Friends in long distance relationships, how do you relieve loneliness

28 older friends, although this society now advocates late marriage and late childbearing, but how many 28 is a person, especially women, I don't know if you are engaged or stable, feelings are difficult to say, some people cultivate feelings for decades or even a lifetime, some people are love at first sight, in case, I mean in case, in case, in case, he has another relationship in another city, where should you go, have you considered it yourself? He said that he wants you to support him, understand him, how to support, how to understand, for women, marriage, family is the most important, I don't believe he doesn't know this, if he knows, should he also support and understand you. Beauty, think about the problem clearly, don't let yourself regret it, the above is purely personal opinion, what you say is not good, please don't hit me, thank you I hope you find a good way.

Understand, I'm an oil worker, and the situation may be similar to you, so I'm still single, and the distance is really a problem.

Make sure your boyfriend loves you and can marry you without cheating on you. Then learn to enjoy loneliness. Read the book, listen to the ** and so on, and try to distract yourself as much as possible.

I don't stand and talk without backache, because I'm also in two places, and I'm married. In order to fulfill the vow of not betraying his wife for the rest of his life, he is enjoying loneliness! Hey.

We were away for more than a year, we broke up, and I'm 25 years old.

Oh, yes! My boyfriend and I are also separated, but we are not lonely! We are basically one a day, we chat in **, a chat is a few hours, our relationship is very good, will often miss each other, this is a common thing, but **solved the problem for us, he will make me laugh in **, make me happy, recently I had an accident, he was not around, but in ** comforted me, for me to find a way, to help me solve the problem, I am very happy, when I think of him to call him, when he is fine, he will call me, so our feelings have not fallen at all, It's still the same, because we think about each other every day, he spoils me very much, understands me very well, respects my opinions, you should talk more, so that you can enhance each other's feelings and care more about each other!

You can also share his worries and solve problems in **, can't you? But if you call him ** and he is impatient, either he has a problem at work, or he has met a woman who is better than you, or he has encountered something troublesome, but I can understand your feelings, if you really can't do without him, really love him, and he really loves you, then you just wait!

Cold memories. You're talking about it easily.,The landlord 28 you 17 you're embarrassed to compare.。。。

The landlord, talk to him once, and if you don't get married at the end of the year, you will go on a blind date, that's all, I didn't say anything

I've been in a long-distance relationship, and it's really sad and helpless. The biggest frustration is loneliness.

But long-distance lovers don't spend much time together, and they are often alone, and loneliness is inevitable. The loneliness of a long-distance relationship is completely different from the loneliness in general, and the general loneliness can be found at random for something or any activity, which is easy to dismiss and eliminate, and is not easy to bring people pain that cannot be shaken off.

The loneliness of a long-distance relationship is with the desire for lovers to miss, worry and worry about it, but the reality to be faced is the helplessness and torture of the lover who is not around, without the lover's company, it is a kind of yearning, expectation and intimacy of the consciousness and the contradiction and conflict that the reality can not realize, this is a kind of sadness and pain of Liang teasing, this sense of loneliness is more obvious and strong, just like the description of the feeling of "cutting constantly, rationalizing and messing", which makes people often in the torment of unstoppable.

In addition to being more uncomfortable than ordinary loneliness, the loneliness of long-distance relationships is also characterized by being more time-sensitive and frequent than ordinary loneliness. People often describe the feeling of separation between the two as "a day is like three autumns", the kind of longing between the two people can be imagined, and the situation of a long-distance relationship is "three autumns", it is difficult to "see" a day, this kind of lovers are more separated than together, then it is conceivable how long the long-distance relationship has to endure when the loneliness is unbearable. In addition, people often use "day and night together", "inseparable" and so on to describe the relationship between lovers, and long-distance lovers are separated from more and less together, so for these lovers, then they have to face and bear a lot of loneliness and are sad and helpless.

Hello. Long-distance relationships talk about loneliness, because people will crave the performance of love when they are extremely pursuing love, so long-distance relationships are a kind of performance, long-distance relationships are often met through the Internet, and ambiguous words are sent in the virtual world to express their love, but after all, they don't know each other very well, so that there will be a sense of difference when they see each other in long-distance relationships, the most important thing is to have the same three views, and the personality should be almost acceptable, so that there will be a better future, and long-distance relationships are not advisable, If you can't really care about each other, it's best to give each other an explanation, and at the same time give yourself a little more beauty, cheer together, work together, and encourage each other!

At the beginning of a long-distance relationship, two people may have feelings, no heartbeat feeling, but for some reason, have to be far away, in this case, can only keep in touch through mobile phones, after a long time, the relationship may become lighter, if in a special festival, two people are still together, it should be a promotion for the relationship, of course, most of the time it must be relatively lonely. So a long-distance relationship is a kind of perseverance.

There are advantages and disadvantages of long-distance relationships, the advantage is that the two cannot see each other often, both cover up each other's shortcomings, and imagine that each other is on the good side. The disadvantage is that if you can't meet often, the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and there is a possibility of a third party intervening.

Long-distance relationshipsFor couples, the city is like a bed. You sleep on this side of the city, I sleep on the other side of the city. I'm turning over you're on that side of the city, I'm on this side of the city. As long as the endless nostalgia allows the city to cover us.

In fact, think about long-distance couples, how can there be no loneliness. Couples in a long-distance relationship, how can there be no nostalgia. But with a love guard, it can also go to that couple to suppress my loneliness and endure my nostalgia.

Such a bad love will be ***, and this kind of love will always be novel. If you are not confident enough, thinking about everything every day, afraid of splitting your legs, etc., even if it is not a long-distance relationship, I advise you not to talk about it, and it is easy to get hurt if you talk about it. People with high EQ and IQ will not indulge in short-term happiness, forget their future purpose, and give up the destination they want to reach.

People who do not have a strong hope for the future will definitely give up their efforts, let alone love.

The most uncomfortable thing about a long-distance relationship is not that I am afraid that someone will change my mind, but that I am afraid that when I need the other half, I can't do anything about it, and I can't give her the warmth and strength she wants, because I am afraid that the other party will eventually be unconfident in each other's future, and then I can't hold on and say break up. There are a little twists and turns and difficulties in life, and I feel that a person is unable to bear it, and I desperately need the help of others to get through. The central problem of long-distance relationships lies in emotional exchange and value sublimation, and people who meet every day may not necessarily produce love, let alone unbreakable love.

Anyway, there is always loneliness between long-distance relationships, and lonely feelings are always inevitable, but you have to adjust your mentality, thinking that your lover is about to meet you, your mentality will improve, and life will tend to be a habit. You can ask yourself to be resolute, but you can't force the other party to be resolute, isn't that what love looks like? The emotional foundation is the consumable product to maintain love in the early stage of a long-distance relationship, although it is renewable, but the premise of regeneration is to resist the first wave of consumption.

If the emotional foundation is weak, it is recommended to be cautious about long-distance relationships.

Yes, people in long-distance relationships are able to endure loneliness and loneliness; You can talk to your friends, you can call your lover, you can share your daily life with your lover, if it takes a long time, you can choose to meet with your lover.

Long-distance relationships are more difficult to maintain than ordinary romances. Because long-distance relationships usually only rely on spiritual support, they can't all be by each other's side. The distance in time and space will slowly defeat a person.

In this way, some people can endure loneliness and loneliness; The two sides must communicate more and be more tolerant, understand more, and often open **open**, and the organic block will be decided to go to each other's cities, so that these emotions can be resolved.

There are many ways to customer service loneliness, first of all, you can learn a skill, for example, you can learn this bartending or this tea art, so that you will not bring loneliness, on the other hand, you can put down your work, go to your other half to be with him, refuse long-distance relationships, I think it is possible to make both people happy.

In fact, we should indeed know how to overcome the loneliness brought about by long-distance relationships, first of all, we can find something to learn when we are free, even if it is to learn to make cakes, fine snacks and bread, on the other hand, we can also read more books, so that we can enrich our brains, so that we will not have these loneliness.

First of all, look at whether you really like each other, if you really like each other, you should learn to be considerate of each other, of course, if you are not forced to do so, no one wants to be in a different place, so I think both you and the other party should be considerate of each other, of course, there must be necessary communication, because communication is a bridge between each other's feelings.

You can find something to fill yourself with. You don't have to be with a boyfriend to overcome loneliness. You can go to the library by yourself to read a book, and you can ask your friends to play together.

You can learn some other skills about your hobbies. You won't be lonely when you have your time. If you're not too far away from your boyfriend, take time off to see him, or ask him to come and see you.

It doesn't have to be glued together. If you really can't hold on, break up. It's nothing, life is so long, you can always find someone who won't make you feel lonely.

I don't think you can talk to your boyfriend about it if you can't make it up, maybe he is willing to go back to the city with you for you. If the two of you really can't get along, then break up, after all, the two of you don't have the same future goals, and even if you stick to it, you may break up. Falling in love is two people's mutual tolerance and accommodation, since two people can't take a step back, it's better to let go.

You should avoid this kind of thinking, it will affect your work life to a greater or lesser extent, and it is not harmful to think about finding a reliable thing to enrich yourself in your free time. Since most of the whimsy is due to having too much leisure time, as long as the body is busy and the head is tired, it will naturally not present the time of blind thinking, and let loneliness occupy my braincase and make my body and mind exhausted.

Then break up, remember someone said that it is better to die alone than to die with someone who makes you feel lonely. I've been in love for so long, I should have thought of a way to let the two of you live together, instead of letting you wait for him every day. If you feel lonely, you've probably been waiting for a long time, and you can't even wait for hope, so it's better to be single.

Long-distance relationships will have this feeling, which is also the reason why many long-distance relationships end without a problem, when the boyfriend is not around when you need it most, if you really can't hold on, it's better to break up as soon as possible, so that it is good for both of you can reduce the damage, maybe you can find that the people around you who are more suitable for you have a better life after breaking up.

3.Give affirmation and support: When talking or chatting, say more about the other person's affirmation and support, so that the other person can feel your strength and encouragement.

4.Send gifts: Send meaningful gifts at specific times or occasions to make your loved one feel that you care and care.

6.Agree on a plan: During the long time in a long place, work out future plans and goals with your lover, so that the other person can feel the beauty and expectation of the future.

Whether it is a happy thing or a sad thing, share it with your lover in time, generate empathy and trust, gain mutual support and understanding, and make long-distance life more meaningful and fulfilling.