How do you only want to hear good things and don t want to hear bad things

Just a person's problem, similar to yours, let's go down together (your memory is only for your reference, after all, yours is not exactly the same as that one) As soon as others say something unpleasant, you will seem unhappy and can't release your inner unhappiness at once, as if everything is out of color today, and you will naturally lead to your current situation for such a long time. Say it's bad to say that you're not strong, say it's good that you need someone to take care of, the soul is only the age of a 10-year-old child, although the age is not so old, so you like others to say good things about you, don't like others to say bad things about you, as the saying goes, he won't come if you want anything, so you may hear very bad words in reality, in fact, that's just your psychological effect, in fact, it's not like that, it's just that your psychology is not very good for the time being, so you feel that some of you don't like to be obedient, and you are not happy when you hear it, That's normal, too. It's just that this kind of thing, the sooner the better, don't bring this kind of psychology into society, where it's all the same, you need to insist on not putting everything on your young mind, understand?

Good morning, dear, happy to answer your questions. People who can't listen to a bad word, his heart is relatively narrow-minded, this kind of person is generally more machismo, and his good face is very selfish, and he feels that he is good? Others are not good?

Only willing to listen to flattering words, unwilling to listen to true words, this kind of people are generally villains, get along with this kind of person, you must learn to protect yourself, do not tell him what you really think in your heart, so as not to cause unnecessary harm to yourself. This kind of person generally don't offend, just be an ordinary friend on the surface, don't take what he says to heart, just nod and agree. Hope mine is helpful to you.

Because sometimes the truth hurts people, others know that it is a lie but they are willing to listen to it, and they are happy to hear it. Sometimes choosing not to tell the truth is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, for example, if a person asks you about his appearance (when he is not familiar), if you tell him truthfully "You are ugly", then eighty percent of you will not have friendship, and you should be strangers in the future. In this society, hypocrisy is the best mask to protect yourself.

If a person tells the truth in everything, he can only say that he is sincere, but in the eyes of some people, they will think that this person has no brains and no emotional intelligence. In fact, it's not that I don't like to hear the truth, but whether I consider the other party's feelings when the truth is said, the charm of language is very important, and speaking is also a science.

I think that this person himself is also a very small-minded person, otherwise he would not embarrass you in public because of this, and at most he will be a little wary of you behind his back.

As for the person in the back, you can ignore it, a person who can only stick needles in the back has no future.

So, when it comes to what you do, it has to do with your personality. Here's how, pick a few:

1. If it were according to my character, I would use a tough attitude to shut up this person and not come to trouble in the future.

2. Find a person to talk to privately and make it clear (of course, according to the situation you described, people with small hearts may not believe you).

3. Find a third party to help explain this matter clearly (there is a certain success rate).

4. It's okay to talk about this person's good things in private, find someone who usually has a broken mouth, and let him and her naturally pass on the gossip at the same time (that is, you don't let him pass it on, let him pass it on voluntarily) (the highest success rate).

5. If this person is not important, just be an ostrich and ignore it.

6. Find a way to find the one who stuck the needle in the back, and find evidence to confront the three of them (this is the worst, it is easy to have deep contradictions).