What moment did you feel like your efforts weren t matched by the gains?

When I was in the college entrance examination, I felt that my efforts were not matched by the receipt, and I also played abnormally in the college entrance examination, so at that time, I felt that I was very useless, and my efforts were in vain.

Although many people say that God is fair, and while closing a door for you, it will also open a window for you, but there are still many unfair things in the world, so when you have suffered some unfair encounters, you will feel that your efforts and gains do not match.

When you are enthusiastic and all the preparations are done, but there is a fire in the rear, the company's service system suddenly has an accident and is not powerful, and you are instantly annoyed and angry; When I worked very hard to prepare the courseware and start the lecture immediately, it was said that the network was disconnected and there was no traffic; When I spent seven or eight hours working hard to write the article, I was moved by reading it many times, but I found that some self-** platforms said that they had not passed the review, and the reason involved sensitive words.

It's when you think you've worked hard for a long time and think you're doing well, others can beat you to the starting point with a basin of cold water, in fact, I think it may be that you don't work hard enough, which is not the reason for your efforts.

This kind of feeling is most often when I am preparing for the college entrance examination, because at that time, I am working hard every day and studying hard, but sometimes my results in the mock exam are not ideal.

When I was studying, I put in a lot of effort, often getting up early and staying up late every day, writing topics and reading books there every day, but I gained very little success, and the growth did not match the effort.

Recently, I took the first subject, and I spent a week preparing, and I kept brushing the questions every night, but during the exam, I encountered questions that I didn't know, and at that moment I felt that my efforts were matched.

It was when I failed the graduate school entrance examination that I realized that hard work is not proportional to success, and at this time it is more important to choose than to work hard, and I suddenly feel that choice is sometimes more important than hard work.

In the past, my English grades were very bad, but I always felt that I worked very hard to learn English, compared with my classmates, I thought I was very hard, I thought I was not good, and then I felt that English may need talent.

Once, by chance, I got a very high salary, and I was not a good employee who worked hard in their eyes, because I didn't have great ambitions, just doing a very ordinary job.

I'm going to leave this month," Fang said lightly.

So what's next for you? Do you want to go to work, or do you want to take a break? I asked.

I'd like to take a break before I talk about it," she said.

We chatted like this, without the excitement at the beginning, the bold words of vowing to do a career here, and the strength to complain again, even leaving was so understated, as if it was about other people's deeds and had nothing to do with themselves.

She said that she remembered that she was a little naïve and a little ridiculous, and thought that as long as she worked hard, everything would change, but three years passed, and she didn't achieve the result she wanted after working hard for a long time, and in the end she felt that she had achieved nothing, and felt that her efforts were meaningless and a waste of time, so she decided to leave.

I can understand and understand her feelings, I am not like her, maybe I will leave in the near future. But I still want to say that not all efforts will eventually achieve the desired results, but as long as you work hard, you will definitely get results, and you don't have to wonder if your efforts are meaningful. It's just that the focus is on your goal at the moment, and Hongqiao ignores other gains other than the goal, and when you realize it, you will understand that all the efforts have not been in vain.

Just like we have to walk to a certain place, we may not reach the destination for various reasons, but we have exercised our bodies in the process of walking, and we have also looked at the scenery along the way, and there are many factors that cannot be controlled by individuals when we fail to reach the goal, so we cannot negate all our efforts, at least we have worked hard, and we have gained a lot of things from it.

We work hard to get the right reward. However, sometimes you try very hard, but you don't achieve the desired goal, and some of the reasons may be that the method is not right. If you want to succeed in doing something, you need not only hard work, but also the right method.

Whatever you do, it's important to have the right approach and technique. Just like stir-frying requires recipes, making pastries requires a certain recipe, going to school requires the reading methods taught to us by the teacher, even practicing martial arts in ancient times requires corresponding martial arts routines, and everything needs to be done with methods. If you master a certain method, then you may quickly enter the state, otherwise you may not be able to figure it out.

The same is true for everything we do, sometimes even though we are working very hard, if we say that the method is not right, or even the direction of our efforts is wrong, then we may be far away from success and harvest. A pay has a harvest, and the pay here is on the premise of proper methods. <>

If the method is right, it may be twice the result with half the effort, and if the method is not done properly, it may be twice the result with half the effort. We have all learned the principle of leverage in physics class, and if we can use lever skillfully, we can achieve the effect of four or two thousand pounds. When we do things, if we master the appropriate methods, or even learn to be skillful, then it may seem easier to do many things, even if we hope to achieve the same effect.

If you don't know how to use skill, even if you are tired and sweaty, and even if you put in more effort, the harvest may not be so ideal. Therefore, even if we do not achieve anything, do not be discouraged, and think about the reason.

Everyone's talent is actually about the same, and whether you can gain something by doing something depends on the degree of effort and the method you master. Some people feel that they have nothing to gain from doing things, perhaps due to a lack of talent, but in fact, it is not right to think this way. Under normal circumstances, our talents are actually about the same, and we rely more on acquired efforts.

If you master the right method and work hard, it is reasonable to get the desired harvest. Therefore, we should maintain an optimistic attitude towards ourselves, be more self-motivated, observe and think more, and think twice before doing anything.

The method is not right. Generally, there is a reward for paying, unless you choose the wrong direction, then there is no gain.

The main reason should be that the method is wrong, and it is very important to find the right method when working hard, and only by persevering in this way can you gain something.

Try to love someone. Giving may not necessarily be rewarded; There is not necessarily a return, if you don't give, you will definitely not get something, don't expect a miracle. In fact, there are many things that will always be understood after experiencing it, how to protect yourself after the emotional pain, how to persist and give up in a timely manner after being stupid, and we slowly understand ourselves in the gain and loss, and there are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past.

Man is lonely, and the only way to alleviate the pain it causes is to accept it calmly.

If you haven't experienced it, you'll never understand these truths, but it's good to hear them.

It can not be beautiful, it can not be cute, it can not be gentle, but it must be honest and kind.

Love all that is good, praise and enjoy the beauty that they bring. When difficulties come, face them with a smile and solve them with wisdom.

Have the courage to admit the mistakes you have made and take responsibility for them. Never give a friend who has betrayed you a second chance to betray.

No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust. Know how to listen to the advice of others.

What others say is remembered in the head, but what is said by oneself is kept in the heart.

It is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to make things happen.

Persistence, self-confidence, and clear goals are good. 1% may do 100% of your efforts Take action to develop If you do your best, you won't regret Opportunities are reserved only for those who work hard Be confident. People who don't give it a try won't understand how good they are after all It's easy to give up, but you'll end up with nothing.

It's hard to persevere, but you're bound to get something out in the end. If you are brave, the world will make way for you; You have no fear, and fate will give in to you.

Don't be so negative, hard work may not be rewarded, but if you don't work hard, you will definitely not get the harvest, you always have to fight for your life, even if you don't get the harvest, you will make yourself full, much better than being at ease, the opportunity is created by yourself, and the effort is still reliable.

Hello! Hard work doesn't always pay off. Seeing that you have worked hard for so long, it can be said that it has paid a lot, and it is time to consider the problem of direction and road, or the problem that the stones of other mountains can attack jade.

Effort, there is nothing wrong, at least something is confirmed, and if you don't work hard, you will be more confused. It is advisable not to be discouraged. Hope it helps.

The water drop stone can be worn, it is said that it is a mechanical repetition, and it will eventually wear down the stone, is the water drop the same water droplet? Obviously not. This idiom talks about the importance of perseverance, but it doesn't say direction.

There is also an idiom, which says that if you want a fish, you go to climb a tree for ten years, can you get a fish? Obviously, no. The method is not right, and the direction is not right.

Many of us are often expected by the so-called "hard work", thinking that as long as we keep trying and paying, we will eventually get what we want, right? It's clear that life is more complicated than you think.

Effort is just an objective need, that is, you have to do things in life, you have to take a way to pass the time, set a goal and work hard, is the most positive one, but also the most motivating one, because you may have rewards in the future. But in what form the return will be brought to you, it's hard to say.

For example, there is a person who repeatedly writes pleadings and pleadings, and in ten years, he has not won the lawsuit, but he writes well, understands the law, and changes his career to become a lawyer. Is this the outcome he wants? Obviously not.

Li Zongsheng once filmed an advertisement, and there is a sentence in it: every step counts. That's what it means, you will gain from your actions, but what will you gain? It may not be what you expect, but there will always be something else to give.

Good luck.

In fact, hard work may not be able to get the harvest you want, but it must be growing, if you want to get the harvest you want, the right time and place are indispensable, and the direction of efforts is also very important, so there is no need to complain too much about the efforts and hard work of 10 In the end, the bamboo basket is empty, as long as you really work hard and do your best, you can only look at the will of God.

People live their lives, ask themselves, and if they work hard and don't regret it, they won't come to this world in vain.

If you work hard, you may not be able to achieve your goal, but if you don't work hard, you may not achieve your goal, and even if you fail, you will find that you will gain in the process of your efforts.

It can be seen that your feelings have been frustrated, indeed, many things are not rewarded without paying, but one thing is certain, if you don't pay, you will not get anything. Especially in the relationship, the trauma is difficult to make up, and it is also very difficult to break it, many times, fate comes to an end, and you can only persuade yourself to want to open it, and you can't open it if you don't want to. It's like when you're facing a rock, no matter how excited you are on the sidelines, no matter how excited you are, unless you really split it in two with violence.

Think about it again, ten years of relationship, just think of it as if you are married and divorced, there are many people in the world like you who are suffering for a broken relationship, and even doubt life, but after the pain, let's think about it, is it worth it? There are many things in the world that are worth doing, and there are many feelings worth cherishing, just like being admitted to a university and not being admitted to Tsinghua University, although there is a sense of frustration, we can still choose to go to Peking University.

Effort is not necessarily the real pursuit of harvest, harvest is just people's established pursuit of goals, we do not force the result, just like the beautiful scenery in the process of hard work. In this process, your experience, your experience, is your precious wealth.

Hard work may be rewarded, but if you don't work hard, you will definitely not be rewarded. Only if you work hard, you will not regret it in the future. in order to realize their wishes.

Your efforts will definitely be rewarded, this is certain, but the harvest is not necessarily what you need, or not necessarily the aspect you need, you have to firmly believe that you can, as long as you work hard, there will be gains. If you don't, it means that this aspect is not for you, or that you are not interested in this aspect, so let's go another way...When you're really thinking about going the other way, there's really no need to stick to it. On the contrary, you are still wavering, you are not willing to turn the corner, then you might as well persist and work hard, even if you will not get what you want, isn't the process of hard work worthy of your pride?

Since you are not reconciled, you will angrily denounce this fate, continue to work stupidly and persistently, there will be no end to the effort, someone told me that the most afraid is not that you don't work hard, but that people who are better than you are still working hard, I don't know if you need competition in the process of hard work, just take this sentence as a literal meaning, I can only say that your efforts are not enough If you give up It's a pity. Maybe it will work