What s so bad about taking decisiveness as a habit?

Not good. People who generally do not leave a way out for themselves are not that they do not want to stay, but that there is no way out. So I can only choose to break the kettle.

I think it's good to think of a way out for yourself in general, obviously there are many roads, and if this road doesn't work, you can take another way, so why do you have to break your head on one road. Doing things without leaving a way out refers to those who have no way out, which can increase some courage.

Being decisive, resolute and indecisive, looking ahead and looking forward are actually two kinds of personalities. It doesn't necessarily mean which character is better. Maybe the former can do great things, but there will also be miscalculations.

Although the latter is only to check and fill in the gaps, and there is less innovation, it may be relatively cautious. There's no need to change anything, you have your own strengths. But as each inherent character, of course, you can learn from the advantages of other personalities and achieve the best combination of the two personalities, which is the best.

Thorough consideration lays a solid foundation for your decision, but it's just the final word, and it's really not decisive enough. At this point, don't hesitate; One way is to follow your feelings, your feelings will not coax you, and the judgments that help you make the final decision will not be wrong; Another way is to make a quick decision based on experience, and most of the judgment of the final decision based on the results that previous experience has told you is not wrong; If you have the time, combine the two methods, and your judgment will be more accurate.

I don't know if you have ever heard such a sentence: "If you don't leave yourself a way out, you can gamble everything and accomplish what you want." This sentence seems to be a good attitude to life at first glance, but the ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, and doing things without leaving a way out is actually only suitable for some people, such as a person who has nothing, in the case of nothing or people can lose, he can completely let go without leaving a way out.

But how many people in real life are really nothing? Each of us has a family, or a father or a son or a mother or a daughter, we all have a responsibility that we must bear. Therefore, it is not suitable for everyone to do things without leaving a way out, what everyone should do is to leave a back road for themselves, and leave a back road that can at least allow themselves to bear the responsibilities they should bear.

Decisive, non-arbitrary, this must be clarified, the two are consistent in action, the consequence of arbitrariness is that things are messed up, and the consequence of decisiveness is that things are done very beautifully, in fact, it is very easy to be decisive, that is, to plan well before doing things, and then think about how to do things well, which is very important!

Decisive work, fast action, strong execution, relying only on institutional constraints and leadership supervision is not enough, we must rely on our own internal drive. People have inertia, if there is no strong inner goal to drive themselves, no matter how strict the system is, no matter how ruthless the leader is, it can only be an abacus bead that moves and moves.

I don't think it's a disadvantage to be decisive, it's just that I don't have a deep sense of affairs, and I don't dare to make judgments on my own, and then decide what to do? As long as you understand more about society, think more, and dare to take responsibility for the results of your judgments, you can do it.

Dedecisiveness requires you to have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and when a thing requires you to make a choice, you can immediately analyze the good and bad side of things, and make the right choice immediately according to the impact of good and bad on yourself, and you will become decisive.