Why are the lives of successful people miserable?

Because the scenery is at the peak of danger, every success is because of taking the road that ordinary people think is time-consuming and laborious. That is to say, only by doing what ordinary people are not willing to do is successful. But these are not very tiring for the successful person, because he wants to succeed very much, and these things are what he must do to succeed, so he has motivation, which seems to be very hard work for ordinary people.

It can also be said that their bodies are tired, but because they may be able to succeed, their mood will become very relaxed. They were now in a much better mood than physically exhausted. Besides, ordinary people are very bitter when they look at those who succeed, and many people are discouraged and unwilling to take the test.

Let me tell you again, if you have confidence in yourself and a goal in life, then you can also take the test, both of which are indispensable. I hope you can take the test too, and I wish you good luck and success!

The heavens will descend on people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, and empty their bodies, which are also what they have to experience before success. So when you succeed, it's really hard to look back on everything you have experienced in the past, but when you look at the results of your efforts now, you will feel very satisfied and fulfilled, and you won't feel bitter. But in the eyes of outsiders, the life of every successful person is very hard.

Because failure is the mother of success!

This is why there is so much suffering, in fact, many people are consulting this question, but for our lives, in fact, any kind of suffering is just a thought in our hearts, for example, some children feel that learning is very hard, and they also feel very sad, so they will feel that this is a kind of suffering. But if you think differently and take your own learning as a goal and become a part of your life ideals, then you will feel that it is very good, and you will also feel that you are very motivated, which is a real idea for you, and it is also an opportunity to really establish a goal in life. A person feels that there is a lot of suffering in life, in fact, the most reason is that he does not have the reality to face these problems.

Only by solving these problems, then the difficulties will become a kind of sweetness or bitterness, and then become an experience, so that you can have more gains in life and work, so that you have more happiness in your heart after busy work, and these sufferings will become the sweetness in your heart. That's just a relative topic, and it's not that suffering won't change, but it's true for everyone.

For example, there is a saying in China that the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold, which actually means that plum blossoms also came from the very cold weather, but he can persevere, so plum blossoms are the most beautiful flowers in winter. Therefore, suffering is relative to anyone, as long as you can bear it, as long as you can change it well, then your life will get better and better.

If you encounter difficulties and you take dodge or dodge at this time, then your future will become more and more pessimistic. Therefore, a person must have a correct mind and a positive attitude, so that he can make his life and work better and better, and make his emotional world more and more rich, so that your life will be colorful, and your future will be better and better.

There is a lot of suffering in life, but I think that a person's life is actually a kind of cultivation. It is difficult to cultivate in the red dust of the world, to cultivate simple and happy in the midst of complexity, and to be optimistic and calm in the midst of suffering and grief, but it is a necessary practice for each of us. Perhaps the happiness of life is not the holding of money, the fragrance of red sleeves.

Just because we see a little new green in spring, feel a little cool in summer, glimpse a touch of gold in autumn, and usher in a burst of warmth in winter, maybe the things we have always hoped for and can make us happy have been with us from the beginning, and we have been constantly disturbing ourselves, perhaps, the real meaning of wearing the stars and the moon is just that I set off, wearing the stars and the moon.

Suffering is also an experience, and there are many joys and sorrows in life, but these are the joys of life, and it is always smooth sailing, and the days are really monotonous.

Because life is impermanent, the world cannot be speculated, and life must have ups and downs!

Life itself is a painful thing, and the most painful thing is not knowing what pain is.

Regardless of whether you feel good or bad, pain will always exist, and life is the carrier of pain.

It is not easy for everyone, and they all have a scripture that is difficult to read. So don't envy the good of others, work hard for yourself to get your own satisfaction.

Only after experiencing a life of hardship, Fang Meng can realize the meaning of happiness.

The first kind of suffering is the suffering of loneliness, if a person wants to be rich and rich, he must have his own career, and on the road to career success, there will be no one to accompany him.

The second type of suffering is the suffering that is not understood, and some people really pay a lot of things in the process of accumulating wealth, and no matter what they do, they may not be understood.

The third kind of suffering is to suffer from white eyes, failure is the mother of success, most of the people who can be rich and noble have experienced failure, and they will always be looked down upon when they fail.

The fourth kind of suffering is the suffering of sticking to one's own bottom line, no matter how successful a person is, he will never forget his original intention to stick to his bottom line, this pain is incomprehensible to ordinary people.

The first kind of bitterness is the bitterness of boiling. Before seeing the light, you always have to go through the darkness, which is suffering. The second kind of suffering is the suffering of loss, life will not go well, there will be gains and losses.

The third kind of suffering, physical suffering, people will have times when they are sick, and at this time they will endure the torture of disease. The fourth kind of suffering, the suffering of being misunderstood, if a person has foresight, his ideas will definitely not be recognized by many people, and even will be denied, and only by persevering can he see the hope of victory.

There are a lot of sufferings in the world, but people who can really achieve a great career have basically experienced these fluctuations, such as career fluctuations, it turns out that their careers may have improved, and others see themselves as very good, but if they fail, they will suffer countless doubts, and they will see all kinds of ugly faces in society.

First of all, taste the suffering of the world, then the first point is the life and death of relatives, the human feelings in the world, the kind of hardship of being penniless, facing the indifference of relatives, people who taste these 4 kinds of suffering, then they will be rich and rich, because they know that only their own efforts can succeed.

In order to be successful, the rich and wealthy must experience the heat and coldness of the world, observe words and colors, know the warmth and coldness, and starve their bodies and skin. It is mainly decided from the four aspects of clothing, food, housing and transportation.

The same is true in life, sometimes you will feel that everything you do is going well, and life seems to be hanging; Sometimes you feel like it's hard to move an inch.

Writer Yang Daxia's message, ups and downs are life.

In fact, it is up to the individual to judge, no one can say whether their life is good or bad, so I think the "dream" is determined by oneself at this moment, happiness and openness.

Heart, luck ......Maybe it makes you feel like a dream, don't forget that life is also painful, and you can't fantasize about yourself in a dream and forget yourself.

The real situation. Maybe life is like a dream, it is a kind of reliance or one's own outlook on life.........

No, everyone has successes and failures.

If there is no failure, then life has no meaning! It's like without either a mother or a father, where is the child!

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That's for sure!

Why? The reason why a successful person is successful must have the conditions to become a successful person: in simple terms - knowledge and wisdom.

Knowledge is what you learn, what you know, and what you master. Wisdom is something intangible, something invisible, and wisdom can be understood as your ability to think. Wisdom is based on knowledge, because a blank-minded baby simply does not have the condition to think - knowledge.

If two people have the same knowledge but different thinking skills, then they will have different levels of difficulty in succeeding; If two people have the same ability to think but have different knowledge, then their degree of success is still different.

Therefore, in the same time, if two people achieve the same success, then how much hardship they pay depends on their knowledge and the use of knowledge. The more capable he is, the easier it is for him to succeed. But it can't be said that the stronger the ability, the less hardship he pays, that is, it can't be said that if the person with the ability is stronger than you achieves the same success as you, the less hardship he pays, absolutely not.

Why? His ability is also the result of his previous hardships.

In the universe, success definitely doesn't favor anyone!