Emotional problems are sad to seek healing, emotional problems are sad

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Well, I have two options:

    If he still has feelings for you and doesn't have a crush on you, you can talk to him and be friends again. Of course, no matter how much more friends are better than one enemy, gradually restrain the temper, love is not a person's accommodation, but two people's mutual tolerance, a single person pays, this love will not go far, it is best to understand his affairs, especially the details, after all, you have been together for a long time, and you also know each other. Occasionally you have to distance yourself from him, be intimate with other men, and see if he cares, but don't be too excessive, otherwise he is easy to misunderstand and go farther and farther away [this trick has confidence and a certain degree of certainty], sometimes let him inadvertently find out your love for him and care about him, En try not to be discovered, maybe he will hate girls for playing tricks, and it will not be good to backfire.

    Occasionally show your concern for him or let him develop some habits that he can't do without you, let him know how important you are to him, of course you are the executor, I just provide some advice.

    If he really has no feelings for you, then don't force it, the twisted melon is not sweet, and even if it is forced together, it will not be long-term, and the long pain is better than the short pain. I won't suggest that you find a second spring as soon as possible, because you may see something wrong in this situation, and if your second relationship fails, you will easily close your heart. Try to travel or do something to distract yourself, but be sure to pay attention to your health and don't force it.

    The above is only a personal opinion, for reference only, and for approval.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If his current attitude is very decisive, your strategy is to shake him, how did you get together in the first place, what point of you attracted or moved him, what unforgettable experiences did you have, evoke his memories and emotions, and then take out your changes, as a boy, I understand his feelings, he will get tired after a long time, if you always throw your pressure and emotions to him, who will he give to? In a society like China, men are very employed, it is not easy to work outside, and you have to endure your accusations and emotions when you go home, no one can stand it, you don't have to be too excited, if you really love him, what you have to do is very simple. If he's still single, you still have a chance, otherwise you can start a new life of your own.

    If he is single, what you have to do is to make him fall in love with you again, change his shortcomings, and do some warm actions that he has not done before, such as making good soup and asking people to pass it on to him to write some love words you have said before to him, such as buying him the games he has always wanted, in short, chasing him, don't meet him often when doing these things, let him feel that you exist, and he can't see you, so that he has to think about you and evoke good memories.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's a very lucky and happy thing for two people to be together, so don't bring up the word "break up", if you say too much false, it will become true. If you truly love him and feel that he still has a place for you in his heart, then be brave enough to chase him back, happiness is earned by yourself, not by pity. It's also necessary to be proactive once in a while, and if it's your mistake you admit it, it's no big deal.

    However, if he really ignores you anymore and has decided to leave you resolutely, then you don't go to him, that is really a practice of yourself, although it is more uncomfortable for the time being, but after a long time, you will still forget.

    In fact, I personally still think that being able to be together is the best, two people are like two angular stones, constantly rubbing (this is a quarrel), and after a long time, it will become smooth, and there will be nothing to quarrel at this time. The main thing is that girls don't be too vexatious.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Over time, everything fades away. Calm yourself down first, ask yourself if it's worth it, and if you think it's worth it, try to pursue it, no matter what the result is, so that you won't regret it later. But I personally believe that love is also dignified, two people should be together, they must respect each other, have trust, so that it does not last long, don't let their love be humble, in that way, the result is destined to separate.

    Hope you can be happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You've been together for a long time, how long has it been, and how long has he tolerated you? Have you ever wondered what would happen to you if a boy was always angry with you? This matter, you are wrong, but, you can't let go of your self-esteem to keep him, love is not to pray in exchange for forgiveness, it is possible, in exchange for the boy's disdain, in this world, whoever leaves, can live, it's just a matter of time, happiness will rewind, love will come back, no one said, I have loved one in my life, I will never leave you in my life, anyone will leave, so, for a loved person, you can't give everything, otherwise, his departure is all yours, persuade you, If you have been kind to him, he will not forget you and will forgive you, if you have a temper from the beginning, you can only say that you are self-defeating.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can try to wake up his reluctance to you with a good past, but you must also know that you can really stop playing a little temper and messing with him? The reason why he is resolute should be that he has little confidence in what you say in the future, women's favorite thing is to say points when they are in love, and to say divorce after marriage, but the most taboo thing for men happens to be this, give it a try, if it doesn't work, it means that you hurt people too much, and he has completely lost confidence.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, it is not the lover who can leave! What can be said is not a grievance! Your attachment to him has become a habit!

    You don't love him at all! Remember that twisted melons are not sweet! Forget it!

    Start a new life! His determination this time means that he has a new her, or that he is really tired of you! If it's not your own world, why squeeze hard, wronged yourself and embarrassed others!

    There are two ways to forget that one person is alone! One is time, and the other is a new love! If you haven't forgotten it, it can only mean two problems!

    Not long enough! The new love is not good enough! Hope you get it!

    Phone cut! Hope!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I used to be like this, breaking up is all about talking, but even if it's just talking, the Shanghai you caused is irreparable, especially for the person who really loves you, it will make him feel that you don't care about this relationship, but we are still different, because I don't really love that man, but you are, if you are sure that you love him, give him a period of time to think and calm down, maybe he is also angry, not too short and not too long, about 3 days, and then talk frankly and tell him that it will not be like this in the future, Ask for his forgiveness, and the important thing is that if you really love him, don't say those words anymore, and hope that you can be reconciled ...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's good for you and for him. There are mistakes in this relationship, but it's not without goodness. Why don't you keep him, even if you get back together, you will be a head below him everywhere, are you sure that then you can be willing, not regretful, and persevering?

    Even if you could, are you sure that there will be no other problems between you and you will make it to the end?

    You say you love'You can't do without, in fact, no one can live well, the so-called inseparable'It's all what you think you are.

    What you need to do is to review the mistakes in this relationship and leave the opportunity to correct them in the next relationship.

    The inferior ones can't keep others, so they can only lose themselves.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Girls don't put down their bodies too much to beg for help, if he really says that he wants to give up, you say that you can change everything The final result may still be bad, because a person's character is not so easy to change. There will always be better men who are willing to tolerate you and not make you angry. If you want to open up, since he has a resolute attitude, let it go by himself, sometimes even if he is really reconciled, he will find it difficult to maintain.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm also like this, in fact, after a long time, you will find that you are very stupid, people don't want you, so cheeky is useless, you can't let go of this time now, but as the days go by, you will find that the obsession in your heart is not so deep, it is just a habit, and the process of breaking a habit is always painful, but if you don't make up your mind to forget, it will only cause more harm to yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Someone once said that a woman says she wants you to coax her to break up, and a man says that a breakup is a real breakup. Your boyfriend's choice is very right, because it is impossible for you to change your state, you are just because he is leaving, and you are afraid, so the words are spoken. Seriously, if you really want to redeem him, don't do that, he's tired after doing too much, so you first have to put on the appearance that you have changed, and annoy him every day that it is useless for him to change, you will only push him farther and farther, it is better to let him see the truth of your change!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, you don't need to force him so much, if you really love him, just tell him that it's okay to break up, but to be friends, and then you take it slowly, let him find out this, if there is no fate, then there is no need to force it, if he thinks you are still the best after talking to one or two, then you have a chance.

    Don't interfere in his life! Just be there for him and let him see the change in you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This matter can't be forced, others have given you a chance, you don't know how to cherish it is indeed a bit unreasonable, but things have taken a turn for the better, and you have to spend ten times as hard to redeem it, but can you bear it? Empathy, you will also give up, I personally suggest that you still do not immerse yourself in sadness, carefully and seriously summarize your feelings and choose a new one that suits you, okay?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not your fault that the things between you are just that he will endure these things about you once or twice, and he will not express his can't express to you, and then let you continue like this until he can't bear it in his own heart, and you will be like that, and it will be the feeling he gives you, and he won't leave you, that's why you're like that, so you don't have anything to be reluctant to let go, and it's actually good for you.

    Look at it lightly, there is no one, you can't live if you leave, and that's what you should experience when you grow up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First return to the identity of a friend, silently care about him, guard him on the side, if he has a new love, you give up, start your own new life, make new friends, look forward, the wounds of a relationship are to be healed through another relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What's the use of coming to ask for help at this time, everyone's patience is really limited, just like a spring, when you pull it and pull it until it is straightened, it can't bounce back again.

    Now it depends on how much he loved you before, let him be quiet, a little ** every day, gently tell your thoughts, maybe there will be a turnaround.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't listen to their nonsense, love is like a tug-of-war, and those who let go after that must be hurt; The best thing to do if you get hurt is to start a new relationship right away. I don't believe you can give it a try, the best way to heal your wounds!! Hehe, I wish you to get out of the shadow of broken love as soon as possible!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't let him feel like you're pestering him, let you both be quiet and come back to you if he loves you. Women are sensitive when they fall in love with someone, but remember not to lose yourself!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's a boy who has experienced, every time he endures it, one day he can't stand it, anyway, you feel good about your attitude, it depends on what he thinks, if you want to give up, you don't have much room for maneuver, if you are not particularly resolute, you can say it well.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't keep mentioning the word breakup with your boyfriend, although you may just be joking, = but he listens too much, he will unconsciously form the idea that it doesn't matter if you break up, and in the end you say that he will really break up, so don't do it again in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Forehead. Communicate with him. Let go of your mentality and let it be.

    Emotional matters cannot be forced and should not be given up casually.

    I wish you a happy landlord

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Go and influence him, use your actions to tell him that you will really change, if he is still like that, don't beg him, there are many good men in the world, why hang yourself on this crooked neck tree.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    His parents don't approve of you being together at all, do they?

    If I were you, I'd break up with him. It's not a whim.

    Rather, there are several factors:

    1.You're only a sophomore, and he naturally won't be much mature, so his parents don't support him bringing his girlfriend home so early, that is, they don't agree with you. I didn't intend to treat you as their future daughter-in-law.

    2.His parents are really unreasonable, and their son quarreled with his girlfriend, and they didn't comfort you and persuaded you to come out to eat. You actually let your son break up with you before you left their house, so you have to wait until you are gone to talk about this to your son, right?

    There is no basic politeness and respect for people, even if you are married, you will suffer!

    3.Your boyfriend argued with you while you were staying at his house, which shows that he is too ignorant. I went to my boyfriend's house, and once I had a quarrel, I ignored him, and after only 5 minutes, he came to apologize to me, saying that he shouldn't quarrel with me at this time, and that he should pay more attention to my feelings and ...... at his houseAfter that, at his house, we never quarreled again.

    This is the basic manifestation of whether he hurts you or not, and whether he loves you or not.

    4.You're still so young, it's better for this family to leave early. It's not that there are no good men.

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