When I interact with people, I find that I am not friendly enough! I don t know how to socialize wit

You have low self-esteem and are very unconfident! If you are a student, it is recommended that you participate in group activities or gatherings. Engage with people a lot, even if it doesn't feel natural at first!

You must know that the Chinese language and speaking skills also need to be mastered, and after being able to speak, any affinity will not naturally float in the clouds.

Hello, I think the lack of affinity should be the following reasons.

One is the character that is innate.

The second is that I have a little inferiority complex and don't feel very comfortable expressing myself.

The third is that you don't like the other person very much.

No matter what it is, you have to have more contact with people, and you will gradually work out.

Socializing with people doesn't depend on any affinity, depending on who you interact with, you can use whatever method you use Also, don't be ashamed to socialize because you don't look good, whether you are interacting with anyone, talk generously, awkwardly, and open your movements, say whatever you want, and that's it, I hope it will be useful to you.

Be humorous and good-tempered. The affinity has increased dramatically.

Be a volunteer, persevere

Over time, your natural personality will get much better.

Just be sincere, smile more, practice in the mirror when you're fine, and show your most beautiful smile to others.

Read more books to improve your cultural knowledge, learn to smile, and learn to help others.

These are the things you need to work on yourself, open your mind and work hard.

Once you are born, you are familiar twice, and after a long time of interacting with others, you will have your own set of communication methods.

Rough talk: humor will joke elegant and vulgar appreciation Do not fake clear and high-level words: language Appropriate humor can adjust the atmosphere when talking, and you must know how to joke, when others make fun of you, laugh at it, or use strength to fight, not rushed, dry.

Dress: Appropriate, warm and not brain-dead (I am also "brain-dead" enough to think about typing these two words) can move: there can be physical contact when meeting (don't think about it) The handshake between young friends is outdated, but you can pat each other's shoulders or backs, which makes people feel easy-going (not the kind of shooting of elders, a little bit of fighting).

When you meet for the first time, you can make an appointment for the next meeting to show that you want to get along with each other and be friends, so that people feel that you are not the kind of person who says goodbye when you meet each other Interpersonal relationships need to be well maintained.

Start by saying hello and then keep smiling. A smile is the most powerful**.

Naturally, don't be too kind to others, and don't be too pretentious.

The best argument is to give examples, that is, to highlight what advantages words and actions want to compare. For example, if the prime minister wants to make a speech, he must be tactful and use appropriate words, and he must show that he is very friendly with the people through language, but he cannot shake hands with everyone in public, let alone hug everyone, which shows that the language expression affinity is greater in the scope of the object.

There are also words are tools for communication, actions are not. Since the proposition is communication, if everything in the interaction has to be expressed by action, is it possible? Language is an indispensable communication tool and is convenient and fast.

Take this debate competition as an example, don't the opposing debaters also use words to argue with us? If the opposing debater gives up using language to argue with us, we really can't imagine what the opponent will do to argue with us. Is it force?

Does the opposing debater know what the action is? No matter what action you do, it is to express a thought or a meaning, but have you ever thought that no matter what kind of various actions, it can be boiled down to this as a silent language?

In short, when the debate is on the topic, we should find a lot of facts and examples, which are vivid and easy to suppress. Find out what is beneficial to you and find them, and after finding out them, you can do a rebuttal analysis. Also, in the process, we must reflect quickly, and the examples and words given by the other party should be found as quickly as possible and the loopholes in their arguments should be said.

Debate is not about who is right and who is wrong, but about who responds quickly, whose language is fluent, and whose language is strong and persuasive. What matters is the "improvisational ability" of the three of you.

Prepare according to this line of thought, and you will definitely succeed, bless you.

Be accurate in your arguments, try not to give the other party time to drill, and then prove your own arguments.

Affinity is reluctant, maybe you haven't found the real friend you want to make, in fact, I don't have affinity either, it's like I don't usually talk, sitting there, they all call me a little boring, and then I learned that even though I want to play with them, it always feels weird. Later, I learned that I shouldn't have gotten along with them like this, so not only did I think I was twisted, but they might also think I was weird, and later, hehe, I read a lot of books, what jokes, my brain turned sharply, and sometimes they were very interested in the constellation, so they slowly approached me, saying that I was very individual, like me sometimes cold, and said that I was very good at enlightening people. Slowly it got better, the affinity really depends on the feeling, and after that, I realized that my personality, calm, rational, intelligent, silent, and a person is actually quite good.

I hope my experience has been helpful to you.

There are some things that you have to observe and some people who have affinities, and you must learn something from them, understand? I also have to add my own way of dealing with people, and think about it carefully. You know what you're supposed to do, you know???

Take the initiative to greet others, and have a heartfelt smile, be warm and kind, and be broad-minded.

Be honest with each other, be honest with yourself and be honest with others.

Enthusiasm is not impetuous. Urbane.

The second floor is very good, we can study it, and I also received some education.

Often smiling, friendly, but also with a certain personality.

Smiling, not smirking.

It will be helpful to play and talk to children.