On the question of how you feel about your girlfriend, how do you feel about your girlfriend

Well, if there is no topic between partners, it will be difficult to communicate and understand. Why don't you try to talk to her about your worries and see what she thinks? According to what you said, she has a very cheerful personality, so she shouldn't talk very often, right?

Are you more introverted? Don't love for the sake of responsibility, then both of you will be miserable.

1) I don't know why, I said I missed her a little.

Thinking about her is an inevitable thing, maybe there are many possibilities, you think of someone who is good to you because you have fallen out of love and been hurt. She's your ex-girlfriend after all. And the other is that both of you are people who have been hurt, people of the same kind.

2) What should I do if I don't have the heart-warming feeling of first love?

After all, you are not your first love, and you do not have the passionate pursuit of your first love, because she is your ex-girlfriend, everyone is familiar with her, and she has a certain understanding of everyone's life, and she is not very curious, so it is normal to feel no heartbeat.

3) There is a stronger sense of responsibility in my heart, and I want to be good to her.

Is this because you were hurt by that woman, so when you remember when you broke up with her before, is the pain in her heart as painful as you are now? So you're going to be nice to her ?

4) Sometimes I don't even know what to say to her......Ask for guidance.

In fact, this does not need the guidance of others, everything is natural, and there is no purpose for her (that is, always thinking about what to say to her). You can talk to her when you have something to say, you can not say it when you don't have to say anything, in love, if you don't have to, you will be together all the time, which will have an impact on the future relationship, how you used to chat with her, how you usually interact with your friends, how you interact with her.

Personal advice: Only by going with the flow can you feel that you are in love with her, otherwise you will have an awkward feeling in your heart.

I don't expect you to come back together.

First of all, you have talked about it, and you have had the opportunity to get back together, but you have explicitly refused.

This shows that in your heart, there should be no such heart-warming feeling for her.

The reason why you will chase her again is nothing more than because you have been hit by a blow in love, are relatively depressed, and need to soothe your scars with a new relationship, and she is the easiest choice.

Judging from her previous hope to get back together, she doesn't have any ill feelings towards you.

In this case, if you reconnect with her, she will naturally say that she has been waiting for you or something, and as for whether she is single because she is waiting for you, or if she is single because of her own reasons, only God knows.

But the most important thing is that you don't have a heartbeat for her, and I think you should feel this in the course of your current relationship with her.

Don't think about what responsibility is responsible, you don't like her and being with her is the biggest harm to her.

And the longer it goes on, the more she loves you, and the more damage it causes.

Please be cautious. Hope.

In this case, in my opinion, it is still divided. Romance in college is originally very simple and can't stand the test, and you don't like her character, you can be with him maybe out of vanity, you can propose a breakup a few years ago, and after a few years she may not become the type that suits you. If you don't think about it for a long time, you will be fooling around together, and you will definitely break up after graduation.

Many people come together because of loneliness, and they are destined to miss other scenery on the road, if you want to find a more suitable one for yourself, just divide it, if you want to graduate, go your separate ways, just mix. Doesn't matter. Think for yourself!

Don't drag your feet in doing things. Maybe you are not what she liked now, she may be with you out of pity, and she probably can't find the feeling she once had. Don't hurt each other, keep the beauty and innocence of the past!

If a person annoys another person from the heart, she is doing well and you look uncomfortable, you are very similar to my experience, at that time I was also the third year of junior high school, and I was in a long time, and finally found that her character was not what I wanted, No way I can't just get through the things of my life, so I resolutely chose to break up, I am a person who came to suggest a little, You don't procrastinate, it hurts more deeply, you have to break it as soon as possible, but no one has a clear mind about you, think about it yourself! ~

It's unfair to go on like this, if you don't love you, you don't love, don't maintain it because of any responsibility, you are still young and have many choices.

If you don't want to give up such an excellent girl, you can change each other after some time, if you still can't love each other like that, please deal with this relationship well, don't be too reluctant and don't delay it for too long, there is still a long life in the future.

I didn't like my boyfriend when I was with him, he was chasing me at the time, and after I explained to him that he didn't like him, he still wanted to be with me, so I had an attitude of trying, and we were together for more than four years. I didn't like him at first, so I didn't care how he felt, and I said all kinds of hurtful and sad things, but he still stayed with me, which made me feel like I had found a good person. Once, for special reasons, we had a fight, and in the evening, he asked me to go downstairs and handed me my favorite food (which I couldn't find at all) at my place, making me feel like I had found a good lover.

I have a pampering feeling for my girlfriend, which can make the love between the two of us sweeter and happier.