Frustration says Life is, setbacks are part of life

Frustration said: Life is a towering and steep mountain, which must be climbed by strong and brave people.

The more frustrated you are, the more courageous and indomitable.

The process of falling and getting up.

That day, on a rainy night, I came home with the math test papers, and I was trembling because I was afraid that my father would beat me, scold me, and do endless ideological education ......

This time, I didn't do well in math, 57 points, alas. When I returned to the family banquet and saw my parents busy, I felt very ashamed, and I wanted to tear up the test paper at once so that my parents would not know. However, what if it is torn, the teacher still does not say the same ......My dad came to rest when he was done, and I sat down next to my dad and showed him the test papers, and he was silent.

I felt countless ashamed in my heart, and I said, "Dad, I'm sorry Shanru, I failed the exam, you can beat me or scold me, I have no complaints." "My dad finally spoke up and told me to come with him.

He took me to the door to have a look, I saw a little bird, it was blown by the wind and the rain, and as soon as it flew it was "beaten" down by the rain and the wind, and it kept flying, and it kept coming down, and finally it flew back to its nest, and my dad asked me if I understood anything? Oh! Life will inevitably have setbacks, as long as you persevere, do not give up, success is not far from us!

Setbacks are a part of life, don't let them overwhelm you.

If there's nothing you can do, then go with the flow. To you who are tangled at this time. Bitterness is the original taste of life, and tiredness is the essence of life.

No matter how far you go, no matter how high you stand, no matter how much you get, you can't get rid of the entanglement of suffering and tiredness. Life is a kind of bearing, a kind of pressure, let us move forward in the burden, in the persecution to forge ahead. No matter where we go, we must learn to support ourselves, give ourselves more encouragement when we fail, give ourselves more warmth when we are lonely, and strive to make our hearts lighter and our spirits lighter.

Good morning, Saturday!

2. The child is innocent, that is his characteristic; The peculiarity of the young man is that he is full of endless and flowing energy: the characteristic of the old man is that he has seen everything, has experienced a lot, has realized a lot, and he has a lot of crystallization of wisdom, but in the crystallization of this wisdom there is the energy of his youth—shining, energetic, excited, throbbing; It also has the innocent part of the child. Happy Saturday morning!

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3. Some people are not there if they miss it. And some people, you only exist if you miss it. Sometimes missing out is a tragedy, but most of the time, missing is saving you.

Anything you can miss is not for you. Even if you love again, so what? Not all the people you love love you, and not all the people you love are suitable for you.

So, if you miss it, it's probably because you don't have a chance. Good morning, Saturday!

4. Time is the most harsh and ruthless, and every minute and second of life is placed there for decades. Some people have a magnificent life, a wide sea and a sky, and a lifetime is worth several lifetimes; And some people will always let time pass without time, opportunity, or mood. If you always use the excuse that you don't have time, time is your enemy.

If you're willing to squeeze it, time is your friend. Good morning, Saturday!

Life, everyone's life is different, life here refers to your origin, knowledge, and more importantly, experience.

Frustration is not necessarily a bad thing, the existence of frustration allows you to see your own shortcomings, in order to hone your will, life without frustration, like a blank sheet of paper, I believe you will not like this kind of life. Setbacks are what make you mature, and when you look back after this time, you will be grateful for setbacks that make you mature and make your life more exciting. So, in the face of things, you have to see his two-sided nature, there are gains and losses, and in the same way, setbacks mean that you have a chance to succeed, come on!

When setbacks come, we have to laugh it off. In the face of setbacks, be optimistic and confident.

A person's life cannot always be smooth sailing, and it is inevitable to encounter various setbacks and misfortunes. When setbacks and misfortunes befall us, don't be sad, don't be sad. We should respond with a positive and correct attitude, analyze the causes, and find solutions to the problems.

Don't spend all day immersed in the sadness of setbacks and give up on yourself.

If our life is always smooth sailing, then we are no different from the flowers living in a greenhouse, and we are easily destroyed by wind and rain.

In real life, setbacks are everywhere.

For example, the owners of some companies and factories are now losing money or even going bankrupt because of the impact of the financial crisis, and they are forced to commit suicide because of temporary setbacks and blows. In addition, because the financial crisis has left some people unable to find jobs, they often die because they cannot stand the test in the face of heavy family burdens.

In fact, when setbacks come, we need not only a positive attitude, but also a strong will. Because, a strong-willed person can achieve excellent results in difficult conditions, even in adversity. If you have a strong will, then,When setbacks come, we don't feel sudden and frightened, but take them in stride

Another example, this is a real-life example.

There is a student in a certain city who is in the third year of high school with very good grades, and it is a piece of cake to be admitted to a key university in the province, and even he is full of confidence. However, when the admission list came out, his name was not available. The teachers who taught him were surprised, and he couldn't believe his own eyes.

Full of confidence, he suddenly had a nervous breakdown and was unwilled, and as a result, he walked upstairs on the 20th floor of a family and was ready to commit suicide by jumping off the building. As he was about to jump down, he suddenly learned that he had been admitted to the university where he was remarkable, and his name was missing because of a computer error. The head of the university apologized.

Of course he was very happy! The teachers were overjoyed too! However, after the school learned that he wanted to commit suicide by jumping off the building because of his failure, it thought that his will was not strong enough, so the school did not admit this student with excellent grades in the end.

If the protagonist in the above story did not choose to commit suicide when he fell off the list, but chose to be strong, would it still be like this?

Facts have proved that when setbacks come, we need to deal with them with a strong will and the right attitude, so as to reduce the pain of ourselves and our families. At the same time,Setbacks don't just have a negative impact, they can also bring us many benefits。Because, only after experiencing the tempering of wind, frost, rain and snow, will we live a stronger and more wonderful life!

We need to understand that setbacks are not terrible, what is terrible is that we cannot overcome them. When we overcome setbacks, we also learn a lot of knowledge and summarize a lot of life experience. On the road of our growth, the more setbacks there are, the more tests we have in life, and at the same time, we are slowly growing up and becoming sensible in overcoming setbacks!

One of the questions I used to ask when I was interviewing newcomers was, what was the biggest setback in your life? How to break through? From this answer, I hope to understand the interviewee's psychological qualities, resistance to stress, and his mindset in the face of problems.

But to my surprise I usually got something like this, I had a bad exam and didn't score above 90....Or I didn't get into my ideal university...」。

I was a little surprised and worried that these small setbacks were listed as the biggest setbacks in my life, which shows that young people really have not suffered any major challenges nowadays. Perhaps Taiwan's young people will experience real setbacks after they are out of society, because they have been protected by their parents before, and most of their parents' expectations for their children are also placed on their studies.

In real life, being able to study is not a guarantee of success, but it is stress resistance, EQ, communication skills, etc. that are important competitiveness. It's not necessarily a good thing to be too smooth when you're young, because it's easy to take life for granted, to be proud or feel good about yourself. Therefore, many supervisors will learn about the candidate's personality, stress resistance, sense of responsibility, and opinions from the interview, which may not be taught in the classroom.

In fact, no one wants to be less resistant to stress, but if you find that you are too well protected, you need to check whether you can withstand the blow. If you want to prevent it, you can participate in clubs or part-time jobs in college, and then cultivate interpersonal relationships and social skills, and learn to face problems and challenges in the workplace, and not have the attitude of giving up or avoiding easily, so that you can gradually increase your resistance to stress. If the pressure is really too great, you should ask the supervisor for help, and you must not escape it, because if you dodge it this time, the same problem will still come to you next time, no matter if you are in **.

The setbacks in life come early, because the young are relatively unburdened, the loss of setbacks will not be too large, and the previous lessons can be converted into assets in the future life. Only by being willing to face and solve problems can we increase our resistance to stress after things have changed.

Frustration and youth are also inevitable in life, whether you like it or not, one can't hide, and the other can't keep if you want to. It is better to face it bravely, thinking in my heart that no matter what difficulties we face, come on, I will greet you, pass one pass after another, and gradually we will have a calm and fearless temperament, and over time, it will make others have a sense of stability, and gradually have the demeanor that a leader should have.

Therefore, the only way to increase resistance to stress is to face and greet rather than escape.

Many people feel helpless and hopeless when they encounter setbacks in life, but running away is not the best option to solve the problem. Here are some of my thoughts and suggestions on this issue:

First of all, Sun Jing, we must realize that setbacks are an inevitable part of life. Everyone will encounter various setbacks and difficulties in life, and these setbacks may affect our emotions and confidence, but this does not mean that we should give up or run away. Instead, we should accept these setbacks and try to find a solution to the problem.

Second, we must face the problem positively and seek solutions. If we choose to run away from problems when we encounter them, the problems will only get worse and we will miss out on opportunities to grow and learn. On the contrary, if we choose to face the problem bravely, then we may find a solution to the problem and thus overcome the setback and move towards success.

Third, maintain a positive mindset and attitude. In the face of setbacks, we need to maintain a positive mindset and attitude, and have the confidence and determination to overcome the problems. We need to believe in our ability to solve problems, but also have perseverance and patience to face challenges.

Finally, ask for help and support. We may need the help and support of others in overcoming setbacks. This could be family member, friends, co-workers, or a professional counselor.

These people can provide us with emotional support and advice to help us overcome setbacks and move towards success.

In conclusion, when faced with setbacks, running away is not the best option. Instead, we should be positive about the remaining issues, maintain a positive mindset and attitude, and seek help and support to overcome setbacks and move towards success. Regarding the situation of this man who has been wandering in the shed for ten years and has no face to face his family, I suggest that he take the following measures:

First, recognize that setbacks are temporary, not eternal. The man should understand that the problems he encountered were not all of his entire life. Although he is currently facing difficulties and challenges, these problems are only a stage in his life and he needs to learn to accept and face them.

Second, be brave enough to face the problem and seek solutions. The man should think about the problem he is experiencing, try to get to the root of the problem, and then look for a solution to the problem. He can seek professional help and advice, such as a counsellor or social worker.

Third, maintain a positive mindset and attitude. This man should have a strong belief in his ability to solve problems and try to find opportunities and the possibility of growth from difficulties. He can try to find encouragement and support from the people or things around him to maintain a positive mindset and attitude.

Finally, ask for help and support. The man can reach out to family and friends for help and support. If needed, he can also contact a professional agency or organization for help and support.