He said that if the process of dating feels inappropriate, anyone can propose to break up!

I think he is a more rational person, and he thinks about problems more comprehensively, and will consider all kinds of possibilities. This kind of man is more mature in his thinking and stable in his focus, in fact, there is nothing wrong with explaining it first. In today's environment, we should think realistically.

You can think of it this way, if you want to separate because you feel that your personality is incompatible and other reasons, do you want him to simply let you go, or do you want to stalk and hold on to you......Isn't this going to hurt feelings even more, and it's also a way to make an agreement in advance. Now there is no agreement signed before marriage, how to say, people in the relationship may be easy to be impulsive, if you take advantage of the situation to give yourself some protection to a certain extent, it can still play a role. There are some possible problems that we don't need to wait for to appear before we think about how to solve them, and some can be avoided ......

This is normal, if you find that two people are not suitable, there is no need to be together again.

After all, life is realistic.

He values you very much, and he doesn't want to hurt you, so make the ugly things clear first, which will reduce your psychological burden and make you more considerate.

It's okay to have a good relationship now.

Saying those things is just for fear that the other party's personality is not compatible or something, and there is nothing to care about.

It's to leave a way back for yourself, and you don't have to put all your energy on you.

Since it all feels inappropriate.

It's better for the woman to mention it.

The man should be a bit gentlemanly.

It's all good, since they all feel that it's not suitable, then it's good to get together and disperse, whoever proposes it is the same, and it's the worst to drag it out without mentioning it.

That's a strange question!

What happens when a man proposes it? What about the woman's proposal?

What's the difference?

It's all hurting each other, aren't they?

Say it if you don't feel right! There is nothing to regret, the good ones are in the future!

If the man has feelings for the man, then the woman will say it, if the man still has feelings for the woman, then the woman will reject it, if the woman has feelings for the man, but the man does not, I think it should be proposed by the party without feelings, so the emotional party will be hurt more, but it's okay, hurry up, in general, it should be a girl.

Times are different, men and women are the same.

If the two really have no feelings, and they don't want to mention breaking up, it's over.

If you don't want to say it, don't say it, it's okay not to be together, just understand it yourself.

Then you like him too.

If you really have no feelings at all, break up immediately and don't worry too much.

Feelings cannot be forced, and they must be ruthlessly refused.

Then you don't want to continue dating her, don't contact him, **blacklist, hide, since you don't want to date, why do you still contact him? Better a finger off than always aching.

Refuse outright, don't drag the mud and water.

Refuse harshly. But if the man's personality is not good, don't do this, I'm afraid it will become a peach blossom disaster.

Then what do you promise!! Why are you so stupid?

Reject him directly, do not save face for him.

Find someone you like.

Girl, do you think your love is cheap now?

First of all, you have given him a lot, guide.

Edition to myself is not.

The power withdrew.

I understand your pain right now, and you don't get it and pay for it again.

Then, you want to bind him through your dedication, which will only make him feel more and more pressure and you make a fatal mistake.

If you always joke about breaking up or something.

Then this thing will become a reality in the end, don't think it's incredible, or whatever, because you didn't say it once, in fact, it is subconsciously strengthened once, you can use a breakup to solve the problems you encounter in front of you, it's hard to say how your relationship will go.

But hopefully you'll be able to pick up your self-esteem.

Sometimes it's not that you don't love each other, it's that you stick too tightly to each other.

It's not that your world wouldn't go on without him.

Actually, it's better for you to let it go now.

Instead, he went back to pay attention to what you've been doing lately.

What has changed no.

And you have to calm down along the way.

Whether it's traveling, reading a book, or chatting with friends and family.

After all, you need to take a step back now.

I hope that every long-distance relationship can be cultivated to a positive result. It's really hard and tiring to be in a different place, and it's a specialization after surviving a different place.

Bear! The two sides of the relationship, with the passage of time, the dependence of the surrounding couples, and the influence of you and me, I hope that there can be such a person around me. I really admire the kind of people who can achieve positive results in a long time in a different place, and they deserve to be happy.

Some words are difficult to say in a lifetime, once the word breakup is spoken, it will insert a thorn in the other party's heart, and if you don't say it once, it will be deeper; There is always a day when the puncture is pierced. You promised him before, but then for various reasons you didn't fulfill it, and the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

It feels like you still have feelings, and you both love each other deeply; Let's talk about it.

Question 1: Long-distance relationship, copying long-distance relationships is actually more difficult for couples, you said before that you will be with a boy in duzhi

In a city, boys may still feel that there is something to look forward to, but now you don't want to quit, boys will feel that the long-distance relationship will not end.

Question 2: The problem of getting along mode, always use breakup to say things, although you have not thought about leaving in your heart, but it will give boys psychological expectations, and boys actually need a sense of security, you always say that you want to break up, boys will feel unsteady.

Question 3: Winning back a boy actually requires you to improve yourself, so that the girl thinks you are attractive, so that the boy will not leave you. You have had a child for a boy before, and it is true that you have paid a lot, but this matter cannot be a bargaining chip for a boy not to leave you for the rest of his life.

If you have any other questions, please feel free to chat with me privately.

People say they are tired, then you think about what caused him to be so tired from being together to now, and the place that should be changed is inside.

Change it appropriately. Appearance.

Instead of trying to keep it based on feelings, it will be counterproductive, and you should try to remind him of the happy days when they were together before, so that he will choose to continue because of the past.

People who can consider getting married, don't be as naïve as falling in love, always saying that you want people to coax you to break up at the end of three days, so it's really tiring, you're tired at work, and if you make trouble like this when you get off work or rest, no one can stand it.

Think for yourself first.

You recognize him as you will be you for the rest of your life.

People don't want to let go, why do they take the breakup at every turn to blackmail dao? If you hear this kind of thing too much, you will really get tired, and the boy will answer unconsciously and think: Divide it, I'm afraid you won't make it?

Don't say anything, you're just joking and talking casually, some jokes are really not as good as they are.

Why is it that most of the breakups between men and women are often more decisive in the process of dating by men, and women are struggling to stay? The process of interacting between men and women is actually a process of adding and subtracting points, with girls doing addition and boys doing subtraction. Boys fall in love with a girl, and then pursue her, the inner rating of the girl is very high (not high, it will not be chased), with the development of the relationship, every time the girl dies, the boy will silently subtract points from the girl in his heart, and so on to fail...

Naturally, the heart is dead, and what is shown is ruthlessness; And most of the girls are the party being pursued, at the beginning may not have much affection for this hairy young man, just a: look not bad, try to have a mentality to start dating, the inner rating of the boy may be just passed, with the deepening of the relationship, the boy does some romantic things and slowly adds points, which causes the above situation: when the boy breaks up, the boy seems ruthless, and the girl is often hurt deeply.

So I don't think it's very likely that you want to chase it back, your problem is that you don't communicate with each other enough during the relationship, and you don't really think about the future of both parties.

If you're tired, you're tired.,Bai doesn't like du, it's like.,Zhi everything has passed.,He probably doesn't want to.。

With you, you have a future, but looking for another, what you want is happiness, what he wants is to leave, this is the relationship that two people can't support, feelings can't be forced, you can have a good chat with him, you have to think about yourself, for your own future, he lets go You can also let go, there are fewer girls than boys in this world, and there are many, many better than him

Seeing what you said, you guys are in a long-distance relationship. bai

First of all, a long-distance relationship needs to overcome du

There are many obstacles, the most important of which is trust and DAO is always around when the other person is needed. Look at what you said that you promised him to go to live in his city before, which shows that he must be really tired, and also asked you the question of not being in a long-distance relationship. You often mention breaking up, and it's understandable that girls use this to see if boys still love themselves.

Coaxing, too. But remember that you are in a long-distance relationship, and too many times this will make him think that you are too immature or that you have a better place to belong (spare tire), because he does not know who you are with every day and who you are in contact with. Over time, if you keep mentioning breaking up, it will create a problem of distrust.

I don't know if you made it clear to him about the time when you promised him to go to live in his city, or if you just said yes and didn't tell him exactly when you wanted to go.

If his heart is no longer there, he really has to think about his future happiness, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

It's normal to want to break up.

Oh, du, although you haven't thought about breaking up, but if dao often talks about breaking up, you can answer once or twice, and you can say too much, people will also think in their hearts that you want to break up anyway, just like a married person can't often talk about divorce, if you can't say anything at every turn, maybe one day you will really leave on impulse, it seems that he is the kind of person who speaks and does things very resolutely, maybe you have to consider replacing you to chase him.

After the resignation, he and.

Are you married? If he marries you, quit your job! Otherwise, there is no chance.

Also, does he hate you anymore? Or do you have someone else to love? If you want to stay with him and get married, promise him to quit your current job.

Don't lose him for work.

On November 20, 2018, you posted a second answer for help, and there was no satisfactory answer for you?

Who will love you after the freshness, silly girl, break up, go find the next true love, your boyfriend is probably a spare lover, you have been green, scumbag I can see.

Only women with low emotional intelligence like to talk about breakups and divorces.

My girlfriend also often talks to me about breaking up, and to be honest, I've been listening to it for a long time, even if she really wants to break up, I don't care.

There is nothing to recognize, mutual understanding can last. Look down, pay attention to yourself, and in the end, find a way to live for yourself.

Men hate women who talk about breakups at every turn.

No, it's the same situation as you, it's actually that he has a spare tire.

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Four months isn't too long.

So take care of it yourself ...

Since she has begun to be cold to you, it means that the two of you have understood each other in the process of dating, and she thinks it is inappropriate to propose to break up.

If you really want to get back together, talk to her deeply, just to not let yourself have regrets If the other party is still very firm, then you should stop pestering, be careful that the other party dislikes you or even has a greater disgust towards you.

I think there is a certain reason, but he doesn't want to say it. I don't know why, it's useless to make a guess.

Have you had any conflicts before?! There is also a big boy, who still wants a career or something! That girl doesn't like high-spirited guys.

You have to keep in touch with her every day, and then you have to pick her up, and you have to pick her up, and you know that she wants to talk to you, and you have to talk to her more and communicate more, and ask her what's going on, and then make a decision.

There may be a more suitable one than you, be careful.

Try to find out from the people around you if something happened or if there is any misunderstanding about you, if there is nothing, it is not like you, and if so, you can let it go.

There is no grass everywhere in the world, and we must learn to let go.

Or because of some will

Girl, you have to know that reluctance is not enough, you must learn to be open-minded!

A boy, especially a guy like Cancer, who has gone out to eat with you 3-4 times, is observing you, and after a few contacts, he finds that you are not the type he wants, so he decisively proposes that it is not suitable, which is not only good for him, but also a responsible behavior for you! Since you said that you have never officially dated, then why did he propose to break up, the result is already obvious, but as a girl, you don't want to accept the facts, in fact, people have to learn to be open-minded!