My child is a sophomore in college, and recently he suddenly didn t want to communicate with me

In order to solve this problem, we must first find out why children are reluctant to communicate with their parents.

First of all, parents should report a critical attitude to examine themselves, whether there is anything that makes children afraid and frightened in daily life, such as tone, attitude, expression, etc.

Did you not listen carefully when your child told you something?

Did you once tell your child what was in your heart to you, and you told it to others as a joke or took it as a joke?

Have you ever been harshly criticized by your child when he talked to you about some naughty things that his school classmates were naughty?

If this is the case, then of course the child will hurt his self-esteem or be afraid of being criticized by you and will not want to communicate with you.

I am very touched by the establishment of a good parent-child relationship:

1) The core content of family education is personality education. Cultivating personality should start with cultivating parent-child affection, and with a good parent-child relationship, everything is possible.

2) The main aspect of the intergenerational contradiction is in the elders. Every elder should find effective ways and means to solve intergenerational conflicts from himself.

Respect for children's rightsWhen parents respect their children's rights and guide their children to cherish their rights, truly beneficial homeschooling can begin.

It is only by being respected that a child can gain self-esteem and may learn to respect others, and self-esteem and respect for others are the first conditions for becoming a person with a healthy personality. Because children are still immature, their sense of self-esteem is often in a budding state and they are particularly vulnerable.

Therefore, adults should protect children's awareness of rights and give children enough respect. It can be said that whether or not to respect children will play an important role in the development of children throughout their lives and deserve special attention from parents.

It may not be that you suddenly stopped communicating, but you suddenly found out.

Sophomores should be more sensible at this age.

Maybe I'm in a period of confusion.

I don't know what to do next.

Think for yourself first.

I should be able to communicate with you when I think about it.

Don't worry too much.

After all, I'm an adult.

Boys? If there's something going on at school, ask his classmates.

My dear, I understand your concern that your child will be treated badly socially. But what about this kind of thing, it's not in a hurry. It's a simple thing to get along with others without respecting hail, especially for some introverts.

Only the world and this society do not allow introverted people, so everyone must learn to get along with others and socialize with others, otherwise they will not be welcome. I'm also a person who doesn't like to socialize with others and socialize too much, especially with strangers, the friends I like to make are with me for a long time, but I'm often told by adults to be too introverted, can't socialize, etc., I can understand your child's feelings. In fact, I think it is not a simple thing to get along with others and learn to socialize, first of all, you should not be in a hurry, but take your time.

Secondly, there is also a choice to get along with others, don't be with those bad people or people with different personalities, and people with discordant views can ignore it. In the end, I think this matter should not be too forceful to the child, and not too aggressive, and the good communication with the child, the introversion of this thing needs to be changed slowly. If it weren't for the fact that the world needs introverts to change!