What should I do if I go to college, look mediocre, and have no confidence in myself?

Updated on educate 2024-04-01
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As long as people have a correct understanding of themselves and can look at others and themselves holistically, they will feel that they are not so bad, but they may feel that they are not in the best state or care too much about the opinions or ideas of others. And other people's opinions or ideas are often one-sided, causing you to have an unnecessary sense of inferiority. As long as you do the bad things and repeat them a few more times, you will gradually become familiar with them, things can be done well, give yourself more encouragement, and believe that you can do it well!

    People can't retreat when they encounter difficulties, they must face them bravely! And resolutely correct! And a little more optimistic!

    Smile a little more! Believe in these and you will be fine! will be more confident.

    How to build self-confidence.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Self-confidence ** in your inner self As long as you have the ability, no one dares to say anything no matter how ugly you are.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are a lot of people who are mediocre-looking! But there are also many mediocre and mediocre people! Appearance doesn't mean anything, college, study hard, actively participate in social practice, lively and cheerful, enthusiastic and generous... Keep building your own personality charm, in this way, you will definitely have a group of friends, and you will definitely attract him in your heart, don't lose confidence, come on!!

    Bless you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let me tell you a word, it's better to be beautiful than to live beautifully? Since your appearance cannot be changed, then improve your soul!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are no ugly women, only lazy women.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is a very normal phenomenon, you can participate in more outdoor activities, learn more knowledge, to improve yourself and enrich yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You just encountered difficulties, a little discouraged, people are not so smooth in this life, there are always this and that shortcomings, everyone must be psychologically prepared to face difficulties, maybe you have been very smooth in the past, you can't bear some difficulties, remember that there is no hurdle that cannot be passed, face it bravely, everything will be fine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find your own direction, set a goal, and work hard.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Typical lack of self-confidence, how can you be handsome without self-confidence!

    Those who have a girlfriend early are not necessarily the most handsome, and those who have a girlfriend early may not be long.

    First of all, handsome is not just a perfect face, but a person needs to have confidence and strength. That kind of handsomeness is from the inside out, and it is charming. The understanding of Shuai should be objective and comprehensive.

    Secondly, having a girlfriend very early is not necessarily a good thing. It should be put in perspective.

    What LZ needs to do now is to complete his studies seriously, enrich himself, let himself have connotation (this is the most popular for girls), and learn more things is the right way. Don't waste your good time while you're young. With.

    The more you learn and the more you know, the more your vision will improve, and you will be able to figure out some questions. As your knowledge grows, you'll be pleasantly surprised to find that you're more confident than before. At that time, if you look for a mirror yourself, you may find that you are even more handsome and attractive than you are now.

    At that time, there will definitely be good girls who are attracted to you. The girlfriend is early, so it's better to make it better. The face is handsome, not as knowledgeable, and the light that exudes self-confidence is lovely.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's okay, studies are important, and the eyes of the masses are bright, believe in yourself

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Self-confidence comes from the inside out, first of all, you must have a confident and optimistic heart, then you will be happy and there will be no problem with your appearance. Not backward, very trendy, the children of the post-90s generation are not ordinary.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Academics are important, this era is not about who falls in love early, and who is better in the future, so I still advise you to focus on your studies, and there will naturally be good women for you in the future. Now your relationship is just playing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Know how to dress yourself.

    You also want to make your personality attractive!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What's wrong with the children now, they are proud to have a girlfriend. I wanted a daughter-in-law early?? Studying hard is what you're after.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, in most cases, except for plastic surgery, etc.

    There is no way to make a big change in appearance. Confident or not, your version is like this, uncontrollable things, why bother.

    Don't live in endless comparisons. Everyone's preferences are different, and when the mood is different, looking at the same thing is also a different feeling. There are those who are more handsome than you, and naturally there are those who are not as good-looking as you.

    Do: Dressed neatly, the face clean, and the hair neatly groomed. Regardless of boys and girls, pay attention to your personal image, and you can slowly see appreciation and envy in the eyes of others.

    Naturally, you will become confident. No matter how handsome a person is, he can't bear to look at him when he's sloppy, right?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First, buy some cosmetics that suit your skin type within your ability, go to the du clothing store to try more clothes, find the right style, wear clothes that fit, and look simple and generous overall.

    Third, I usually communicate with my roommates, it seems that she has a set of dresses, and you can consult her ideas, so popular must have its advantages.

    Fourth, usually bubble the library, read books, enrich the mind, and improve temperament.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'll just say it simply, in fact, there are still a lot of ordinary people like us in the world, hehe.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's okay, the main thing is to have the ability and self-confidence, so that you can be attractive, and looks or something are really not that important.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think you should be confident, you are still a very honest person anyway!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Ugly? Don't be upset, at least you're right.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Young man, I think you will be rich in the future.

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