What are the disadvantages of puppy love, and what are the pros and cons of puppy love?

Here's my absolute originality, not plagiarism:

I often hear people talking about early love, and I would like to share my opinion on early love as a 19-year-old

I'm against puppy love, but I want everyone to have puppy love once.

Oh, don't understand?

Rationale: People who are in puppy love simply can't understand the following questions:

Why puppy love is bad.

Why does puppy love always fail.

What's wrong with early love, we have fate!

My response to this is:

People in early love are not mature enough in their thinking, and they can't look far, they only know that the two are very happy together now, and there are no contradictions, so they firmly believe that they are a natural pair.

Over time, they will slowly discover that there are many subjective and objective loopholes in the feelings they see each other.

For example, one party is short-tempered and the other is just very impatient. This is rarely found in love, and even if it is discovered, it may not be taken seriously, because people in love rarely give up ruthlessly because they realize that they can't do it.

Therefore, people who are in love are confident that their love is perfect......

Speaking of which, looking back, why do I want everyone to fall in love again?

Reason: As I said, there are some things that people will never understand if they don't experience them. Just like parents attach great importance to their children's learning, especially down-and-out parents, who are now suffering losses and downfalls, only to realize that they should really study hard in the first place.

In the same way, who believes how bad it is to say that early love is for the majority of teenagers?

So, let each of them go through it once, and just once it will be possible for him to become mature.

I just woke up from a so-called "broken love" and became mature overnight.

There are some things that people really can't understand without going through them.

But who knows ......

It's good to fail once, be mature, and be sensible.

But can some people learn the lessons of failure?

Some people ......If you fail once, you will never get up again. Like those who are impulsive and short-sighted......

Puppy love ......If you've already started and can't help yourself, my advice is to take a last-ditch measure, perhaps a more national one:

Keep your distance. Keep your distance.

It's good to keep this relationship at a distance that is a little closer than your friends, and don't deepen it.

The benefits of keeping this distance are:

It won't have much impact on life, and there won't be much of a problem with general relationships.

The most important thing is that once you fail in the end, you won't fall badly. Because you're glad you didn't give that much affection.

Some people don't grasp the distance well, give their feelings desperately, and finally fail and fall badly.

Even if you succeed, will you fail because you don't give all your affection?

Therefore, grasping the distance is a way to prevent falling too badly and have no impact on success, the best of both worlds.

In early love, I can't extricate myself, and under the fact that I have a success rate in early love.

Advice to classmates in early love - keep that distance.

It not only satisfies your psychological needs, but also leaves a way out for yourself. Maybe it's like Zhang Shaohan's "Dear, That's Not Love" My feelings

will lose his soul all day long, do not work seriously, and have precocious thoughts.

It will affect learning and delay study.

1. Middle school students' early love is advantageous.

It can meet one's emotional needs, love can avoid interpersonal loneliness, love can help both parties improve, love helps to understand the opposite sex, love is exciting, love is romantic.

2. The disadvantages of early love among middle school students.

a. Affect learning and life. Some secondary school students mistakenly believe that "as long as two people are like-minded, it will not affect learning" or "promote mutual learning". However, from a medical point of view, young lovers are often centered on love, and their emotions are restrained by each other, coupled with physical and mental immaturity, it is almost impossible to not affect learning.

The reason why many parents and teachers can find out about their children's early love is often because their academic performance has declined.

b. Early love is easy to get hurt. Adolescents have an unstable attitude, are prone to contradictions in love, are psychologically immature, fragile and have poor tolerance, and are easily hurt by emotional twists and turns. Some teenagers doubt their lives because of the frustration of early love, casting a shadow on their emotional life, and even affecting their future married life.

c. Early love is prone to sexual negligence. Teenagers have a germinating sense of sexuality, are easily excited, and are reckless of the consequences of their actions because of their whims. And after deviant behavior, they will be ashamed to speak up and be afraid.

These will have an impact on the rest of your life. The inferiority complex and frustration that some people develop can even seriously affect their later life.

The pros are to bear prematurely, and the disadvantages are to lose their innocence prematurely!