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<> believe that everyone understands the phrase "I don't believe in love now, I just want to make money", and in today's society, there should be many people who think so. This is the case in real society, I think that in love, material conditions account for a large factor, not that love needs to depend on how good each other's family background is, or how high the income is. Of course, love still requires two people to love each other.
The so-called disbelief in love is not a real disbelief, but I just feel that when two people are together, it is actually very important to be a good match. In the future, we will live together and talk about firewood, rice, oil and salt, which is the foundation. I just want to make money, and I don't want to worship money or only focus on material things, but I don't want to be defeated by these so-called realities and feel powerless when I encounter real love in the future, and strive to make myself excellent not only in terms of economy, but also in an all-round way.
As a girl, you should also have the power and the ability to choose your own love, instead of feeling powerless because of reality. Many people are not together, not because they don't like each other anymore, but because they are helpless, they don't believe in love now, just to have a better love of their own in the future. Now I just want to make money because I will not be forced to find a marriage partner due to the pressure of life in the future, but will not settle, find the person you love the most, and then marry love.
I like a lot of things like very much, it is about why girls should work hard, many people may think that girls don't need to work so hard, just be a quiet little fairy, but not necessarily. Girls work hard to make themselves excellent, in the future, when you meet someone you like, you don't have to feel high because of his family background, salary is higher than yours, when he is down, you don't have to worry about you will face the embarrassment of life and break up. Therefore, everyone should work hard to live their life the way they like.
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I think that people who can think like this must have experienced something, and they do not have hope for love, but put all their energy into work and earning money.
It is true that true love is indeed based on earning money and having a stable economy.
Only when both parties have independent financial ability can they talk about spiritual love.
Since ancient times, love has been sacred and desirable, but it is very skinny to face reality, because sweet love has no economic support, and it will be contradictory all day long for the trivial things of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Your lover will leave you, but money will not, earning money is the best sense of security for yourself, it will not disappear, let alone leave, it is a powerful guarantee to maintain your life. TV series "The First Half of My Life" If a woman wants to find security from marriage, she is doomed to lose. One is that Zijun believes in love, how much she loves her husband, and waits for the sense of security given by her husband;
One is to believe in career, no matter how much a man loves Tang Jing, Tang Jing still gives himself a sense of security.
Obviously, Tang Jing gave himself a sense of security by earning money.
If a housewife does not go out to work and enjoys the care from her husband every day, after a long time, there will be no sense of mutual dependence between the two people, and they will gradually distance themselves from each other, and the love will gradually disappear, until it is too late to repent on the day of divorce.
Because there is no skill, and there is no husband as a backer, life is only left to earn money, because only by earning money can you support yourself, no one in the world can rely on it for a lifetime, except for yourself, how can such love exist.
Therefore, the establishment of a family still requires the efforts of both parties, and a woman's responsibility is one more, not only to take care of the family but also to earn money to support the family.
If it weren't for a good economic foundation as a backing, love would collapse in the air, love is higher than the economy and exists, it is a high-end product on the spiritual level, so only with the economy can you enjoy love.
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Love and money have always been hot topics in this society. Some people give up a lot of things in reality for love. There are also people who give up their love for money.
It seems that love and money can't have both? In fact, love and money are meant to exist and coexist with each other. Love is like a living space, and money is like food in a space.
There has to be a lot of space and plenty of food for people to feel comfortable. If the space is large enough, but there is no food, people will starve to death. And there is enough food, but the space is too small, and people will feel uncomfortable if they have no space to move.
So the sentence "I don't believe in love now, I just want to make money" is obviously that I once pursued love wholeheartedly, ignoring the importance of money, and then in the process of love development, I was always troubled by the problems in reality, and doubted the belief that "love will overcome all difficulties" that I have always thought that "love will overcome all difficulties". In the end, love was shattered by reality, and I finally realized the importance of money, so I didn't want to talk about love anymore for the time being, and I earned enough money first, and then I made plans.
But ah, if people don't talk about love when they are young, they just bury their heads in making money. When you earn enough money and want to fall in love again, you will find that you have missed the most important moment in your life. Time waits for no one, life is passing, and if you miss it, you can't turn back.
Therefore, don't blindly earn money when you are young, and in the process of earning money, you should also talk about a love appropriately. Because while talking about love, you are also making money, so love can develop normally. In the past, I also ignored the importance of money and blindly pursued love.
Later, after being woken up by reality, I began to work hard to earn money, but while earning money, I will also devote part of my energy to love. I don't want to have regrets later.
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I think I've heard more about this sentence from girls, and as for boys, I don't know much about it. Some of them don't have much other insight when they say this, they just talk about it. But there are people who are really disappointed in love, and they have the feeling that they don't want to love anymore.
This sentence, I saw a female friend post it in the circle of friends before, and it probably means like this. I still remember when we were in high school, she was the kind of girl who was small and beautiful. We are in a dormitory, and although we are not very good friends with her, she will tell us a lot of things.
She's not the kind of good girl and has had a lot of boyfriends. There are a lot of people who don't have a heart, but there is one who has been talking for more than three years, and finally hurt her because of that man. broke up, but after the breakup, he came to provoke her.
She felt helpless, angry and hateful, but she was powerless against the man.
In the end, she hadn't graduated from high school yet, and she couldn't stand it anymore, so she went to another place. Later, we didn't get in touch much, but many times I learned about her current situation through the circle of friends she posted. She is really the kind of person who thinks that work is more important than love, and wants to earn more money.
Although there are still people chasing her, she will not be moved, and she feels that doing a good job is more important than anything else. So most of the girls who can say this sentence are heartbroken.
As for me, I still believe in love, although I have also been hurt, but I am getting up in ** falling down. I want to make money and love, and although I am a little greedy, I think it is very realistic. Sometimes I also say that sentence, it's not interesting to fall in love, it's better to study hard to earn money, but it's just talking, not serious.
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<>'When love first opens, longing for love; After being burned by love, he hates love; When you meet the object you like, you forget the pain when you feel good, and this is the real attitude people have towards love.
Usually, 'I don't believe in love now, I just want to make money' is a true portrayal of the heart of a single dog after being burned by love and not meeting the object of love, or in other words, the last relationship was because of his poverty, and finally lost love.
In a state of broken love, people will inevitably have extreme thoughts and think that no one can be relied on except themselves, so they want to use money to numb themselves and make themselves strong.
In addition, the phrase 'I don't believe in love now, I just want to make money' will also appear in another situation: when a person shows love to him, because the other party is not his dish, he will prevaricate with this sentence.
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I think it's because I'm hurt emotionally. used to think that as long as there was love, I could resist all the difficulties and go with her for the rest of my life, but for some reasons I could only part ways ......So now I think it's reasonable to think that no matter what, only money is the most reliable, will not betray you, and give you the life you want. And earning more money at a young age is also a sign of responsibility for yourself.
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