Do those who seem to be out of place really know themselves best?

For those who don't fit in, it's not that they know themselves best, they may be unsociable, not good at talking, not good at dealing with people, then there is also a possibility in this.

This is not necessarily, because some people are not social, because they can't understand their true inner thoughts, they have low self-esteem, and they dare not communicate with others.

People who seem to be out of place don't know themselves the best, because they don't know how to get along with others.

In the same way, people who don't fit in may prefer to be alone and to be with themselves rather than going to noisy places.

Whether you are gregarious or not is not necessarily related to whether you know yourself or not, I think that people who know themselves are more confident than unsociable.

Excellent relatively speaking.

The so-called excellent people are only different in reference, and not no one can compare, there are people outside the world, and there are heavens outside the sky. When this question is raised, everyone refers to themselves, and the person they look up to, who is better than themselves, may have a distance from themselves.

A person who is mostly excellent has actually distanced himself from the other party, so he thinks that excellent people are not social. And this misfit is just a group that doesn't fit in.

Being unsociable simply because there is no common language.

The so-called excellent people just don't have a common language with themselves, which is easier to understand, just like adults who don't want to play with children, because the common language, attention to problems, thinking about problems, is not at the same level at all. It's not that these so-called excellent people have no feelings for themselves, to be precise, they don't have a common language together, they can't talk about it together, and when a group of so-called excellent people are together, this feeling will be reduced.

To be unsociable is to have no energy to cater to it.

The so-called unsociable, just do not have the energy to cater to some people who do not have a common language with themselves, rather than ignoring themselves, because of their own conversations between people, communication is very energy-consuming, many people in the workplace should have such an experience, because of work reasons, have to repeatedly communicate with people who do not have a common language, and the exchange feels very tired for a day, but if it is not because of the willingness to work, few people will deliberately consume their energy to cater to the communication.

4.Being unsociable is really just a façade.

The so-called misfit is just misfit in a specific group of people, just like a group of people who love to play games, with a group of people who love to read, two different groups, one who loves the outdoors, and the first two groups will produce the phenomenon of misfit. But if this person who loves the outdoors is with a group of outdoor enthusiasts, he will definitely be very gregarious, so many times the unsociability is just a relative appearance.

5.A real misfit.

There are too few people who are really unsociable, and they are basically divided into three categories, and these three types of people have their own characteristics:

mental illness, fear of interacting with people, or not knowing how to interact with people;

Focusing on a certain field, other things do not interest him at all, such as: some scientists;

People with character defects, such as: people who are born with autism.

First of all, an excellent person needs to spend a lot of time and energy to study hard and improve himself. As a result, he or she always does not have enough time to participate in some social activities and make some friends and colleagues.

Whenever everyone is having a group meal and having fun, they are always studying silently and diligently. The more this happens, the easier it is to get farther and farther away from the large army, quietly alienating and isolating yourself.

Secondly, because of their profound knowledge and specialization, excellent people are more disdainful of ordinary people who can only eat, drink, and have fun, and at the same time they are not accustomed to the lifestyle and work habits of ordinary people.

So he held his own faction, arrogant and high. But after all, excellent people in life are not in groups, most of them are ordinary, so it is difficult for excellent people to find their own group, and they are not in line with the undesirable group.

In the end, excellent people have been racing against time for a long time to survive, and their personalities have been tempered for a long time to be introverted and taciturn. Character weakness is the biggest reason for not being social, and all this is undoubtedly the disadvantage of excellence.

Because everyone has everyone's level, what you think is unsociable, its essence is only because you are not at the same level as others, once your level is reached, you will find that people are not arrogant and high, but the level of communication is different!

Excellent people, first of all, they spend their time and energy on their personal careers, and rarely communicate with other people, so they don't seem to be very gregarious, but in fact, their time is limited.

Summary. Unsociable people are more lonely, like to close off their emotions, are not good at communicating with others, will not please others, in social interactions, unsocial people are often excluded.

How to understand the misfits.

Unsociable people are more lonely, like to close off their emotions, are not good at communicating with others, will not please others, in social interactions, unsocial people are often excluded.

At present, there are many people consulting, please be patient for a while.

People who don't fit in are those who have strong hearts, they can carry everything by themselves, they know how to be more independent, and they know how to survive the fittest in society.

Or because of experiencing some things, which makes the heart inferior, afraid to face strangers, in general, there are some people who have low self-esteem due to psychological factors.

I hope mine is helpful to you

Gregariousness pays attention to interpersonal communication, like-minded can be compatible, excellent people are better than ordinary people, so the ambition is different, of course, it is difficult to mix together.

Because really excellent people, they have proud capital, so they are more confident, and they always feel that they don't need to ask for anything, so it's normal to be unsociable.

There are about eight signs and characteristics of a good person:

First, a good person will have an incomparable love for life.

Second, have a job that you like and are willing to focus on.

Third, I don't really care about gains and losses.

Fourth, we must pay attention to the feelings of others in everything we do, and we must take into account the interests of others.

Fifth, strive to pursue a sense of accomplishment and honor.

Sixth, never forget to keep learning and growing every day.

Seventh, sincerity, frankness, and sunny character.

Eighth, no matter how capable you are, no matter how good you are, please don't take yourself too seriously.

The above eight points may not be comprehensive, because there are many other characteristics of good people. However, in the middle of these eight, you only need to do any two of them, and you are an excellent person.

This is very easy to understand, really good people, except for a very few geniuses, are very diligent and hard-working people, and most people are not diligent and hard-working people, so really excellent people, their schedules, time arrangements, and the time spent doing important things are different from most people, so whether it is time or space, or even the topic of the discussion and conversation, it is not in line with most people, so it is not social.

As for the very few geniuses, they look at the majority as if they were people with low IQs, can they fit in?

Tao Ye Qianqiu informed: Although ability is directly proportional to personality, the unsociable arrogant faction will eventually toss to death with its own personality.

I don't want to lower my style, and I think differently from ordinary people, so there are differences, because the top of the pyramid can stand in very small places.

Because excellent people put too much energy on their studies or careers, and have no time to make friends, it makes people look cold. In fact, most excellent people are very introverted and not good at talking.

Because there are too many ordinary people.

There are too many people who don't have a common language among them.

There is no way to accommodate him in the family.

I think I'm smart, so I want to be different, and if I want to be different, I will be out of tune with others, or even out of tune.

Because the person who understands, he knows that it is a waste of time to fight with some people, eat, drink and have fun, so he will be alone and do meaningful things.

People who really understand are more mature in their hearts and see the essence of things clearly, so they never come into contact with those boring people, such people give people the feeling of being very unsociable, and very isolated.

It is true that a person who really understands is never social, because such a person has his own unique way of thinking, and such a person is more likely to succeed.

I have seen the loneliness, and I have seen the way that ordinary people have not seen.