Have you ever tried to give up on the person you love the most?

I once liked a guy for ten years who was always playing mystery with me. Always show up when I feel impossible, talk to me for days, hours. He always reminded me that he existed.

We are in a long distance, who can't say that it is a relationship, but during that time I really wanted to develop. He was my senior in high school and I liked him very much. But it was unrequited love at that time, and I didn't tell him until I graduated from high school and went to college.

Then we went to college in different places, so we barely met. But he has always been the only one in my heart. For him, I kept myself clean and never fell in love.

In my second year of work, my family began to visually inspect my blind dates. I couldn't hold my breath anymore, and I was ready to give up on him. Go back and start your new relationship well.

In fact, in ten years, he has become a relative in my heart, although I am a stranger to him, but I have long regarded him as my own relative. Ten years later, it is very painful to give up a loved one. It was a very low time, but I had to bite the bullet and forget it, because I would never be able to start fresh by staying in my heart.

Now we each have our own families. It won't be awkward to see each other again, because I'm really relieved.

I haven't thought about it, trying to give up a favorite person, it means that at this time, to break up, or to the verge of breaking up, since we can't be together, then there is only a choice to forget, but if you want to forget a person who once loved deeply, just like the things that originally belonged to you in your heart are being taken away by others, and those who have strong endurance will slowly forget with the passage of time, and those who have little endurance will pay for it with their lives, and some will be depressed for a while.

Yes, let it go when your heart is broken, and live your own life. That's just the people who want to let go in their hearts and enter their hearts, the tribulations they have experienced together, the bits and pieces of the past, how can they say that they can let go? Don't let go, heartache; Let go, the heart hurts more, and the love is more sad.

I haven't thought that the person who did this, was a fool. Just imagine, if the person you love the most gives up, what is the meaning of that person's life? At the same time, what else is there to pursue while alive?

It may be that the value of people or life lies in the combination of all the people you love the most! Other than that, I can no longer think of any reason to give up the person I love the most.

I've never thought about giving up on the people I love the most. For people, feelings sometimes mean a relationship, sometimes it means a person you love, and sometimes it also means a piece of your faith. Really love someone, I'm talking about real love, people who can let go, I actually admire, I can't do it, that requires enough endurance, courage, and decisive character.

Those who can do it will definitely be able to achieve great things.

I have tried to give up on him, because I feel that it may not be appropriate for two people to be together, and it may delay both parties, but if you think about it, you should not give up any possibility of continuing.

My husband and I have been together for almost two years, living together for a year and a half, the two of us have experienced a lot of things, and his parents have also met, but because I am frustrated at work and in poor health, I am very stressed, very insecure, extremely insecure, and I broke up with him, what I have experienced with him, my vexatious troubles his tolerance, think about such a good man, I made him angry and lost him, I wanted to get him back, he was also disappointed in me I know, he kept letting me go, but I saw other people's inspirational love runs, I suddenly woke up! He's the one I want to live with for the rest of my life! So I'll work hard to change my own shortcomings and want to save a relationship, I also thought about forgetting him, but I still can't do it, so I'm trying to get rid of my own faults now, and I'm trying to chase him He chased me before, and I'll chase him this time.

I can especially understand this feeling, love is not enough, unrequited love is really painful, and in the end it is only yourself who hurts. All you get is the way you feel pained, and in his eyes you're a joke. If it's too late, if he doesn't respond to you in time, then let it go.

In the end, the only person who is uncomfortable is himself.

I've tried to give up on the person I love the most, but I feel like I'll never forget. Because he was my first love after all, I think he actually had a big influence on me.

I've tried countless times, but I still can't forget it, and I still dream of him for days in a row at night, and I still want to talk to him.

I also had this idea, but in the end I still didn't give up on success. Yes?

The reason why I gave up the person I loved the most was because the person I loved the most never loved me. moved the sky, moved the earth, and even moved himself, but he couldn't move the person he loved the most.

So much so that I was disheartened and spent the rest of my life giving up and forgetting the person I loved the most. Perhaps, if you fall in love with the wrong person at the best age, giving up is the best ending.

Second: Because you can't give the other party what they want.

I can't give you the happiness you want, and this may be the most sincere reason why many people choose to give up. Loving someone is not bondage and possession, since you can't give him happiness, letting go may be the best way to love someone.

When two people are together, it is a need for each other to satisfy each other, and energy is conserved. Once, the person you love, you can't give what you want, you can't support what you want to do, and you can't achieve what you want to pursue, the conservation of emotional energy of two people will be broken, even if you love each other again, you have to endure the pain and leave.

Third: because of reality.

Two people who love each other and are together without an economic foundation, the final outcome is to face reality and go their separate ways. Some people say that falling in love and getting married are not the same thing. When you are in love, it is okay for two people to love each other.

But getting married is another matter. The door is right, there is a car and a house, and economic income. will become a threshold for two people you love the most, give up each other, marry each other and the person you don't love, and live a life without love.

Maybe when you haven't experienced such a thing, but you will feel pain from this name, but in fact, when we really give up the person we love from the heart, it doesn't mean that there is only a feeling of pain, maybe there will be a feeling of relaxation, if you can really let go of this relationship, then it must be a relief for yourself. <>

But I also know that this kind of thing is really not something that we can let go of immediately, and sometimes we may really convince ourselves for a long time. My personal experience tells me that sometimes the more I want to forget someone and want to let go of this relationship, but in the end, the more difficult it is for me to let go, but the kind of inadvertently and slowly forgets. I'm going to talk about how I got through that period of time after I gave up on the person I loved.

1. Keep yourself busy every day. In fact, it is painful for everyone who wants to give up the person they love deeply, after all, that person exists in his own heart, and it is impossible to say how much he has paid for this person, if he suddenly decides to give up this person, he will definitely not be able to accept it for a moment. And every time I think about it, I feel sad in my heart, so in the first period I will fill my life to the fullest, so that I will not have free time to think about him, and I will not be so sad.

2. Stay with friends every day. Of course, during that time, except when I was busy with work, I would stay with my friends, and I was a person who couldn't hide things in my heart, and I would want to talk to someone if I had grievances, although I didn't necessarily need them to say anything, as long as someone listened to me, I would feel a lot better. And I won't be alone when I have friends by my side, and I'm happy to be with them, so I won't be stuck in troubles all the time.

Later, I started to work like crazy, putting all my focus on work, as if I was a working machine, and it took time to slowly let go.

I was very uncomfortable after giving up the person I loved the most, so I chose to overeat and buy clothes.

I'm going to be very sad at first, but then I'm going to change myself, I'm going to make myself better, I'm going to change my hairstyle, I'm going to start over.