How much do you rate your parents? Why?

Do you still need to ask about this? Of course it's 100 percent, they are what I think are the best parents in the world, and I don't think anyone else can be my parents but them.

Of course, it's a perfect score, because my parents are the best moms and dads in the world, they selflessly gave their all for me, and now I can't go home often, and they will tolerate me.

99 points, because they don't love themselves too much, they always give, and they all tell them that this will raise the gnawing old people.

But they always love us unconditionally, so they deduct one point. Sometimes people are really lazy, and they love too much to become a burden, and there is a lot of pressure.

When you rate your parents, many students will say that of course it is 100 points. Because Mom and Dad love us more than they love themselves. They give their children meticulous care and pay without asking for anything in return.

If I had a perfect score of 10, I would only give it a 5. When I was a child, I loved going to school, but when I was only five years old, I cried and stayed in the classroom. Later, every time my father came home, the first thing he did was to open my school bag, dig out each homework book, carefully count the red crosses, beat me with a belt according to the number of red crosses, and then ask me to do the questions.

In this way, I used to love to study, but every time I saw my father, my mind was so scared that my mind went blank, and suddenly I became so stupid and stupid, until one time he beat me to cramps, and he reduced the number of times he beat me. Physical scars can heal, but psychological scars can never go away.

Since I was a child, I was born in a family full of love, my parents are harmonious and love me very much, it can be said that I grew up in a honey pot, in my eyes, my parents are parents with full marks.

If it was to give my mom a grade, I would give it a full score, because my mom watched me grow up, and if I gave it to my dad, I would only fail, because he never took care of me after his divorce from my mom.

I always felt that my parents were a pair of incompetent parents, and when I was very young, they left me to my grandparents, and basically didn't see each other a few times a year, so I was asked to grade and barely pass, there was really nothing to improve my score.

Because of the problem of the only child, the children of each family are the pearl of their parents' palms, and generally parents hope that their children have good and excellent grades, and they are for your sake and for their own sake, and every parent will be pleased to see their children have a bright future, and this feeling may only be experienced when you grow up.

Scores are always secondary to the mouths of parents and teachers, in fact, it is a positive way to show your own ability, and it is impossible for them not to pay attention to the flesh and blood they have cultivated, and teachers also rely on this to eat. There are a lot of good learning, there are a lot of bad learning, people need to have a skill, learning is for the future career, if a person learns that life is only left with grades and books, think about it and feel terrible. Personally, I support students to develop their specialties and dig a tunnel for their future.

I think you feel unfair, because you are not very old enough to speculate on the pros and cons at the first time, or empathize with the situation, and really look at the problem from the perspective of your parents, I can only try to say something that convinces you, but not biased towards your ideas. I think it's because your parents didn't understand your thoughts, maybe they didn't take your thoughts into account. You can try to communicate with them, exchange ideas, express your own opinions on how to balance your studies and interests, and ask them what they think about how well you are doing or not doing well.

Scores represent the academic performance of their children, as well as the performance they have in educating their children! Isn't it important?

If your children have bad grades, they will make others laugh at them, do you mean that your parents will be laughed at by others?

Of course not, it's just that when you are still studying, your parents will take your studies as the focus of your life, and grades are just the performance of your learning for a period of time. Learn to relax yourself.

1. Children will feel that they are just a tool of their parents.

Nowadays, a considerable number of parents judge their children's academic performance by the standard of judging whether their children are good or bad, and other shining points will only become what parents call not doing their jobs. If the test is poor, all the child hears is scolding, and the legendary "other people's children" will appear; After passing the exam, the child seems to have become the capital of the parents to show off; But is the child a tool? If they don't get good grades, do they have no good grades?

In the long run, children will only think that they are the tools of their parents, the capital to show off, and even feel that if they have poor grades, then their existence is meaningless, because there is no way to become the capital of their parents to show off.

2. Children will only be "fractional".

If parents are like this for a long time, over time, children may only be "score-only", only thinking about grades, and even taking scores as their own; Game? No, it won't help me improve my grades; Tourism? No, is it linked to my score?

All this, the child has invisibly set up four walls for himself, and in the confined space, only learning remains. However, the child is no longer the lively child at the beginning, and parents may be pleased with this, because their children are too "love to learn", such an idea is too dangerous, if the child is not willing to try anything else except learning, then in the future, can the child grow up healthily?

3. "Hurting others in the name of love".

I'm all for your good, otherwise would I ask you that? That's right, what parents often say is "I'm all for your good", which is "in the name of love". However, have parents even once learned what their children really think?

Have you ever understood what your child really wants? And if there were, it was probably just a few times.

In the world of parents, children should not have personal will, there is only one standard for everything, and it is right to conform to the parents' ideas, because parents feel that "I have eaten more salt than you eat rice", but parents have forgotten that children have always accepted such control? Have you ever thought about how painful it is for children to live only according to their parents' will?