What happened to the girls who had a lot of boyfriends in the end?

Looking back at the girls who have had a lot of boyfriends around them, there will generally be such changes:

First, their horizons will get higher and higher. Compared with girls who only have one boyfriend, girls who have had many boyfriends will enrich and improve their outlook on life, values, and worldview due to the different styles of boyfriend choices.

Especially after they have dated excellent men, and then look back at the little boys around them who are not familiar with the world, they will feel that each other is very young.

Second: their experience will become richer and richer. I have a girlfriend by my side, she has made 3 boyfriends, one is an English student, 4 years later, Xueba got a scholarship as she wished, went to the United States to study for graduate school, in the process of dating with Xueba, her best friend's English level has been greatly improved, and later although the two broke up due to separation, but the girlfriend opened a window to observe American society, which is also very helpful for her own later study in the United Kingdom.

As for the painter boyfriend and photographer boyfriend she befriended, they all added a lot of color and experience to her life.

Thirdly, their psychology will become stronger and stronger. If you don't experience wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow, in fact, emotional experience is also like this.

Little girls are generally easy to immerse themselves in their own emotional world, and once they fall in love, they are deeply trapped in it and cannot extricate themselves. They will be much calmer, and they will analyze the past of a relationship relatively rationally, learn lessons from failed emotional experiences, soberly identify scumbags, and handsomely choose high-quality young men who really belong to themselves to be their boyfriends.

In short, as long as you stick to your principles, keep yourself clean, and use a sincere new heart to date, I believe you will always find your favorite boyfriend.

Some people live happily, some are bumpy, in fact, it is closely related to the personality of the individual, this is like playing cards, some people always play badly no matter how many games they play, and some people do not play well at first, but after being familiar with the rules, they know how to use tactics to play the cards in their hands well, and finally win the victory. Usually the former thinks that others win because they are lucky to draw a good hand, and ignore the opponent's method.

Some people are unhappy no matter how many boyfriends they find, and some people are not suitable for themselves at the beginning, so they will summarize the reasons and avoid jumping into the pit of repetition next time, and usually the final ending will be happy. In addition, having a lot of boyfriends does not mean that the girl is bad, she may just want to be loved, so she is keen to be in love.

There are just two examples around. The two girls don't know each other, but their life experiences are very similar, and the results are very different. The parents are not highly educated, and the family is patriarchal.

They both started falling in love in high school, were admitted to junior college, and continued to fall in love with various boys. They never seem to be short of peach blossoms, and there will be a next one soon after they break up. But every boyfriend A girl looks for is similar, and girl B usually looks for different types of boys, and in the end she finds that she doesn't like boys of the same age.

After graduating, not long after working, B met a senior brother who was several years older, and got married not long after. After three years of marriage, he held two sons and one daughter, and opened a mother and baby store to take care of the children while taking care of them, and his life was quite happy. And A, has been hovering between boys, until the age of 28, married a rich second generation, but divorced not long after marriage, because she has always planned to live dependent on men, she thought that she could be willful if she found a long-term meal ticket, ate and drank every day, maxed out her credit card and borrowed money everywhere, and even the creditor came to the door.

As a result, the family of the rich second generation couldn't stand it anymore and ordered a divorce, and the A daughter is still hiding debts everywhere.

It's normal to have a boyfriend, some people are very lucky, their first love can be fulfilled, and some people are unlucky and always can't meet the right person, and they can only fall in love a few more times, so you can't judge the quality of a girl by how much, it depends on the character.

Once those girls who have had a lot of boyfriends, in the end, they generally return to the family to marry the person they love the most, the reason why they have had a lot of boyfriends is because they have not met true love, if they meet true love, they will follow each other with all their hearts, and the beginning of their relationship is because they are happy and in love, and they are not looking at each other's conditions, or the other party is handsome, etc., and they start a relationship casually.

The more you go to the back, the more you understand who is suitable for you, what you want, and in the end you will cross the better, as long as you meet the right person at the right time, then everything is right.

found an ordinary girl and got married, because he was picky in the relationship, and finally could only choose an ordinary point to be together.

In fact, I think everyone's relationship is different, because everyone has a boyfriend or girlfriend may have different personalities, so I feel that every relationship is different, and it should be analyzed according to the actual situation. Why do many guys care how many boyfriends a girl has?

In fact, there are some boys who really mind, but they feel that the current society is already very free, so everyone is very free to fall in love, if the boy is very mindful that his girlfriend has had a few boyfriends before, it may be because the boy is very possessive, so he is very afraid that his girlfriend will not behave well, and he will not take the relationship seriously, so these boys will be extra concerned.

But I think some boys may not mind remembering how many boyfriends their girlfriends have had, but in fact, they don't mind how many boys their girlfriends have dated, because girlfriends have been free in their lives before, so now even if their girlfriends have fallen in love with themselves, they will not mind their girlfriends, what happened to other boys before, because after all, this girl is living with you now, and I think everyone just needs to grasp the present. I feel that the most important thing is now, and there is no need to hold on to the previous things, because it is not interesting, and the two people are likely to quarrel, so the reason why the boy will mind very much may be because the boy is very possessive.

Of course, maybe your boyfriend loves you very much, then maybe this boyfriend cares a lot about how many boyfriends he talked about before, because boys also want to know what your previous life was like, so everyone should look at this correctly.

Because the boy feels that the girl has too many boyfriends, he feels that the girl will not care too much about himself, so the boy will not have a sense of security for such a girl.

Because boys are very possessive, they always feel that their girlfriend should belong only to themselves physically and mentally, and even the first time should belong to themselves, so they care a lot about how many boyfriends they have talked about.

Because boys have a very strong exclusivity in love, although that is the girlfriend's past experience, it is inevitable that they will be curious and jealous. But smart men don't choose to know about a girl's past.

Because in the eyes of many boys, if a girl has had a lot of boyfriends, it means that the girl is not good at this, and she will feel that the girl is unfaithful to her relationship.

Every man will mind the purity of the girl's spirit, and he doesn't want to just get this woman's person without getting her heart, and he doesn't want his girlfriend to think about others when he is with him.

In this case, boys may care, girls are more casual about feelings, have had too many boyfriends, and will not have a stable relationship when they are with themselves, nor will they have a sense of security.

Because the boy thinks that the girl has more friends, he will feel that the girl is a person who does not know how to pursue love, or he doesn't like such a girl, because he thinks that the girl has fewer boyfriends, which will reflect the girl's innocence.

This is normal, both boys and girls will care, if the girl has made a lot of friends of the opposite sex before, he will think that this person is not a flower? Or if there is a problem, you will not be treated like this.

Maybe many boys will care about this, because if a girl has had a lot of boyfriends, it means that it is not very clean.

Why do many guys care how many boyfriends a girl has? Actually, I think it's like this because everyone has the right to choose their feelings. But I think we must express it sincerely, and stop living in lies and deceiving other people's feelings.

The guy cares about the woman very much, wants to know about the woman's past, wants to be unique to the woman, and the man wants to ask such a question, which shows that he is attracted to the woman.

If there are too many boys, then it means that the girl is not very clean, and if it is just a fixed boy, then it is still dedicated.

Many men care that their girlfriends have been in love many times, but in fact, they have moved the idea of getting married for a lifetime, and they begin to care about their wives' chastity, and they don't care about playing.

Many boys are very double standard, they can have a lot of girlfriends, but they can't accept girlfriends, and many boyfriends feel that if a girl has a lot of boyfriends, it is not a sign of self-love.

Most guys prefer girls with simpler relationships, which will reduce their stress and will not affect the future of the two people.

Sometimes love can be a young man's great motivation, can make his future full of hope, but everyone is not very lucky, sometimes their other half is not their first love, and even their other half is also experienced many times of failed feelings, now many boys are looking for a girl, will always mind the woman's ex very much, especially when the woman's ex is more, at this time the boy may choose to break up. In my opinion, I am also very afraid to face such a thing, and I don't want to get such a girl, mainly for the following reasons.

Yes, why not. Girls who have talked about a lot of boyfriends show that people have experience, and falling in love with such a girl can learn a lot of love knowledge and grow a lot.

I don't dare to ask for it. This emotional experience is too rich. It also shows that this girl has a strong instability in her relationship, and the speed of changing her boyfriend is too fast, and she feels a little abusive.

Of course you dare to ask for it, because since this kind of girl chooses to be in the palm of your hand, it means that you meet her requirements and are the people she wants to be with for a lifetime.

Summary. It is possible that the result will be the same.

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Ask the teacher, this man has been married 3 times and has talked to a lot of girlfriends.

If you are in a relationship with such a man, will it be the same result as your ex?

Ask his friend and ask him, what is different about me from your other girlfriends, and this difference can be so big that you decide to marry me?

It is possible that the result will be the same.

Before having a girlfriend, although boys have a certain understanding of girls, they don't have a deep understanding. ......When a man falls in love with Qisheng and has a girlfriend, he will have a truly comprehensive understanding of the girl, and he will know some things that he has never known before. ......Specifically, when a boy has a girlfriend, he will know how difficult it is to communicate with a girl, how gentle a girl is, and how powerful a girl is.

1. After getting a girlfriend, the boy will know how difficult it is to communicate with the girl.

The communication between people is actually a very simple thing, I say you listen, you say I listen, it's ......But when a guy has a girlfriend, he will find that it is so difficult to communicate with his girlfriend, even to ......the point that he cannot understand it completelySpecifically, it was originally a very simple thing, and the girl had to say it in a circle. Another example is that girls sometimes talk the opposite and the opposite, which makes the boys scratch their heads ......In short, it is only after having a girlfriend that a guy finds it so difficult to communicate with a girl.

2. When a boy has a girlfriend, he will realize that girls are not only gentle.

In the minds of the vast majority of boys, girls are very gentle beings. But when they have a girlfriend, the boy will find that the girl has more than just gentle ......Girls can also play pranks and make boys miserable; Girls can't even compare to boys when they have a temper, and the momentum is earth-shattering; The most unbearable thing for boys is that when girls are unhappy, they will turn things up many years ago and bring up old things again, and they will be dizzy and ...... when they talk about itThese are situations that a guy will never feel before he has a girlfriend.

3. Only after having a girlfriend will the boy find out that the girl is actually very powerful.

In the eyes of boys, girls are soft and weak existences......But when the boy has a girlfriend, he will find that the truth is not like that at all: the girl is actually very strong, she is not tired of shopping all day, and it is easy to carry a large bag and a small bag home after shopping. ......And the most incredible thing for boys is that when their boyfriend is not around, girls can even carry a whole bucket of mineral water on the fifth floor, and as soon as they see their boyfriend coming, they will immediately become a little bird, and they can no longer hold the bucket of water......These situations cannot be felt at all until a guy has a girlfriend.

From these things, in addition to feeling incredible to girls, boys can also feel the full friendship and happiness of girls to themselves.