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Anonymous users2024-02-08I choose to be famous. The reason why I chose this way is because in my heart, I don't think my love will last forever.
The meaning of life is hard work, and if my career can rise, I will have the ability to do a lot of what I want to do and complete a lot of dreams that I have not completed. I can give my parents better and help the friends I want to help, as well as strangers. Doing these things makes me happy.
But in love, I am happy, but there will also be sad times.
When I was a child, I used to watch my parents quarrel, my grandparents quarrel, my relatives' couples quarrel, and my neighbors' homes. These quarrels are actually draining your happiness and your patience little by little. When you run out of things to spend, you're leaving.
Rather than eventually leaving, I'd rather be a shrunken turtle than start.
Many of my friends know about my thoughts and think it's incredible, and more because they think that I may be too influenced by my family. Actually, I think there may be family influences, but more importantly, I have read books for so many years, which makes me feel that success is more important than love. I'm used to being free, I love myself, I don't hurt others and I don't have any bad intentions.
It doesn't mean that I can accept the communication with my mother-in-law after marriage, and the gentle telling of my grievances with my husband. I'm not a wronged person myself, and if I want to get married, if he does something that betrays me, then I'll get divorced. I'm very rigid, don't think that something will lock me up.
I liked my psychology teacher very much, the first time I saw her, I thought she was very cold, she was pregnant and lecturing us. In the first class, she told us that she is a master of psychology and a national second-level psychological counselor, and she came to the school to teach because she felt that she could improve herself, and if we didn't listen to the class, she wouldn't talk about it, anyway, there was no loss for her. Her salary as a counselor is much higher than that of the school, her house is bought by herself, her car is also her own money, and she has an independent economy.
She once told us that girls must have their own independent economy, but also have their own ideas, the most important thing is to work hard to develop themselves, rather than blindly behind the man's back, or rely on love, the reality is like this, love does not last long after all, even if it can last, it is not necessarily you. Just like me, I have money, a successful career, I want to do whatever I want, if there is a problem in love, my husband does something sorry for me, I can leave him immediately, and my life will not change anything.
I want to be happy every day, not to live for men, not to think about what my husband wants to eat every day. Live your own life and live for yourself. So in love and career, I choose a career that I have a chance to succeed if I work hard, rather than love.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07<> frankly, I would choose to be in love.
Love is one of the most beautiful human emotions, which can not be found, and it is by no means replaced by any fame, power, and wealth. Love is like fine wine, enough to make people intoxicated, enough to make people promise life and death. What kind of achievement can be achieved in the world at the expense of one's life?
And I thought, if doomed to death, what is the value of all the power, all the wealth, all the accomplishments. However, love is different, people can go to the soup for love, they can live and die together. The love story of Liang Zhu that has been passed down through the ages has touched the hearts of many young men and women and inspired their beautiful yearning for true love in the world.
Love can be the driving force to overcome all difficulties and setbacks. Love without bread may not last long, but a true man will bear to let his beloved woman be without food and clothing and displaced for the rest of his life; What virtuous woman would allow her man to be mediocre and do nothing. In order to make each other's lives happier, men and women in love will turn love into motivation, devote themselves more consciously to their careers, and strive to open up a new world of their own.
In the hard work of their careers, the love flowers of the two will be more beautiful and sweeter.
Of course, having a successful career is also one of the life goals that people pursue. Career success can create better material conditions for love and marriage. However, if you blindly pursue career achievements and ignore love and family, you will never get happiness in life.
Let's take a look at the so-called successful people, at first, they missed love because of the pursuit of career success, and neglected their married wives, and when they became famous, they abandoned their married wives in order to find true love, got married today, divorced tomorrow, and then married and divorced, but did they find a happy love? Can a love that has not been tested by hardships be true love?
Best, again, if I had to choose between success and love, I would always choose love.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06I will choose love to be happy, love will make people experience another feeling in the world, how many people betray love because of success, they don't know that they have betrayed the most important thing, if this kind of thing is betrayed, it can never be recovered. Love makes people young and energetic, and they can lift their spirits in everything, but if they lack love, they feel like they can't make up for the lack of something in their lives. How many people want fame and love to reap both, but such beautiful things only appear in a very small number of people, only with the happiness of love can better have fame and fortune, if you only pursue fame and fortune then the chance of getting true love is very small, because most people value your fame and fortune, not true love.
The happiness of love will bring infinite motivation to people, so success will be relatively simple for people who are happy in love, if love is not happy, it will be relatively difficult to become famous. If a person is successful but does not find true love, then he will feel infinite emptiness and cannot experience the sweetness brought by love. If a person is happy in love, he will feel that he has the whole world, that the world is so wonderful, that he will be motivated to do anything, and that he will feel that he is the happiest person in the world.
It is not easy to find true love in this world, if you have found your true love now, then please cherish it.
For me in this world, love is more important than fame and fortune, because most of the love obtained by fame and fortune is purposeful, so you can't experience real love, only when love is happy can you feel your own importance and your own happiness.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Happiness, achievement, success, fame.
Happiness: Only when you are happy can you work with peace of mind.
Achievement: Achievement is the only way to further improve to success.
Success: Build on the foundation of achievement, the foundation of fame.
Fame: Almost all people become famous after success! Success is the only way to be famous! (Generally speaking, there are exceptions).
As a perfect life, family love is indispensable.
Although sometimes there will be a time when you have to choose one or the other, for example, if your chosen marriage is not agreed by your family, at this time, you have to make a careful choice. Family love is love, both have love, and there must be understanding and love in them. >>>More
Dude, are you asking a question or just trying to vent the frustration in your chest? I don't see anything you need to choose from, not even an option. >>>More
Of course, it's family affection, family affection and love are very important, but I always feel that family affection may be a little heavier, but people in love may be carried away by love I have solved a lot of situations like yours before, you must not give up family affection because of love, the best way is to persuade your parents to accept, once not twice, sincerity can move the world Many people have achieved their goal according to my statement, but since your parents are so opposed, you still have to seriously consider your parents' suggestions, Maybe he really doesn't fit you in some aspects I've seen many girls, although their parents finally agreed, but after marriage, the girl found out the problem, she was very unhappy, and it was herself who was hurt in the end, especially girls, who were often impulsive in reciprocal love, so think about it quietly, at least your parents won't hurt you, no matter what they do, there is only one starting point, that is, for your happiness I believe it will help you.
This question should be said to be different from person to person, everyone's feelings and life requirements are different, but I think in today's social form, it should be said that career is more important, hehe, because without a career, you can't get the so-called love, whether it is a woman or a man, women should also have a baby before marriage, career-oriented, of course, after marriage, especially after having a baby, because of the influence of many market customs, many people must turn their focus to the family; For men, it should be more career-oriented, without career, he can't be said to be a good man, and without career, he can't take on the responsibility of the family, so all in all, it should be career-oriented in today's society.
This society is very realistic, in fact, we all need love and bread! If you really have to choose, then think carefully, do you want love or bread? Because every choice is like standing at a fork in the road, it depends on how you choose. >>>More