Is it something that you don t care about very much?

When something you have, you don't necessarily feel that it's precious, and when something is scarce for you, your heart will naturally linger.

If a person lacks mother's love and father's love since he was a child, he is more eager to be able to get these missing love from others. If a person has been living very poorly, he will be very concerned about money. If a person lacks self-confidence, he will always feel that he is inferior to others and that he will not be good enough.

However, there are some things that you care about even if you have them, and there are some things that you never take to heart even if you don't have them. At the end of the day, it's about seeing if what you have, or what you scarce, will have an extremely significant impact on your life, or your future.

For the poor, we are short of money, so we are especially concerned about moneyBecause if we run out of money, it means that we may have no place to live, nothing to eat, no clothes to wear. Therefore, when we are together, we are not together in themselves, but care about whether she can bring us a more stable and prosperous life. But for those who are rich, they may indeed be willing to spend money and buy a luxury car, but they also care about money, because the more money they have, the stronger their strength and the more extraordinary their status.

For people with ugly appearances, we care more about our own appearance and more about the eyes of others, so it is always through dressing up or going for plastic surgery, it is difficult to make yourself more beautiful and look comfortable, and you don't want to face other people's strange eyes. But those handsome and beautiful people in the entertainment industry, don't they care about their appearance? No, on the contrary,They may care more about the beauty and ugliness of their looks than we do, because it is related to their acting career, whether they can be loved by Yan Kong, and more importantly, their income and their lives.

Like us ordinary people, we have no power or power, so we always hope to make ourselves rich, powerful and powerful through our own efforts, so that you don't have to be bullied and manipulated, especially after being treated unfairly, this feeling will be even stronger. But throughout history, those who ascended to the supreme position and held the authority of the world would care more about power than those of us who have no power and no powerFor example, Zhu Yuanzhang, the emperor of the Ming Dynasty that we all know, after he ascended to the throne of the emperor, he actually abolished the position of prime minister, didn't he just want to control all the power by strengthening the centralization of power?

It can be seen that when we lack something, we do care more about her, which is why in the first class, once the male protagonist lacks love since childhood, as long as the female protagonist treats her a little better, she can remember it for a lifetime and dig out her heart and lungs for the female protagonist. But we should also see that those who are familiar with something and who are perhaps more afraid of losingBecause if you haven't gotten it, you don't know how wonderful it is, but once you've ever gotten it, you're especially afraid of losing it.

So even if we lack something, we don't have to feel sorry for ourselves, as long as we try our best to have it through our own efforts, and cherish it after we have it, and that's enough.

I loved the bike, but I didn't get it when I wanted it most;

I envy others for having a game console, and I still want to have it, even though I don't know how to play it, but I will be satisfied when I look at it;

I have seen other people's parents buy their children favorite toys and snacks, give them extra pocket money when their children leave for school, and their school bags are full of snacks, in front of money, they show more care and understanding for their children;

Therefore, I can understand the thoughts of my nephews and nieces very well, and I can also experience the happiness and self-confidence that they expect to achieve, as well as the loss and inferiority of expecting fruitlessness.

However, there are also negative things. For others to have what I lack, I will shrink myself into the little house in my heart again, I will become depressed, inferior, and I will also feel that maybe the end of my life is the innate starting point of others or can easily reach it. That's why there's always a period of depression and then figuring it out, and so on.

The good news is that stupid people have stupid blessings, and they don't let this negative thing become jealousy and ugliness.

As expressed in "Four-Character Song", "the great desire of people, you and I are the same". We all have what we want, but we have a lot of things that we can't get, or some of them can be obtained, but we want to do it quickly, causing complaints and resentment, and gradually unwilling to act and pay again.

If you think about it carefully, the gap between people is also reflected in these aspects, and the one who faces difficulties, is full of expectations, and perseveres will be the final winner, which is also an assessment of the invisible marathon.

Affirm yourself positively, pay attention to small radical blind things, accumulate the power of self-confidence, look for role models, encourage and affirm each other, find the right mentor, continue to accumulate strength, accumulate steadily, and realize your dreams. Feel.

1. Caring about money means that you are short of money.

People who are really rich don't care too much about money. And the more he doesn't care about money, the easier it is to be rich. Virtuous.

JCDecaux Wealth. And those who care about money very much, because they care about money everywhere, the more they care, the more they have no money. Virtue is thin and wealth is scattered.

The gold is gone. This kind of thing, from ancient times to the present, has never changed. Food for thought.

2. If you care about your name, it means that you have no name.

rushed to become famous from the beginning, even if he could become famous. It won't last long. Because you care too much about the name, it's easy to put the cart before the horse.

In order to be famous, it is easy to take tricks, easy to be kitsch, and easy to lose yourself. became a slave to fame. Famous insects.

How can you focus on your career.

3. Caring about the right means that you are absent.

A person cares too much about his own position, and is especially afraid that others will look down on him. Explain that your heart is weak. Don't do practical things, just want positions.

If you are given power, you may not be able to do good. Because what you care about is not doing things, but only in a position of power, how can you do good things? Throughout the ages, who really does practical things, who cares about power in particular?

Does Su Dongpo care? Does Fan Zhongyan care? They only worry about the country and the people, and never care whether they are in the DPRK or the opposition.

Because you don't get it, you don't know whether it's good or bad, so you always think about it, and you seem to care about it.

That's why you don't care about what's missing.

And if you can't eat grapes, you can't say that grapes are sour, and what you can't get is the best truth.

Surely there is no such thing? If you don't have it, you always want to have it, and if you don't have it, you always want to have it, and you care about it!

Generally, it is what is lacking and what is eaten. Of course, there are exceptions, so it is not necessarily, for example, those who lack the eyes of the heart will care about the eyes of the heart.

This is the driving force for the continuous progress of human society!

Missing is a common thing. And if there is something missing, we care, that is, it is reasonable. It's self-esteem that drives us to focus on the existence of problems.

If you care too much, there will be problems, and you will be like a cocoon and you will spare yourself. Therefore, after we realize the shortcomings, we should clarify how to improve our own shortcomings in the next step, make up for this deficiency, and emancipate ourselves ideologically.