Who should pay for the marriage and what the marriage expenses should be paid by the woman

First of all, how much is the down payment on the house and how much mortgage is paid in 2 years. Whether the man will add your name to the co-owner of the property can go to the real estate office. If the man is willing to add your name to the house, then you can calculate the down payment plus a 2-year mortgage divided by 2.

If the amount of money is about the same as what your family will cost, that's fine. To put it bluntly, it is a fair principle, as for sometimes the other party will show that what you want is feelings, your family doesn't care too much about money, just lose a little. This is simply unreasonable, why don't your family lose something.

And since we live in human society, we can't do without money, and we have made it clear that everyone is down-to-earth, and we are more passive when there is a problem in the future.

That's no fun, now the married woman out of the car (the most basic or equivalent money or material) out of the furniture, how can there be so much besides, the house is still a mortgage, to put it mildly, you didn't pay back the house before the house was not yours, even if the name is not yours Are you so worth.

No, generally the man pays for marriage or something, how can the woman pay for it, even if it is paid, it is not as much as you said, it is not worth it, this is a lifetime, yes, your parents should communicate well with the man's parents.

Hello dear, what kind of money does the married woman need to pay? It can be roughly divided into these four categories. 1. The first is the dowry money, when you get married, you need to prepare the dowry, then these dowries are prepared by the woman herself, of course, there is a dowry called the pressure box money, the mother in case of accidents, the "life-saving money" prepared for the daughter, so that the daughter can come in handy when she is in trouble and lonely, when she gets married, the woman must wear the pressure box money to enter the man's door, according to traditional Chinese customs, it is an auspicious omen, on behalf of both men and women have savings before they get married.

2. The second is the decoration money in the woman's house, after all, marriage is a great event, at this time, of course, the home should be decorated a little more festive, so this decoration money is also from the woman's family. 3. In the final change of the kissing link, after the newlyweds have given tea to the woman's parents, the woman's parents need to change the lipstick envelope for the newlyweds, so the amount of this lipstick envelope is usually relatively large. 4. The fourth is the homecoming banquet after marriage, usually on the third day after the wedding, the newlyweds need to go back to the woman's house together, so on this day, the woman needs to hold a homecoming banquet to invite the woman's relatives and friends to come over, so all the expenses on the homecoming banquet are also paid by the woman's family.

【Wedding Hotel】

The wedding hotel is definitely the big part of a wedding, and it needs to account for 50%-60% of the entire wedding budget. The cost of the hotel depends on the size of the hotel chosen by the couple, the size of the wedding menu, etc. The ** of the wedding hotel will vary according to different cities and different hotels, but the general wedding hotel ranges from 3000 to 7000 yuan per table.

In addition to the ** of the banquet, the wedding hotel also needs to pay attention to some other expenses:

1. Venue fee. When choosing a hotel, be sure to ask if there is a venue fee.

2. Entrance fee. The entrance fee is different from the venue fee, and some hotels have their own wedding company, so if you bring your own wedding company, you will need to charge an entrance fee when setting up the scene.

3. Corkage fee and service fee. Before the engagement reception, ask if there are any of these two expenses, and if so, you can negotiate and bargain, which can save a lot of money.

If you want to make the wedding cost-effective and save some money, it is recommended that the newlyweds visit a few more hotels, shop around, choose the most suitable hotel, and also save a lot of wedding costs.

Wedding company] If you want a perfect and dreamy wedding, the on-site decoration of the wedding company is always indispensable. Spending on wedding companies typically accounts for 10%-20% of the overall budget. The advice given is still three currencies, choose the most cost-effective wedding company, the reason is, of course, you can still save money!

The Four King Kongs] The Four King Kongs include the celebrant, makeup artist, photographer, and videographer, and generally account for 10% of the wedding. The Four King Kongs are also very important for a normal wedding, and some wedding companies may include the Four King Kongs, but it is recommended to find them yourself, and it is most important to find the one that suits your wedding style.

Costumes] The bride and groom's clothing style budget can be placed between 10% and 15% of the overall wedding budget. The bride will generally have three sets of looks on the wedding day, a going out veil, a ceremony veil, and a toasting dress. It's best for newcomers to choose their own clothes according to their budget.

In addition to the costumes of the newlyweds, the costumes of the bridesmaids and groomsmen, and the costumes of the parents all need to be prepared.

Jewelry] Jewelry is also a significant expense in weddings, accounting for 10%. Including diamond rings, pair rings, necklaces, tokens and so on.

Wedding car, tobacco and alcohol, candy].

5%-8%. The cost of the wedding car includes the rental of the wedding car and the decoration of the wedding car, if you want to save money, you can borrow a friend's car to form a team.

Reserves] Reserves are set aside 5% as a reserve in case of emergencies at the wedding.

Wedding expenses.

1. Buying a wedding house.

For most young people, the basic condition for marriage is to have a matrimonial house of their own. Although you can live in a rented house, if you start a family, you definitely need your own house, which is conducive to raising children. If you buy a house in a big city, it will cost at least a million.

If you buy a house in a small city, or build a house by yourself, you will need hundreds of thousands.

Wedding expenses. 2. Buy a car.

Cars have become standard in most families, and they will definitely be bought after marriage. When getting married, if the man buys a matrimonial house, then the woman can buy a car. Depending on the situation at home, it is possible to buy a car of about 100,000 yuan.

If the conditions are better, buy a car of more than 300,000 yuan.

Wedding expenses. 3. Dowry.

No matter what region it is, there is a bride price for marriage, but the standard is different. In some areas, the bride price is as high as 100,000 yuan, and in some areas it is only about 10,000 yuan, and there is no specific standard for this part of the fee. The dowry is generally determined according to the amount of the bride price, and the richer the bride price, the more the dowry.

In many cases, the dowry given by the woman is returned with a bride price.

Wedding expenses. Fourth, three golds for marriage.

In many areas, there is a custom of three gold or hardware, that is, when getting married, the man's family should buy three gold jewelry or hardware jewelry for the woman. **Compared with the previous one, the sum of the three gold is about 20,000 yuan. If it is hardware, the cost is higher, maybe about 50,000 yuan.

Wedding expenses. 5. Wedding procurement.

There are many things that need to be purchased for marriage, and this part of the cost is the purchase of wedding goods. First of all, there are relatively large expenses, including wedding dresses, wedding rings, etc., which are about 30,000 yuan. The second is some small items, such as balloons, latte art, and happy characters used in the decoration of the wedding room.

There are also some things that need to be bought, such as red envelopes, cigarettes, candy, etc.

Wedding expenses. 6. Hire a wedding.

Getting married is much easier, and it also requires a certain amount of money. Before getting married, the couple should take wedding photos, which are generally between three thousand and eight thousand. At the wedding site, the wedding should be set up in the venue and the stage should be set up.

Wedding staff also need expenses, generally including photography, makeup artists and hosts, and the costs add up to tens of thousands of yuan.

Wedding expenses. 7. Wedding banquet.

The wedding banquet is prepared to thank the guests, and this part of the cost is usually offset by the gift money. If the couple chooses a more high-end hotel, then the cost of the wedding banquet will be higher. If there are more guests attending the wedding, the cost will be higher.

There is no specific standard for this part, which is roughly between 30,000 yuan and 100,000 yuan.

Wedding expenses. 8. Honeymoon trips.

After getting married, the couple usually arranges a trip called a honeymoon. The benefits of honeymoon travel are so numerous that this part of the budget should be set aside in advance. If you are traveling within the country for a week, the cost for two people is about 5,000 yuan.

If you travel abroad for a week, the cost is about 15,000 to 30,000 yuan.

It depends on whether the countryside or the city is in the city, if it is in the city, the woman may not account for so much at all, it may be enough to simply hold a wedding, the important thing is that the two people live together, repay the loan together, etc.

But in the countryside, this is a lot of money, first of all, it is commonly said that you have to be motionless, the car is moving, and the house is not moving. An ordinary car costs about 100,000 yuan, a set of buildings in the county town will cost about 300,000 yuan, which will cost 400,000 yuan, in fact, you have to give a dowry to girls, thousands of purple and red and green, 10,000 purple 5 yuan, that is, 50,000, 1,000 red is 100,000 yuan, and a green one yuan, which is too much to count, anyway, at least about 200,000, and some local dowry will directly ask for three gold (catties), that is, 3 catties of 100 yuan, which is also nearly 200,000. The dowry alone costs about 600,000 yuan for a house and a car.

Let's talk about the meeting gift for girls, the change of mouth fee, the customs are different in different places, and it probably costs a few thousand yuan. Before getting married, it costs thousands of dollars to take a girl to buy clothes and the like, and three gold (gold necklaces. Gold rings, gold earrings) These also cost about 10,000.

You can't buy a house and leave it empty, computers, TVs, air conditioners, refrigerators, etc., which are well decorated for 5 or 60,000 yuan. That's about 80,000.

This is not yet to get married, at the wedding ceremony, the banquet, if the standard configuration of each table in the county is 1,000 yuan, 20 tables will cost 20,000 yuan, if the configuration is a little higher, it will cost 30,000 or 40,000 yuan. So the total is 70,800,000, I am a girl, but I have to say that it is really not easy for a boy to get married. Therefore, the parents of boys are also under great pressure, and I want to tell everyone that these material things are not important, and it is important to find the right talent.

There is no standard for the cost of marriage, and it should be based on financial ability, after all, it is necessary to consider the future married life. Some people have the money to make the wedding very beautiful, and then they divorce not long after, so the quality of the marriage does not depend on how high the wedding is and how luxurious it is.

The exact cost of marriage varies from place to place in China. Because the consumption level of each region is different, there are great differences, and some places need to buy a house, buy a car, and have a huge bride price. Therefore, the exact amount of money depends on the region.

If it is a woman, it depends on how much your parents have prepared for you to marry, usually within 100,000, and if it is a man, the wine money and gift money are about 300,000 yuan in all aspects.

It depends on the financial situation of the two of you, and the two of you must discuss and make a decision, and decide according to your actual situation.

Generally, ordinary marriages only need about 10,000 yuan, and you can choose a five-star hotel to set up wine, which can be set up about 30 tables, and each table needs to cost 1,200 yuan, a total of about 10,000 yuan. If 220 people came that day, and the red envelopes for the wedding were generally 100 yuan per person, roughly calculated as a gift of about 10,000 yuan, then the wedding banquet probably cost about 10,000 yuan.

In addition, it took 3,500 yuan to take wedding photos, 10,000 yuan to buy jewelry, and 10,000 yuan to buy dresses and shoes, in addition, there will definitely be colleagues or friends on the day of marriage, and there are 36 people on parole, and they went to a hotel to book 15 rooms to settle them down, and they only need about 1,500 yuan; The honeymoon of the young couple can choose to be in China, such as going to Sichuan for a honeymoon trip for 20 days, and plan to spend about 10,000 yuan. In this way, it adds up to about 10,000 to solve the problem.

Depending on the situation, the number of factories in relatively wealthy areas is relatively high, reaching 500,000 or 600,000, and the total number of factories in poor land and rural areas is about 200,000 or 300,000.

<> "Who Pays for Marriage?"

1. Who pays for the banquet?

Engagement Banquet: Both women and men are acceptable.

Wedding Reception: Male Spouse.

Homecoming: Woman.

2. What are the bride prices?

Three gold hardware.

Meeting gift (given by the father-in-law and mother-in-law for the first time when they meet their daughter-in-law).

Gift money for getting on and off the bus (Tujili on the wedding day).

3. Who will buy the three gold hardware?

Three collapses are carried with gold: earrings, rings, bracelets.

Hardware: earrings, rings, bracelets, necklaces, pendants or anklets (anklets) are generally purchased by the groom's mother.

4. Which party is more important in marriage customs?

When getting married, the woman is the main one.

At the time of the wedding, the man is the main partner.

5. How to send wedding red envelopes?

Bridesmaids and groomsmen: about 200 (there is no need for red envelopes if there are souvenirs).

Driver: If it is a borrowed wedding car, you need to give a red envelope (ranging from 100-200 to a cigarette + gift package).

Witnesses: $600 800 $1000 to make the bed.

Rolling bed: 20 50 120 200 yuan.

Matchmaker: about 800 (according to local wedding customs).

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The Four King Kongs: Can be given or not given (to the candy is also a group).