Why can t people choose their own parents?

Parents can't choose, just as parents can't choose their children, parents give you life, raise you to grow up, no matter whether the family is rich or poor, the love of parents is the same, they have made the same efforts, we must be grateful, rely on their own strength, make themselves strong, don't envy how capable other people's parents are, their own destiny or rely on their own grasp, three points are destined, seven points rely on hard work, as long as you have lofty ideals and goals, there will be a day when it will be realized.

You can choose your godfather and godmother.

As follows:

1. Use children as a tool to vent: Some parents just use their children as a tool for their own venting, and when they encounter problems in life or work, they will beat their children and use their children as a tool to be angry, such people are not worthy of being parents.

2. I don't care about you at all: Some children are the ornaments of their parents, and they don't care about them at all, whether it's academic, physical, or even life.

3. It will only hit you: Such parents will only hit you since childhood, no matter what you do well or not, they will only belittle you, and what children need most is praise and encouragement, otherwise the blow will only make the child inferior.

4. There is eccentricity: some families will have several children, but parents will be partial to one of them, only like their son or only like their daughter, and the other is like picking up, and the huge eccentricity will make the child have a psychological shadow.

5. The expectations for you are too high: After becoming parents, many people hope that their children will become dragons and phoenixes, and they will be able to have a future and have great hopes for their children, but often this time is counterproductive, so parents will be very disappointed in their children.

6. Annoyed when they see you: Many parents get along with their children, and they become very annoying when they don't get along with their children, they are annoyed when they see their children, and they don't like to play with their children, and they don't like to communicate with their children, and the children are a trouble for them.

7. You must listen to your parents: Many parents think that their children should listen to their own words, and they will not take into account their children's feelings and thoughts at all, even if they do not do it right, they will make their children think that they are right.

8. Never feel sorry for you: Other people's parents are very sorry for their children and don't want their children to suffer a little grievance, but some parents don't feel sorry for their children, and their hearts are very cold-blooded, just like children are not their biological flesh and blood.

9. You can abandon you at will: Some parents don't have children at all in their eyes, they regard themselves as the most important, and they will even abandon them and leave them when they don't need them, they are selfish, they only love themselves and don't love their children.

10. Don't care about your feelings: Children will have their own strange ideas when they grow up, but some parents don't care about their children's thoughts at all, and will only go their own way and ignore their children's feelings.

The human life is divided into four stages: children, adolescents, middle age, and old age. Among these four stages, the period when we need our parents the most is childhood, followed by teenagers, and after middle age, we no longer need our parents, and they even become a burden to us.

There is no choice between the family of origin. Some people are born in poor families, some people are born in ordinary families, and some people are born with a golden key.

If families and parents were chosen, would we still choose them to be our parents? This question is a bit heavy, and everyone's affirmation is different.

But I am sure that children are the most dependent on their parents, and in their eyes, their fathers and mothers are the best people in the world.

The teenage years are the most rebellious, they are fledgling and independent, and at this time parents and family are like shackles to them, and they mostly hate their parents.

People have a lot of helplessness when they reach middle age, and if their parents are healthy at this time, it is a blessing for middle-aged people. The children are basically independent, the dust has settled on their career and life, and the choice of where they come from has become irrelevant.

If your parents are still alive, whether your body is healthy or not, whether your mind is clear or not, if your parents can still scold you and beat you a few times at this time, that is the greatest happiness.

My parents can't choose, but if I had to choose in my next life, I would not hesitate to choose this home, choose them as my parents, and my brother and sister who love me.

That home has brought me so much joy and happiness. Blood is thicker than water, and I believe that the bond of blood is the most reliable.

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Actually, everyone may think the same way, but I think we should get our attitude right.

If you can choose your own parents.

Hello dear, I'm Xiao Li, I'm happy to serve you <>

Actually, everyone may think the same way, but I think we should get our attitude right.

If we can choose our parents, think about it, what if parents can choose their children? Right.

The principle is the same, maybe we sometimes feel that some things our parents do are wrong, but we have to understand that no matter what our parents say or do, it is for our good.

And what we say and do is only for ourselves, not for our parents, right?

This is unfair, so since we were born in this family, we must be filial to our parents, filial piety first, my mother worked hard to conceive us in October, but we want to choose the ideal parents, this is not okay, right, <>

Summary. If your parents don't support any decision you make, you should first calm down and think about whether what you're doing is right or wrong. If you insist on doing this, you should sit down and communicate with your parents to analyze the pros and cons.

As adults, we should be responsible for everything we do, and if we feel that we can afford to do something wrong, then we should do something we enjoy even if our parents are against it.

I have searched for it many times, promised me many times, and have been making things difficult and insulting to me in every way, maybe I am a mistake.

I have searched for it many times, promised me many times, and have been making things difficult and insulting to me in every way, maybe I am a mistake.

If your parents don't support any decision you make, you should first calm down and think about whether what you're doing is right or wrong. If you insist on doing this, you should sit down and communicate with your parents to analyze the pros and cons. As adults, we should be responsible for everything we do, and if we feel that we can afford to do something wrong, then we should do something we enjoy even if our parents are against it.

I have searched for it many times, promised me many times, and have been making things difficult and insulting to me in every way, maybe I am a mistake.

If your parents don't support any decision you make, you should first calm down and think about whether what you're doing is right or wrong. If you insist on doing this, you should sit down and communicate with your parents to analyze the pros and cons. As adults, we should be responsible for everything we do, and if we feel that we can afford to do something wrong, then we should do something we enjoy even if our parents are against it. 【】