People who are relatively rough and hot for three minutes, how to do meticulous work that requires p

Coarse, three points hot. That is, we usually say that the big grin, remembering the character of a play. It's actually okay for people with this kind of personality to do meticulous and patient work...

Generally rough people are acute and short-tempered, impatient in everything, and rough in everything; And people with three points of heat have no concentration, no perseverance, and can't persevere. Haha, that's the right medicine.

First, we need to learn psychological suggestion to regulate emotions.

Reasonable mental hints can strengthen our will and heat up our three points. Reasonable psychological cues can clarify the purpose of our work, so that we cannot give up at all times. With the hint that we are extraordinarily full of our hearts, so that we feel happy because of the fullness, we are also full of positive emotions and full of positive energy.

When you have three points of heat because of curiosity, but you can't persevere, then you give yourself a hint in your heart, tell yourself what results you want to get from this curiosity, and then work towards the goal in your heart, so that your heat will be constant.

Second, take everything seriously and turn everything into a small thing to complete little by little.

Meticulous and patient work, there must be patience. But more important is how serious you are about it. Serious attitude so that everything is taken seriously.

Turning everything into a small thing, it may not necessarily be completed, but to complete every little thing, you will find that these anti-lock things will be unlocked by you one by one, in the process you learn to be patient, do every little thing well, you learn to be meticulous. <>

It's not difficult to do things carefully, the key depends on how you look at it and how you deal with it. There is a saying that "you are meticulous in life", in fact, the personality is different, the pursuit is different, but our goal is the same is to become better. Meticulous work does not necessarily require patience, and work that requires patience does not necessarily need to be meticulous, so for rough and hot people, doing these needs is not to change personality, but to do things in the right way.

nothing is important if you put your heart into it.”<

I used to be a big female man, and I had no patience for studying, and I always felt that learning was a very tedious thing. However, the experience of life has forced me to be patient and careful. As a medical student, thick textbooks are common, and every sentence and question in the book can be the focus.

In the first year, the newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, and there is always a sense of irritability when I see the thick textbooks when the final exam comes. As you can imagine, the results are certainly not ideal. Failure again and again is not resting on my laurels, but there is reflection and summary, and the experience has made me irritable and serious in doing things, and I can still share it with you at this moment

<>Actually, I think this problem is easy to solve, because they are not contradictory, I am a three-minute hot person, and I am also a sloppy insect in life, but at the same time I am also a very meticulous and patient person at work.

My roughness manifests itself in the details of life. As far as my growth process is concerned, I have lost my watch, lost my documents, lost my wallet, lost my ID card, bank card and other things, although more than 70% of them have been recovered, I can't explain why, Luo Yonghao once recommended a book called distraction is not my fault, in fact, distraction is also a disease, there is a lack of something in the body, it is okay to **. I don't know if it's a problem, but it definitely doesn't prove that I'm not a careful person.

My three-minute heat is reflected in the frequency of job changes. After graduating for 4 years, I almost changed my job, and it seems that I don't have much energy, and every time I look for a new job, I will go with enthusiasm, and I will be very energetic, and I will be recognized by the boss in a short time, but my work has not been more than a year, and I will definitely have a feeling of "tired" in less than a year, and then leave for various reasons. But after I quit my job, I didn't take a break and went straight to my new job.

In fact, I have always felt that the job I changed was stronger than the other, although the salary was not necessarily incremental, but with the timing and state I was in, the latter must be more suitable for me than the previous one, so I think in a sense three minutes of heat is not a bad thing. However, having said that, I still feel panicked after changing jobs too much, and maybe I will consider finding a job and doing it steadily. Of course, this idea will not be implemented until after the marriage, hehe.

As for being meticulous and patient, I have always felt that this is related to a sense of responsibility, because my previous boss gave me a serious evaluation, indeed, I really didn't know how to be opportunistic before, so everything will be done with heart, accurate to every detail. Once the boss promoted me from clerk to manager, simply because I kept a 5-cent account and a 2-cent account when I was helping him keep a record of the expenses in the store, and he said that he had never met such a serious person and let him know where he spent every penny. In fact, although I have been smoothed out by society and learned to be tactful in handling things, I am still more meticulous and patient in doing things, and it is good to do it seriously!

Therefore, I think that it is good to find the right person to do the meticulous and patient work, and the people who live a rough and three-minute heat may not be meticulous and impatient, and cannot be confused.

<>Hey, what do you want to say about this? In fact, it is still difficult to get a relatively rough and three-minute hot person to do meticulous and patient work, after all, I have had such an experience. I've been a careless person since I was a child, sometimes I'm lost, and I'm a little confused when I do things, commonly known as brainless.

Hey, I don't know how many times my mom has told me about this. One day, when I was at home during the summer vacation, one day I took the initiative to ask my mother to rest and clean up the house in the future. I usually look at my mother cleaning the house, and I think it's very simple, but after a while, I can't hold on, and I always feel that I can't sweep the dirt on the ground, and I don't know why there is so much hair, and I can't sweep it away, it's really annoying.

My mother couldn't look at it anymore and said, "Look at you, what are you sweeping?" Don't sweep the corners of the wall, so can it be clean?

It's impatient to let you sweep the floor back, and you still said that you would help me clean up, who would believe it. I expressed my grievances and said, "Mom, it's really not that I don't want to sweep, but I just can't sweep clean, what should I do?"

Hey, you need to fix this. "Later, my mother would always teach me patiently, watch me, and gradually I also learned to do housework, and clean all the places very carefully and patiently. Now I am engaged in personnel administration, this job requires patience and meticulousness, although the work is not tiring, but it is more complicated.

When I first started working, I would often lose things and make mistakes, and then I slowly improved myself, although the process was difficult, but I believe that perseverance must be possible.

This question is also tailor-made for me, and my personality is strong enough to reflect it......

It's a shame to think about it, it's not something to show off, to be honest, this question is my pain; Make the most of your work.

My personality was originally more aggressive, after work, once, the manager assigned a task to the people below us to say that the amount of this week's purchases, I wondered if I was sick, the statistics of half a year, it was a collapse; All right! Although I still went back to do it, but handed in the statistics, who knew that the manager was particularly dissatisfied, said to do it again, I was angry, said the manager I have done it, can we not do it, the manager is particularly serious and said, don't do it well, don't come, I'm really angry, I don't do it, I have to do it myself, our manager should yell at me, saying that I haven't seen you so ignorant, I have done it seriously, I am impatient, and then the manager said that there is no patience to do things, and there will always be only three minutes of heat to do things.

It is said that now adolescent people are still office workers, and many people always want to finish some new things by hand, but when they write about it in the end, they will always be a little bit less interested and do not stick to the end, and they will always feel that they are three minutes hot; Actually, it's not like that, everyone is curious. It depends on how far you want to do things.

Why is it that every time we do something, we can't make it through? In fact, in the end, our own inertia and willpower are not firm enough, as long as we are willing to persevere to stick to our small goals, do a phased summary, and carry it out to the end.

If it is difficult for us to complete it, I personally suggest that we ask people around us who are stronger than ourselves or family and friends to urge ourselves to make a plan that meets our own needs, and complete it in stages according to the plan; In the long run, I believe it will change.

Three-minute heat is not common when you are young, it's nothing, it's just because you're fresh and curious, and you want to learn more, but if you want to be meticulous and patient, you still need a process.

Have a clear plan. Why are you hot for three minutes, and why are you impatient? Is it because you just want to try this new thing but you only think about what to do in the first step and what to do in the second step, but you don't think about what to do next, what to do if you want to do it for a long time, because you don't plan these things first, so when you do this new thing for a while, you can't hold on and want to give up?

Well, now you know to have a clear plan. Just like I practiced dumbbells before, the first time I just practiced and played freshly, I didn't exercise again for almost four or five days, and then I started to want to exercise again, but this time I had a deep understanding, I made a plan, such as a few sets of bench presses a day, a few groups of birds, how to train arms, these are all understood in advance and made a good plan, it turns out that it does persist for a long time, although sometimes it stops for a day or two days, but overall there is still persistence, so ah, planning is really important, When you don't have a plan, when you do something, it's easy to be hot for three minutes and have no patience.

Secondly, you have to be confident enough. Self-confidence is the premise for you to try anything new, with self-confidence, without self-confidence, you will ask questions like this question, ah what should I do when I get three minutes of heat, what should I do if I can't do it well, what should I do if I can't stick to it then, don't do it, self-confidence is the most important thing, I used to be a person with low self-esteem, do you know what the concept is, that is, before doing anything, always think of bad results, the result, the result is not good, In the process of trying, I always cringe and dare not move forward, and I am always afraid of failure. So, you have to be a confident person, believe that you can do well, believe that you can persevere to the end, so that you don't have three minutes of heat, and you don't feel like you can't do it without starting.

Remember, self-confidence is the cornerstone of success.

In the end, it is to constantly sharpen your willpower. I put it on this last point not to say that it is not important, but that it is the most important. People's willpower is related to people's prefrontal cortex (as shown in the figure), you have to often sharpen your willpower, can't say that I insisted on seven days, I treat myself and then relax, which will lead to a very serious "***", you should have your own experience, that is, the relaxation after each exertion will lead to the next uninterrupted relaxation, the result is that the previous efforts are all in vain, so when you can't persevere, strengthen yourself and sharpen your willpower!

Clear plan, self-confidence, willpower, I believe that if you do these three things well, you will no longer be a three-minute heat, but an excellent young man with perseverance and determination haha!