Consult with a professional for psychological problems

The specific situation you said is not very clear, according to the situation you said, the girl's depression is more serious, there will be no bipolar disorder and passive experience so serious, but the symptoms have begun to destroy the girl's social function, it is best to contact the local psychological counseling center for a face-to-face consultation, if you do not plan to go to the psychological counseling center, it is recommended that parents and teachers have a kind and patient attitude, increase the communication between classmates, care for each other, and help her rebuild her self-confidence, although the college entrance examination is important, But we must pay attention to emotional guidance and regulation, and we can't blindly suppress it, otherwise the situation will only get worse and worse.

You're talking about you, generally appear in single parents, or only children, or family members are each accompanied, boys are really fatherly, there is no role model and coordination, and girls are insecure.

It doesn't matter, just because you don't do well this time doesn't mean that you won't do well in the future. Stop thinking about it, and instead of worrying about what to do in the future, start studying now. As long as you work hard, you will definitely improve.

It's not hard to learn. I believe that you will always support you, Xiaodong, I believe that you will definitely do better in the exam next time, let's work together! ”

Hello, the specific symptoms are still not very clear, are there any signs of mania? Is there self-awareness? I hope to be clearer.

The nature of the profession of psychological counselor requires psychological counselors to get rid of their own values and listen and empathize from a detached and neutral position, which determines that psychological counselors cannot do psychological counseling for acquaintances, relatives and friends. Just as a judge wants to recuse himself from hearing a relative's or friend's case, but he can provide legal help from the perspective of a friend, a psychological counselor can help a friend solve his troubles and enlighten and persuade him, but as a friend, he cannot make the counselor completely neutral, so he cannot carry out professional psychological counseling.

Even if the counselor is able to get rid of the shackles of being a friend and do his or her job from a completely neutral point of view, it is difficult for the help-seeker, who is his friend, to do so, and the friendship between them will always affect the counseling process.

For example, if a counselor is counseling a friend, and it involves his evaluation or even attack on one of your mutual friends, it is difficult for the help-seeker to express some inner thoughts about the counselor and the counselor, because he will be worried about whether it will affect your actual relationship once the counseling is over.

A psychological counselor, or a friend, you can't have both, which is also the professional ethics and even professional norms of psychological counselors. As soon as the counseling is over, the relationship between the counselor and the client comes to an end, and even the use of the counseling relationship to obtain other conveniences is not tolerated by the professional ethics of the counselor.

I think it should come.

It's not that he can't do it, but he asks Bai if he doesn't want to do it

Title! Maybe he, as a professional psychiatric doctor, has a lot of emotional elements for you friends, and he has something to take into account in it! And unlike other people, they can enlighten you more objectively, I'm afraid that maybe if you say too many things that your friends don't like to hear, it may hurt each other's friendship and feelings, right?

This is also quite normal! Unless your client asks him to take the liberty of repaying and counseling them, it may be possible to get closer to each other, and it will not make it difficult for both of you to do it.

The so-called see through is not thorough, I am this profession, so what I say affects people, especially friends. Just like doctors, if you add an emotional factor, then the killer will be stupid.

Don't label yourself as depressed, when you can't solve the problem, all people will feel lost, confused and even sad. Having these emotions does not mean even being depressed.

If the negative emotion lasts for too long (more than three months) and affects your normal work, study and life, then you may need to seek help from others, including professional psychological counselors.

As for the elimination of such negative emotions, I think it is normal for the existence of short-term negative emotions in general. As long as you are open-minded and self-debugging in time, you can do it.

The answer upstairs is so professional, it really deserves to be a psychological counselor, but I suggest it, or feel it yourself first, as the upstairs said, it is normal to feel lost when encountering contradictions, depression, but it depends on the degree, if it seriously affects life, then there is a problem.

Hello this friend;

The child's mother has psychological problems. The child's mother is anxious, and at the same time, the child's mother pays too much attention to the child's health and sleep, which causes pressure on the child, and it is more difficult for the child to fall asleep well under stressful conditions, so the mother is more anxious, and the more anxious the mother, the more difficult the child's sleep will be. It's a vicious circle.

Solution; Mothers need counseling. A mother's anxiety is rooted in her own upbringing. The mother is insecure, she projects her inner worries and fears onto her child, causing the child's anxiety, and her problems are also made more anxious by not being able to help the child well.

The idea and direction of the solution is to reduce the mother's anxiety and let the mother slowly achieve calmness. This requires a detailed interpretation of the mother's personality, psychology, growth process, whether the marriage is happy and other detailed information.

The mother's problem is caused by worrying about her daughter, and the daughter is caused by the pressure of studying, I think both people need psychological counseling help, and the mother and daughter receive psychological counseling together, but at present, this problem is not very serious, it is best to prevent it now, it is recommended to go to a professional psychological counseling center for counseling and counseling! Refer you to a counselor.

The child should gradually stop taking anti-anxiety and anti-depressant drugs, and the child will have the experience of being more unable to sleep because of the fear of insomnia for a certain period of time, and it can be completely restored to normal through psychological adjustment. The mother's excessive concern and worry about the child's physical condition not only increases the child's psychological pressure, but also makes her physically and mentally exhausted and painful, and the mother is more in need of psychological help.

Hello, severe insomnia may develop into mental disorders. **Insomnia should nourish the heart and spleen, nourish yin and reduce fire, soothe the liver and diarrhea, nourish the heart and calm the nerves, feel comfortable, and sleep peacefully.

Children are a typical type of psychological anxiety, this can be determined. It should be too much pressure from all sides, from school, family, and myself. Therefore, this anxiety state will be caused, and the situation is not very serious, and it can be adjusted by mastering the correct self-regulation method.

Mother's words I have a tendency to self-compulsively, which will cause more pressure on the child due to overprotective care, so it is recommended to consult a psychologist.

Children need psychological help, children have insomnia caused by psychological reasons, you can remove this psychological cause through psychological counseling, and sleep will naturally be good. Mom's problem is anxiety, anxiety, lack of patience, etc., hehe, I can't say what the problem is, anyway, Mom has a problem, let's find a professional psychological counselor. I had insomnia for nearly a month because something happened at home, and then I was cured by a teacher in Telford Psychology.

So it's clearer for the kids.

It's so easy, cut it off with a knife! Then just take some medicine!

I, who am the same age as you, am also similar to this kind of character, afraid of crowd gatherings and don't like gossip conversations, always passive in interpersonal interactions, and prefer to immerse myself in fantasy than real life.

Maybe you're an introvert and your job doesn't require you to deal with strangers, I'm more of a listener than a speaker in the team, and in the long run there's a sense of security that I'm not taking risks, and that I'm safest as a spectator.

In fact, we all need to slowly get out of our own small circle, and the elders often say that the accumulation of contacts and interpersonal communication is really a very important thing, but when we are young, we can't let go and are unwilling to try. We live in this society, it is impossible not to deal with people, it is impossible not to abide by some unspoken rules of society, otherwise one day, you will find that you are out of place with this society and do not know how to get along with people.

Closing one's personality is often fragile, easy to be pessimistic, and there is a danger of depression in the long run! So let's work together, break through our own cuts, try to chat with a colleague who doesn't have much contact with you every day, and gradually you will find that it is not difficult to contact people.

So do I! And that's not wrong for you to understand it that way! Friends are not expensive, it is enough to have a confidant! Too much will be 'indiscriminate'! You may think that the life of a person and an umbrella is the most suitable for you! There are too many people, but I don't get used to it!

It's not unhealthy. But not very well. It's easy to be depressed.

Chat with people who are interested in the same interests, that is, make more friends who are like this, and it will not cause trouble.

Then again, do you feel happy or happy like that?

A lot of people in the city are like this, as long as they feel good about themselves.

There is nothing abnormal about this, everything is normal, the solution to this problem is that you break through your own life circle, the main thing you have now is fear, you are afraid to communicate with others, go out to participate in some social activities, it is very good for you, by the way, make some friends with a more cheerful personality, you will change in a month. The environment will definitely change you.

Everyone has their own set of ways of living, and some people come to this world just to see the flowers bloom and fall, silently paying attention to life.

No, you're too worried, you just like to be alone, some people just have the same personality as you, it's normal.

How to say it, it's a good thing to make more friends, there is a saying that it is easy to walk when you have more friends, but it is enough to have two or three or four or five real intimate friends, and if you have too many words, you will be miscellaneous, but sometimes you will ignore each other. In fact, many times you don't have to have a lot to say, just say hello and smile when you meet. It's not a big deal to learn to take the initiative.

Many people have this situation now, and I have it, but only sometimes. Your life, work, and social interaction are all going well, so you won't have any mental illness, just personality problems, like you said, a person's journey, but sometimes we need help, we need friends, we can easily treat the interpersonal relationships around us, we like to contact more, and if we don't like it, we can reduce the contact. More friends will be better than fewer friends, this I personally think is right, contact all kinds of people more, understand all kinds of things more, you will find that life has a lot of fun, with fun, life will be happy, every day wake up feeling the heart is smiling, the corners of the mouth will not help but rise.

Hello this friend!

Are you a boy or a girl? You're in your third year of high school now! Senior high school students have a lot of study pressure, and they need to improve their efficiency in reading books and doing practice questions to be able to complete so many test papers.

I am a counselor and a high school teacher. I don't advocate that you go home and study on your own. You may have been a little stressed lately, or because staying up late has affected your physical condition and mood.

The teacher can understand you. When I was teaching in the third year of high school, I also encountered some students who were in situations like yours. Their home is far away from the school and they can't go home, but they can't learn in the classroom.

Can you tell us about your details, do you feel that you can't finish your homework, or is it difficult to study one or more subjects? The advantages of evening self-study at school and the fact that several netizens have communicated with you. What the teacher needs to communicate with you is to help you reduce the pressure on your heart and devote yourself to learning.

Good luck with your studies!

Mentality is very important, sometimes someone in school forces you to learn a little better, you don't know the problem can also ask the surroundings, you want to be lazy when you are tired of learning.

In fact, I personally think it is better to study at school, because everyone studies together, the atmosphere is better, and there are any problems that will not be discussed with each other in their spare time.

Relax, it's useless to be anxious, just take your time, it's best to find a quiet place to study on your own.

In fact, it is best to study at school, but the specific may vary from person to person, but your current mentality may not be very good, it is recommended to consult with a school psychology teacher or doctor, after all, the mentality is not good, only panic, you can't learn to study, I hope to adopt thank you.

Oh, this requires you to regulate yourself, in fact, evening self-study at school is still very beneficial, it can help you solve some problems, when you don't, although you have to overcome yourself, try to let yourself study at school at night, don't put too much pressure on yourself, at the same time.

You still have 70 days to take the exam, you have pressure in your heart, relax your mind, isn't it just a mock exam, you just have to feel indifferent.