I fell in love with a woman 3 years older than me

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is a mistake in killing, no one is spared, anyway, she likes you, you can go on, the more important thing in this world than marriage is to enjoy love. But don't expect you to be with her for the rest of your life, who told you that you are only 20 years old now, there are still so many uncertainties ahead, let's talk about this relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Congratulations. As the old saying goes, a female junior holds gold bricks. A perfect match!

    Three words: Chong Chong Chong.

    True love tells her that she must say it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Obviously, the upstairs only sees today, you are still a college student, you have no economic foundation, you haven't made any money, she is 23 years old, and when you are 3 or 4 years old, she will be old, not good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Age is not a boundary. It's just that you're thinking about it, and she can continue. Actually, there is nothing.

    Since you love, you should be brave and bear it. Because there is no age limit for love itself. Maybe she can take better care of your life, what about college.

    There is no love in college?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Theoretically, you can't get married, and you're not of legal age to marry.

    You can confess to her, even if he already knows you like her.

    Offer to have a relationship with her, for the purpose of marriage.

    Meeting the other person's parents gives her confidence and courage, and of course, you have to love her very much and love her all the time

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'll tell you something, my girlfriend is more than 3 years older than me, but we're starting to think about the future.

    Look at me, look at you, take action, talk about it, what's so tired

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you love her, why do you care about age I know you don't have the conditions to marry her now You are a college student and you have no financial foundation at all You tell her to wait for you to believe you But you must only love her A woman's youth is very precious She waited for you You must not let her down Study hard, work hard to find a job, and then marry her back You will be happy.

    If she doesn't wait for you, then you can only divide up You can't marry her now You're in school It's very troublesome Marriage without financial conditions won't be happy It's not a matter of money or not really When she opens the rice bowl and finds that there is no rice, she won't feel happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you said that I love her very much, I really want to live with her for the rest of my life.

    Now that is the case, I have to say these things to her!

    What else do you have to worry about?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Age is not a problem, who stipulates that only men and women can be men, not women and men? You have to comfort her and convince her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can fall in love with someone, what a happy thing, think about it so much, rush up and love her well!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you like it, chase it. There is no need for nonsense. Even if they're not together. At least I tried. No regrets!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Like hugging, I also fell in love with a woman who was 3 years older than me, she refused, and now we can only be good friends, I have to suppress my feelings! There's no way she's 28, and I can't marry her right away, so I have to give up! Despite the heartache!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Age is not an issue. If you really love her, be with herYou'll be happy, don't care what others think.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Jin Sanshun is also three years old when Xuan Zhenxuan is three years old. Just like each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hehe,,, love will rush forward!! I hope you can come together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There's no need for her to get married so early, she's not yet 24 years old!

    It is better for modern women to get married later.

    28 to 30 years old is the best.

    Otherwise, it is easy to regret the immaturity after marriage.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You are only three years apart, and I am six years different from my boyfriend, he has said a lot of promises, and he also said that he wants to marry me, but the age problem is that I can't be with him for long, so I exclude him, although I really love him now, but I know that we have no results, he said to get along first, if it really doesn't work and then break up, but I'm 32 years old, I can't wait, and I don't want to pin the future on him, although I really love him, and he loves me so much, but we are still separated. There is not much difference in your age, if you are truly in love, tell her. She loves your words too.

    You will wait for her for the rest of your life, and pin her lifelong happiness on you. Only by loving each other can we have a beautiful vision for the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Age is not a problem, follow the heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then love to love vigorously.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1.How about her boobs. (open-minded).

    2.It's the man who bears it all. It doesn't matter what others say. Give me love fiercely.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Luckily, she is three years older than you, so the two of you can know each other and love each other.

    Instead of thirty years, three hundred years cherish fate.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't you often say that age is not a problem, let alone only three years older!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Not bad! This girl will definitely take good care of you as a girlfriend!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Needless to say, show it with action, seriously.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Age is not an issue, love is expressed with the heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then you won't become a third party, if she has a child, then her parents will be separated when she is young, and there will be a shadow in the child's heart. People can't be too selfish, and if they really love you, they won't think about it for a long time, anyway, love is sweet, and marriage is bitter. Think it out for yourself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hmmm, when I saw your question, I suddenly remembered: I can't help it.

    Feelings are not controllable by people, but I want you to think clearly, whether you have the same point of view, have the same thoughts, sometimes loving someone is like walking into a labyrinth, lost, can't tell the direction, but when you crack the labyrinth, and then come out of it, you will find that many of them are not what they thought. So many people would rather stay in the labyrinth for the rest of their lives.

    If you really love each other, what about her? Doesn't she love her home? Don't you love her children? Of course, in some cases.

    If she loves you and she will divorce, have you ever thought about what to do in the future? Can you afford the gossip from the outside world?

    Of course, it doesn't matter what other people say, as long as you're happy. But have you ever heard a saying: Feelings often can withstand common hardships but can't withstand blandness.

    Many times love vigorously, in fact, it is just a feeling, influenced by psychology and environment.

    When you get out of that environment, your mentality. The feeling will also be indifferent.

    If you miss her now, prove that God doesn't think she's right for you. You know? What suits you often comes when you don't know it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's up to you, if she also likes you and her husband have no relationship, I suggest you continue, on the grounds that true love is hard to find, and you must seize the opportunity and don't let go.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'm three years older, it's good to have fun, and ordinary friends are good.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Tell her that you really love her, but it's only 3 years old, and it's not a long time, what generation gap can everyone have.

    You have to understand her concerns, 94 years, now about 19 years old, at this time you can't give her too much security, people often say that the psychological age of girls is more mature than boys, if she accepts you, she invisibly gives up the qualification to be guarded, and becomes her guardian of you, she will also feel at a loss. You have to understand this, her worries are not unfounded.

    Silently care about her, and tell her to give you a few years, as I said above, she doesn't have much security about you, thinks that you are just a momentary fun, and thinks that such feelings can't stand the test at all, then you use your own behavior to tell him that you are a person worthy of her trust.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    As the saying goes, female juniors hug gold bricks, hehe, it's not important to be three years old, what matters is whether your personality and temper are compatible! Also, do you have common hobbies and interests The generation gap will actually disappear under the run-in of time! If you really love her, I wish you happiness!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Legal 22 should be able to get married, you can get married at school, if the other party doesn't value the material, it's OK, so many years, you can create the material, since the man likes it! Be yourself! Do it when it's time to do it!

    When I was in school, I was still thinking about moving tuition and living expenses to buy a house! Rotten cheap at the time! If he had made a move at that time and speculated the house to the present, it would have been worth tens of millions!

    So, if you dare to think about it, you have to dare to do it!! Nothing is impossible!

    man !!do it!!!

    form johnway.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I got married in 20, and there is a saying about it, the female college has three gold bricks!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Believe that you can give him happiness, if love can't stand the test, even if you get married, you won't be happy!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It seems that you love her, and love doesn't need bread or anything. But bread cannot be missing in marriage. Tell her what is in your heart, and if she supports you, don't let this good girl down.

    If she chooses to give up on you, you should leave her with a smile because she is not worthy of your love. Got it?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Tell her about your plans.

    She will help you start a business with you or will wait for you.

    Give yourself some confidence.

    You can do it!!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Life is realistic, it's cruel, and love can't fill your stomach.

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