Should we turn a blind eye to the lies of our lovers?

Should we turn a blind eye to the lies of our lovers? The answer is no. Because in this case, it gives him the feeling that you are accommodating to him, and that you are reluctant to be more serious with him, which will only make him worse, and the more lies he will tell you, and in the end you will not be able to distinguish which is the truth and which is a lie.

Two people in love should be sincere and opposite. Because love is true, and if you lie a little, you will be incompatible with love, and this love will not be real love from the moment you tell a lie. Love is sincerity for sincerity, no one is a genius, who can see through your lies at a glance, no one is a fool, and you can be kept in the dark all the time.

I've also had the experience of being deceived by love lies, and it was really disgusting at the time, but after the degradation of time, it is no longer so fresh in my memory. It was when I was in high school, I was in a relationship with a girl, the two of us were not in the same school, but we still kept in touch, but the good times didn't last long, our relationship soon changed, she became less enthusiastic than she used to be, I asked her why she didn't say anything, and accused me that I didn't contact her often. In the end, the two of us didn't make it to the end, and when I inquired, I found out that she had already liked someone else at that time, but they didn't make it long either.

Then she came back to me, and I showed no mercy to her lies. In the end, of course, it was impossible for the two of us.

Therefore, two people in love should be sincere to each other, otherwise, it is better to separate as soon as possible. If you choose to turn a blind eye to the other person's lies, then in the end you will only be hurt even more.

I think that no matter what kind of relationship it is, whether it is family, friendship, or love, the last thing that should exist is a lie.

But here, white lies are a different matter.

What is a lie? A lie is a deception of one person to another.

And when is it necessary to deceive another person?

That is, when you know that what you do will have a certain negative impact on your relationship, you will know that this thing should not have happened, or you subconsciously think that the other party does not have the right to know and choose this matter, that is, you don't care about the other party's attitude at all. That's when deception comes in.

And why do I say that the last thing that should exist in any relationship is a lie?

Obviously, with the appearance of lies, with it comes the question of trust between two people.

How important is trust?

I think trust is the cornerstone of a relationship between two people, and it is the most basic guarantee of a relationship.

If there is no trust between two people, then they will guess and guess when they get along, test each other, and hide from each other, which is a very tiring process.

The lack of trust between two people will make the distance become more and more distant, and eventually you don't care about what I say, and I have to think about what you say, and then lies will appear frequently.

Should we turn a blind eye to a lover's lie?

Actually, it shouldn't be, why?

If one of the two people in a relationship tries to use lies to dismiss the other, it means that he has a plan in his heart.

There may be a lot of people who think I'm being too arbitrary, too absolute.

Some people may tell lies that prove that one party is afraid of losing, so they have to use lies to comfort or cover up.

But you think, as I have already said, lies arise under conditions, and not all situations require lies.

And if one of the parties in a relationship has enabled the option of lies, can we understand it this way, is it because there is a problem between two people, that one party will try to use lies to cover up his fault?

Is it because the relationship between two people has become fragile or not as strong as before, so they will use lies to try to save and mend the relationship?

In fact, two people in love are a run-in period, a period of time for each other to accommodate each other and understand each other.

But if you turn a blind eye to one party's lies in this relationship, what I want to tell you is that telling lies will be addictive, and it will make him feel that since you are not pursuing it, then you don't care, and the other party will not know that your downline is **.

Rather than saying this, it is better to clearly inform the other party at the beginning of the lie that the lie is unacceptable to you, and whether to gather or disperse is a later story.

When dealing with lies, we must either prevent them before they happen, or we can start at the source.

<> see what he says, if it's a white lie, then it doesn't matter. If it's some innocuous ones, I think I can forgive them, as long as they don't touch your bottom line, the rest is fine. But there are some things that I think should still be said on the surface, if you don't say it, you will have a knot in your heart, and there will be a gap in the future that will slowly accumulate.

For example, my boyfriend and I* also have lies between us. For example, the third year of high school is too busy, and I stay up too late and don't want to eat breakfast, he asks me if I have eaten, and sometimes I don't eat will say, I ate. Because I know that if I say I didn't eat, then he will run to the cafeteria to buy it for me and delay him.

He sometimes tells me in the evening that he will go to eat with everyone and everyone, but when he goes to the playground to run and exercise, I know that he will put some food on his desk in the future, and when he comes back to eat, he will not pursue anything. Because I know his starting point is for me