Why don t I feel it after the person I like shows me affection?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then you don't like him, you just think it's fun to simply like someone, and once you're serious, you'll be cowardly.

    I'll tell you a story about me, and it's something I regret a lot.

    When I was a freshman in high school, there was a handsome guy in our class, 180cm tall, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, and many female classmates in the class liked him very much, I know, because they went to chat with him when they had something to do. He himself is also very popular, not only mingling with boys, but also has nothing to talk to girls, and his temper is also very good. That's why I like him too.

    Then, I began to like it clearly, although I didn't chase it, but anyone with a discerning eye could see that I was good to him, whether it was a snack or a drink, or a pair to chat with him, and the fool knew that I liked him. At that time, when I liked someone, I was stupid to be nice to him and get his attention, not to catch up with him.

    Those who are in love, especially those like me who have not been in love yet, do not look forward to falling in love, but enjoy the happiness of liking someone and being good to someone.

    However, I haven't confessed yet, he confessed. When he confessed, there happened to be someone next to me, and he sent me a QQ message, "I love you", instead of the first time I saw it, the first time my tablemate saw it, she happened to use a computer with me. Soon, the whole class knew.

    The annoyance is that I am not ready to fall in love, and he has ruined the original relationship between the two of them all at once, I don't want to take a step closer, I just want to simply like someone. As a result, I told him I didn't want to be in a relationship. Instead, he was very angry and said that he was so embarrassed or something.

    Anyway, we ended up having a lot of trouble. Fortunately, it didn't take long for us to divide into classes because we chose liberal arts and sciences, and we were passers-by when we met again.

    So, I understand the feeling you said. Now you feel that you don't feel anything, and when you don't accept him, and when you calm down for a while, you will regret why you are so stupid and didn't accept him. Now you're scared.

    Because you think that liking someone is a petty fight, everyone is not serious, and there is no need to be together, you really want to be together, and you feel that he has some shortcomings that you don't see, and when you are about to become your boyfriend, you will continue to magnify his shortcomings, resulting in you not being sure whether you like him or not.

    I advise you, think about why you liked him at the time, list his points, and list his shortcomings, if you can accept it, try to talk about it, it's not that you can't break up, you can break up again when it's really inappropriate. When the time comes, I will regret putting such a good horse back on the grassland.

    Just sauce purple.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That proves that you don't really like him, you may just find it interesting to him, that it is challenging to conquer him, that it can prove your charm, so when you find out that you have won, it will feel very boring.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello, if you have already said that you don't like each other, the other party will take it seriously, and will not have a good impression of you. My dear.

    I liked him before, and then I told him that I didn't like him anymore, but in fact, I still have a good impression of him, what will happen.

    Hello, if you have already said that you don't like each other, the other party will take it seriously, and will not dismantle the blind and have a good impression of you. My dear.

    But I took the initiative to talk to him before, and when I talked to him later, he took the initiative to come to me.

    Hello, in this case, as a boy, I guess I want to chase you.

    Like you. The other person likes you in their own way.

    He ignored me after I had an argument with him, but had a great time chatting with the others.

    Hello, what are you arguing about, dear.

    Hello, what are you arguing about, dear.

    If the other party can take the initiative to find you, it means that they still like you.

    When I showed him something, he got angry with me.

    You haven't confirmed your relationship yet, do you, don't pester each other.

    Let the other person take the initiative to find you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She said that she has no feelings for you, so feelings mean that she has no feelings for you! Because the first feeling must be to have a good impression, so that it is possible to develop.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If I don't feel for you, I don't like you. That is, there is no eye for you. Didn't take a fancy to you. If you like the other person but the other party doesn't like you, you must feel bad in your heart. But you have to accept that feelings are two things.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What he said without feeling is probably that he can't relax with you, has no common language, often cold, or maybe the other party is also an appearance party, you are not the type of person the other party likes, and you don't feel it as an excuse.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I just don't like you, it's a feeling that you like her, so many girls you just want to choose her, this is the feeling, and she doesn't have this kind of thing for you, probably because she has no fate, feelings are like this, if you don't like it, you will like you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think I feel it. I don't think it's interesting to you. It didn't feel like there was anything that attracted him. So there is no feeling. But that's just my guess. It doesn't necessarily refer to this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She says she doesn't have feelings for you, proving that she doesn't mean to like you. Although you say that you like people very much, and the two of you have met twice, but the woman doesn't call you, and you are not her favorite dish. In fact, feeling is a very subtle thing, it is not something you consciously think or do, it is just a leisurely outpouring of feelings.

    I don't know if you understand this or not, feel it yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It feels like he is calling you, and he doesn't call you. The adrenaline rush is also a feeling. You dress up more, make yourself beautiful, and get along a few more times should be fine. After all, women chase men, compartment yarn.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I met with the person I liked twice, and she said that she didn't feel for me, what was the feeling? This is what I feel is what he said, which means that he doesn't call, and it means that you don't. In his heart, you are not the other half he is looking for.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I feel that to put it bluntly, it is the edge of the eyes, some people will feel very suitable when they meet each other, and they feel that they may go to the end, and some people always feel awkward when they meet for the first time, and they are not pleasing to the eye. Therefore, it is very important to meet for the first time, and if it is pleasing to the eye, there will be the next development, otherwise there will be no feeling.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't feel it for you. The feeling is that he can't feel love and happiness with you. There is no impulse to love. Do you like him, but he doesn't like you?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The feeling is that when I see you, I have the heart to run and accelerate, and I just want to run over and hug you, which is called feeling, and only with feeling can I continue to fall in love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The feeling is that they have a good impression of each other, a heartbeat feeling, a feeling of not hating each other, and a feeling of heartbeat, provided that they like each other, and if they don't feel for you, it means that she doesn't like you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's just that you don't have anything that can attract her, or she has no interest in you, and the three views don't match, so say: no play!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It should be that I have a good impression of you, maybe you have met twice, and he still doesn't have a good impression of you, that's why I said this to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no feeling of mutual attraction.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I just don't feel anything about you, I'm not interested.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The reason is very simple, seeing someone you like will make your adrenaline hormone secretion strengthened, pupils dilated, pulse beat faster, the body in order to process these reactions, piggyback on your brain will not be able to keep up with the reaction, so I will be embarrassed——— in fact, this is what I said nonsense, the reason why I will be embarrassed to see the person I like is actually worried that I will accidentally do the wrong thing and say the wrong thing, and provoke the other party to leave a bad impression on myself, it is better to be generous, so that it is easier to win the favor of the other party.

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