can t let go because of love than Jin Jian still can t face failure

Tell me a story.

One person said to a monk, I just can't let go.

The monk said that there is nothing that cannot be let go.

But I just can't let it go, the man said.

The monk slowly began to heat the water into the cup, and the man held the cup tightly, but when the water overflowed and flowed into his hand, the man let go of his hand.

The monk said that there is nothing in the world that you can't let go, and when you really know the pain, you will naturally let go.

Personally, I feel that what I really can't let go of is not one person, but the feeling of being together, and it will get better slowly.

It's normal to not be able to let go, after all, you have loved each other, and I think infatuation and intolerance of your own failures each account for a part. But the past will always pass, and we must learn to face the future. Love is sometimes like a glass of water, only by constantly pouring water will the water in the cup become clearer.

So maybe finding your own true happiness will make you let go faster. It can also be said that time is a good medicine for forgetting past love!

Maybe you really love him! Because you think you've done your best, but you're not getting the results you want! That's why I can't put it down for a long time.

Try to face it! Maybe it's not that big deal! It's because he doesn't cherish you, and you won't have regrets if you work hard!

What's the use of waiting for him Hurry up and break it off Otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper Maybe this is the feeling It's unstoppable I wish you find your own happiness as soon as possible.

If there is a fate to come together, forget it if you don't have it, which shows that he doesn't care about you very much, and if you don't care, forget it, why do you want to do this?

Hehe, this kind of man advises you to die early.

Don't wait, the next one will be better.

It's cruel in reality, but you still have to face it.

Love is like sand in your hands ......

Maybe you're really not a good fit.

To love him is to trust him and give him freedom. No one can bear the suffocating love.

To love Him is to love Him now. Include his strengths and weaknesses and don't try to change him.

To love him is to respect him. Don't treat him as your own personal belongings.

Many girls are prone to make a mistake, "I love you, you should love me", love to the point that after making a personal promise, I always feel that I have given so much for you, I have the right to ask you what to do, and you should do the same. And intervene in all aspects, but I don't know that this is easy to arouse the disgust of the other party, as if it is a kind of business, once the relationship becomes a sale, and it is a strong sale and forced buying, at this time he can no longer feel your love, only tired, and the result can be imagined.

No matter how deep the love is, the relationship between the sexes must not happen too early. This will create passivity for both sides. Actually, both of you have made mistakes, and both parties are responsible.

He is now very passive with you, that is, because of a sense of responsibility, his feelings for you are getting less and less, and to regain this relationship, both parties must reflect on themselves and what harm they have brought to each other. In reality, we love someone and unknowingly cause harm to them, and things that we don't even know abound.

I have always believed that love is a two-way emotional exchange, the admiration of two hearts, the joy of two loves, and the spark of soul and soul collision.

I can't live if I give him up, I love him so much! In fact, this idea is ridiculous, in life, who can't live without it? Without whom, the earth cannot turn?

Unless you really don't want to live anymore, no one can stand in your way. Usually what we think is the "only" thing is not really true, but we don't look for it with our hearts.

True love stems from the heartfelt admiration for each other and is built on the basis of mutual affection. Anyone who is crazy about loving others without caring whether he is loved or not, or who is only interested in taking and not knowing what he really gives, will not end well.

The landlord thinks about it! Let go when you should let go, I'm not a blow, but a truth-seeking!

Calm down separately, maybe there will be a new view.

Don't just think that you have a memory with him, analyze him comprehensively, or ask a friend to help you ask for clarification

Because you love him, you can't let him go, don't think so much.

One thing you should know is that there is no other way the earth will still turn, time will still go, you should also understand that time can make people forget some things, and you should not hate him, this is just a joke between God and you, but this joke will make people sad.

Stop indulging and enjoy the world.

You're a good girl, and he's not wrong, he's the kind of man who is the kind of character, a little heartless, and always doesn't talk (because I have friends with such a personality) The reason is that you don't get along, really, you really can't help but believe this, so don't be upset, because everyone is not wrong, there's nothing to be sad about, you have to muster up courage, because you still have a long way to go, and there's another one waiting for you not far away, a person who really belongs to you, and believe me, you will get real happiness You have to learn to face life with a smile because you are a good girl, and I sincerely wish you well

The love of the two lovers no longer exists by the time either party proposes to break up.

I forgot where I saw this sentence, love is not the whole of a person's life"What is the old world, the sea vows", it's just a good story in the world, how many are really like this?

Open another window, the flowers are blooming just right, there are parents around you, and there are many relatives and friends who love you again, and they want you to be happy and don't have to worry about yourself.

Some people say that life is a mirror, you smile at her, she smiles at you, it's like this.

Separate, separate, when he loves you, he really loves you, when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you, when you really come out, you will feel that everything doesn't matter, you don't have nothing to lose him, maybe in the future there will be a more suitable person for you waiting for you in front of you.

If you love it, you can't let it go.

When you don't love, you naturally let go.

lz There is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed, since it is divided, don't force it, now I just hope that I can do it as I like, and chase the wind

Give it up! Giving up is the best outcome!

Because you have paid for him, you are reluctant. It must be unfortunate that the feelings of separation reunite again. You are now separated, and it will bring you a lot of pain and tears, but this is temporary.

Mom's words are right, after all, adults walk a lot and see a lot, and their words have their own reasons. End this relationship, let yourself soberly summarize this relationship, and when you find that a person can live well, you will face the relationship very calmly and rationally, and treat the future love life.

If your heart changes, you can't get it back, and even if you combine it, you already have the pain in your heart, so give up your reluctant feelings and face a new life! Maybe you will think of him from time to time in the future, but you have to refrain from missing him and remember the tears and pain he brought you, so that you can find a suitable partner for you more accurately.

I'm sure you'll get better!

Relax, there is no need to think about the painful things, the future life is still very beautiful!

Believe in a word, the person who loves you, he will not dislike you so much, he will tell you with his actions that he does not need you to be controlled, and he will love you very much.

Don't forget.

Love is beautiful, don't forget if you love, it's a beautiful memory.

Don't be too attached and learn to give up. Oblivion.

I hope you can figure it out, what others say is useless.

It's all about yourself.

Zhaopanlm's words are not mistaken, it's ridiculous.

There are too many helplessness in life, especially when encountering emotional difficulties! There are many people who will be disappointed in love, and the whole person will be like a collapse, unable to concentrate on anything, and have no strength to do anything. There will always be a day to get through.

Break up, he won't really love you!

Dear, O

Women have to be self-reliant, you have nothing to do on the Internet every day, of course you put all your energy on him. So he will also think that you are too careful.

The reason why women attract men is that they can't rely on being simply young and beautiful, you have to have something of your own, so that it can last for a long time.

Hurry up and find yourself a sustenance.

Alas, why did your boyfriend say that?

Is there a misunderstanding between you?

Both parties sit down and talk heart-to-heart.

Khan, I'm still a junior high school student, so I don't study this...

Forget it, he's not the best choice!

I'm a man, but I want to say that the man is really a grandson, a brute.

Because you have already given yourself to him, is your love not protected by law, so he will be like this, saying that he will dump you, if it is after marriage, I think he should not dare to be so presumptuous.

What is life for? The most important thing is to be happy, if you are not happy, why do you have to persevere? Things are often more difficult than we think, and as soon as you take action, you will find that many of your original ideas are wrong.

Life is so short, be brave enough to pursue your own happy life.

No amount of I love you, it's not as good as being together. If you love her, you will definitely be with her, and you can't let go of the split song, because the story you experienced together will always be remembered in your heart, but you must first understand a few questions: 1:

Love is not one-sided, as long as anyone has a problem, it will be dispersed. There is no need to be attached, because true affection is to tolerate each other. 2：

You have to determine what she thinks, if she doesn't respond to you, she doesn't love you anymore, or waits for you to coax her, this question should be distinguished. 3: Whether your Sakura rent's character is suitable, even if it is not suitable, can it be run-in?

4: Be sure of your own thoughts, stick to love, don't regret it even if you break up, and let her go as soon as possible if you don't love. Finally, I would like to say that not every talk can go to the end, and not every insistence can be answered, find someone who belongs to you, not accommodate a passerby who does not belong to you, if you have been sure, don't give up easily.

If you really can't forget it, then don't force yourself, bury it in a corner of your heart, and take it out and recall it when you think about it, or maybe after a long time, you yourself will forget it unconsciously?

The first love is unforgettable, but the past is the past, don't be too nostalgic for the past and miss the happiness in front of you

Bless the lovers to be married!

Work hard, believe that there will be better waiting for you, the future is always more important than the past!

Emptiness can be had, let go can be borne, and there is nothing that cannot be put down. Be sure to open it!

An old monk talked to the little monk for a long time before going down the mountain, and finally told him that the most important thing is to avoid women, and when you see a girl down the mountain, you must hide far away! , The little monk said that he knew, and not long after going down the mountain, he saw a woman falling into the water and shouted: "Help, who will help me cross the river."

The little monk pretended not to see it. The old monk stepped forward and said, "I'll help you cross the river."

After finishing speaking, he carried the woman across the river, and after reaching the bank, the old monk put the woman down to say goodbye, and the master and apprentice continued to hurry, and the little monk thought: The master taught me for a long time, saying that the most important thing is to avoid women, and he did not hesitate when he carried the girl just now. Then he continued to walk and walked out of more than ten miles, and the little monk spoke

Master, if you don't ask, you'll suffocate to death"! The old monk said, "What is it that has suffocated you like this"?

The little monk said: "You told me not to be so serious about women, why didn't you hesitate to carry that girl just now." The master said:

Do you think that saving people's lives at that time or jealous women was the greatest? , Besides, as soon as the teacher crossed the river, he put down the woman, why can't you let go of it after walking for more than ten miles?" The little monk had an epiphany.

Why think so much and cherish the time you can spend together. Don't think about those unhappy things.,Fate is not something you can control.,Maybe tomorrow you accidentally have an accident.,Go faster than others.。。

So what we care about is that it's okay now, to make good memories...

Anyway, don't leave him for the time being, even if he will leave you one day, at least during this time, give him some happiness, even if he leaves, he will be at ease.

Take good care of him, and the heavens will help you.

Have you seen a doctor? I heard that the summer ** asthma is good.

This is the ** TV station's health road winter disease and summer treatment program, there is a person there who is also asthmatic, they are much stronger, see if it helps you.

If the relationship can be let go immediately, it is unless you have not really loved and invested in it, or you are absolutely cold-hearted. Normal people can't let go. You can only use time to dilute it little by little, the process is very long and painful, and it is even more torturous, you have to hold on!

I can't let go of a relationship.

Try to live a new life on your own, and it might be a good idea to escape at this time.

Make yourself full, make yourself beautiful, read and write books, watch some movies, or study hard and work hard.

Over time, it will gradually fade.

When you're sad, watch a sad movie, cry out loud, and don't suppress yourself.

Hope you come out soon.