When I fell out of love, how to thank the people who had hurt me

No one deliberately wants to hurt anyone, especially someone who has been in love before. No matter what others have done to hurt you, you have to learn to accept it, and don't ask him how he can do this to me, because he has already done it, and the reality is the greatest, whether to do it or not is his business, and whether to accept it or not is your business.

If you are hurt, you will definitely grow, and the person who hurts you is helping you grow, and you can thank him. No matter what, don't reject any of your emotions, whether it's nostalgia or sadness, things will always pass, tomorrow will still be beautiful, really, come on!

No thanks, no harm!

Unless you can't let go of him or her.

It is said that we will meet about 29.2 million people in our lifetime, the probability of two people meeting is in, and the probability of falling in love is in, the probability of two people becoming friends is 1 in 200 million, to meet you in the crowd, is to continue the fate of the previous life, thank you for every encounter, even if it is just one side, I believe that the appearance of each person has a special meaning, thank you for what I have met, and thank you for everything the world has given me. Cherish the present, don't forget the original intention.

Fate is so precious, so we should cherish everyone who appears in our lives, some people are here to thank you and bring you good luck, some people are here to let you experience life and make you richer, and some people are also to bring you pain and make you cherish the people who are good to you more. No matter which one they are, no matter how they appear, it is certain that their appearance is to teach you something, to make you understand something, so everyone's appearance is meaningful.

I once met people who hurt me, treat them with heart, but in exchange for hurt, and even left a deep scar on my heart, which cannot be erased, and now I feel pain when I think about it, but he let me see a lot of things clearly, the world is hot and cold, not everyone will be sincere to you, and not every sincerity of yours can be exchanged for the kindness of others, the world is so big, everyone has it.

We live in this world, we need to keep our eyes open, let ourselves be less hurt, if it can't be avoided, then face it bravely, just as a growth, growth is painful, only the pain next time will we learn to be smart, so such people are also helping us grow, help us achieve success and happiness as soon as possible.

Although there are thousands of people in the world, there are not many people you can meet, not many good friends, not many good friends, it is enough to have so many nine confidants, happy families, good friends, and living a healthy and happy life in your own small circle may not be a kind of happiness.

So although some people have injured our hands, it doesn't matter, the road ahead is long, eat a trench and grow a wisdom, I believe that you will definitely walk more steadily in the future, thank you for those who have hurt me, thank you for making me stronger, you are the acceleration zone on my growth road, I will not be afraid in the future, I will still believe that there are good people in this world, I will still see the sunny side of the world, and still be that cute and kind self.

The road that has been traveled has been right and wrong, and there are gains and losses. No one can keep the footsteps of time forward, let alone change the footprints of history.

When people live, there will be a lot of harm, and this is life. It is the countless hurts and hurts that make us grow and let us understand what life is.

Don't be afraid of hurting, and don't hate the people who have hurt you, because they are the ones who tell us the truth of life, they are the ones who teach us how to grow, and they are the ones who make us stronger.

Don't hate them, thank them, thank those who have hurt you, and thank them with a loving heart.

People always grow up in adversity. I like the phrase people often say, "Go fly, birds can't fly freely without experiencing the baptism of the blue sky." ”

Thank you to everyone who has hurt me. They have made my realm more lofty and cherish every moment that warms my heart even more. Dear friends, please thank those who have hurt you.

Because only this sincere gratitude shows that your mature and strong heart can withstand any storm on the road of life.

Love, love one's relatives and friends, is a good person, love one's enemies, love one's own people who have hurt oneself are great people. When you think about it, what could be greater than loving someone who has hurt you? A journey of love, everyone with a sincere heart, support each other, rather than suffer their own hardships, not let friends hurt their hearts, and complete this journey full of thorns and difficult to Shu Road.

Humility, as the saying goes, "threesome, there must be my teacher" can always find a place that is better than oneself in others, live to be old, learn old, be good at discovering the advantages of others, and have the courage to learn the strengths of others. In this way, you can make your body and mind constantly improve in life.

The heart of praise, the timely praise of those fleeting beauty; Sincerely praise the beauty of those who have hurt you, love is born in praise, friendship is born in praise, family affection is sublimated in praise, tolerance and tolerance are born from this.

The heart of tolerance, the ancient saying is that people are not sages, who can be without fault? In real life, people will always have this and that kind of shortcomings, and no one is perfect. In reality, everyone wants others to tolerate their shortcomings and accept our shortcomings, so why not start with ourselves?

As long as we are more considerate of others in the face of contradictions, tolerating others is equivalent to tolerating ourselves.

Thanksgiving, thanks to our parents, for raising us; Thank you teachers for giving us wisdom; Thanks to friends, a lonely life is accompanied by you; Thanks to the people who have hurt us, life is bumpy because of you, and life is even more wonderful because of you; Thanks to life, it has given us a stage ...... enlightening life

We come from chance, in the sky of life, we get together, life is short, cherish what we have today so that we will not regret the departure tomorrow. In life, we should use these "five hearts" to demand, motivate, encourage, and encourage ourselves.

We are constantly looking for all kinds of excuses for life, and we can also find a peaceful sky in the world in nature, many times, living in a noisy city, the body and mind are confused by the surrounding environment! For example, many people feel indignant when they see others stronger than themselves! Thinking that we must transcend the past.

Transcendence itself is a very remarkable thing for humanity! And at the beginning, do you also realize that at the beginning of you, you have gone in the wrong direction, fate is not something you and I can succumb to, when your mind is entangled in reality, has begun to fall into the fall, the fall is just a way of life from your own! The achievement you have worked so hard to achieve is a different feeling.

The person who hurts you is doing something that makes you feel hurt. Let you discover your weaknesses and be able to grow, so be grateful!

When we give flowers to others, we are the first to smell the flowers.

When we grab mud and want to throw it at someone, it's our own hands that get dirty first.

A warm word is like sprinkling perfume on someone else's body, and you will get two or three drops of it, so you should always have good intentions, walk on a good path with your feet, do good deeds, and cherish your fate and plant blessings.

Many times, we need to leave a little gap in our lives, just like the safe distance between the two cars, a little room for slowing down, we can adjust ourselves at any time, advance and retreat in order, the space for life needs to be cleared and reduced, and the space of the soul is expanded through thinking and comprehension.

When playing bridge, we have to play the deck of cards we have in our hands, whether good or bad, to the fullest.

It's the same with life, it's not what happens, it's the way we deal with it, if we turn to the sun, we can't fall into the shadows, the light makes us see many things, and we can't see many things, if there is no night, we can't see the shining stars in the sky.

Therefore, even the painful ordeal that once made us unbearable is not completely worthless, but it can make our will stronger and our thinking and personality more mature.

Therefore, when difficulties and setbacks come, we should deal with them calmly and optimistically, and do not rub each other in the right and wrong, some words are not heavy, but if you are not careful, you will fall heavily on the hearts of others, and at the same time, you should also train yourself not to be easily hurt by other people's words and change your mind.

You can't decide the length of life, but you can control its width, you can't control the weather, but you can change your mood, you can't change your look, but you can smile, you can't control others, but you can control yourself, you can't predict tomorrow, but you can take advantage of today, you can't win everything, but you can do everything you can, you can be grateful for everything, you can be grateful for the one who hurts you, because he has tempered your mind, grateful to the one who deceives you, because he has increased your wisdom, grateful to those who slander you, Because he has sharpened your character, he is grateful to those who have whipped you, because he has inspired you, he is grateful to those who have abandoned you, because he taught you to be independent, he is grateful to those who have tripped you, because he has strengthened your legs, he is grateful to those who have rebuked you, because he has reminded you of your shortcomings, to be grateful in everything, to be grateful. Be grateful to everyone who has made you grow!

It's hard to try to forget love.

It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

So don't try to forget that you don't want to forget.

Remember. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

That's a beautiful place in your heart......

It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

That's a beautiful place in your heart......