or very concerned about your affairs, want to see you all the time, and will be very happy every time he sees you, these obvious signals are proof that he likes you.

Some girls are often unsure whether a guy loves her or not, but it's as simple as seeing if he will be different from you, or whether he will react emotionally to you.

If he doesn't like you, he will be very indifferent to you, and he will ignore you, and when he likes you completely, he will feel that you are the most important thing, and he will not see anything else in his eyes.

Guys like you completely, often, there are three obvious signals.

1. Naivety. There is a saying that love will make people become children, which means that the person who is completely in love with you, because he likes you, he will become very naïve, he will become jealous, he will not like you to be with other members of the opposite sex, this is the exclusivity of love.

Second, take the initiative. If he loves you, even if you don't take the initiative, he will take the initiative to find you again and again, because he will be afraid of losing you, afraid that if he doesn't take the initiative to find you, he will never be able to contact you again.

When he doesn't love you, he naturally won't take the initiative, "Isn't it good to play games and chase dramas, why should he take the initiative to contact you", this may be his true thoughts, right?

This is the old saying, you can't wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, and you can't make someone you don't like to like you, in this case, giving up is the best choice.

If he's not been proactive enough with you, if you've taken ninety-nine steps and he won't take a step forward, forget it, it's not worth it.

3. Be attentive. The strongest expression of someone who is completely in love with you is that they are attentive.

He will put you in the most important position, he will take your business as his own, he will do everything he can to protect you, this is all his love for you.

In a relationship, the best two words are intentions, only with intentions, you can feel his love, and only with intentions can you know that he really loves you.

Lin Yan met a man who put her in his heart, no matter when, he would think about Lin Yan, and he would bring back delicious and fun things to her, even if he was on a business trip, he didn't forget to bring her gifts.

Sometimes the gifts he brings are not what Lin Yan wants, but as long as he has this heart, she is happy enough and will cherish the gifts he gave her.

If you really fall in love with someone, you will naturally be attentive to her, and you will naturally give her all the good, in your heart, she is the most important person.

When a guy completely likes you, he will have these obvious signals: naïve, active, and attentive, and these are also the most basic requirements in love.

If he loves you, it is not difficult to do this, and most of them can be done naturally, and it will not feel reluctant; If he doesn't love you, even if you force it, he will only perfunctory you.

Whether a person is sincere to you is very simple, you can understand it by looking at the details, I hope you can meet such a boy who is attentive to you, and be happy together for a lifetime.

<>I know each other, first calmly consider whether the two sides will continue, and if they can, hold hands and go on, otherwise they will separate earlier.

Admit your mistakes to her, promise never to happen again, and withstand the test from your girlfriend.

It is necessary to consider whether it is a matter of principle or a problem that is unacceptable to the girl if it is not corrected, depending on the reason for the breakup, different methods can be used to make the girl accept herself, if both parties have each other in their hearts, then usually the boy's insistence is the most useful, of course, the girl's personality characteristics should also be considered.

It's been a month since you broke up, and if you want to reconcile, you can go to her and chat to see if the other party still feels for you.

If the other party is completely dead, then don't stalk it.

If you think she's still right for you, as a boy, you can take the initiative to confess to her, but don't make repeated mistakes, no matter whose fault it is.

Think about what caused the breakup, if you can overcome this problem, then be brave to do what you want to do, if you can't overcome it, you can't change it, then it is very likely that you will separate for the same reason.

Then give it a try and see if she will be with you, if you will repeat the same mistakes, and give it a try if you still like it.

If you want to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, then take the initiative to contact her and ask her out, and impress her with your sincerity.

You test her thoughts first, if she behaves more than positively, it means that she still has feelings for you, if she behaves lovingly, she will ignore it, and persuade you to forget it.

That's a good thing. But whether the other party agrees. Is there a place to object? Figure it out later. Just take the initiative to find it.

In this case, of course, it was kneeling and begging for mercy.

Why did you break up?

Because the boys don't like it anymore? Or a quarrel? Misunderstand? Or what?

If it's because of a quarrel and misunderstanding, everyone is calm down and still likes each other, then chase it back.

If you don't like you because of choice issues, there's no need for it.

Take advantage of the fact that the breakup is not long, hurry up and reconcile.

If you still like to pursue it in time.

There is no set answer to the question of whether you can be friends after a breakup. Everyone's actual situation is different, their ability to understand things is different, and their mentality towards things is different. Each of these circumstances has a profound impact on this choice.

If you have been really in love before, and with the baptism of time, maybe you feel that it is really inappropriate, then a breakup will become inevitable. At this time, breaking up is good for both parties, and if you don't love each other, there is no need to be reluctantly together. Give both parties a little more time and opportunity to pursue their dreams.

It's okay to be friends after a breakup because your breakup wasn't due to one of the parties. Through the development of time, your understanding of people, things, and life has become more profound, and you slowly feel that each other is not the half that the other party is really looking for, so your breakup is inevitable for development. There is not only love in the world, but also family affection, friendship and other ......These can all co-exist, depending on how the individual grasps it.

Because we once loved each other and knew each other better, why couldn't we be friends? It's easy to get a daughter, but it's hard to find a confidant. In our lives, we can meet a few friends who really know us, and breaking up is more than a given, so there is no need to linger. Let go, give each other one more chance, and have a confidant ...... at the same time

Maybe she still likes you a lot! She couldn't bear this feeling, she couldn't let go. Since a girl talks about being friends, what else do you have to hesitate about as a boy?

It's good to be friends! Why be a stranger? Since you don't know what's going on in your heart, give each other a chance to be friends, maybe you're fit to be friends rather than lovers.