What are the manifestations of selfishness and inconsiderate children of the elderly?

1. Acting arbitrarily and recklessly, without considering the feelings of your family.

There are some old people who feel that they are old, about to the end of their lives, feel that they have not been happy, they used to always think about the old and young, and now they have become old, in the rest of their lives, they hope to change themselves, no longer think about others, only think about their own happiness, so they do whatever they want, without considering the feelings of their own families.

For example, some elderly people are old, but they want to find new true love, so they are used by some people with ulterior motives to make the family jump.

2. Extremely selfish, he became a vampire of his own children.

Some old people are getting older and older, but they feel that they have never lived a rich life in their lives, they are old, and there are only a few days left in this world, so they want to live a few days of wealth, and they always keep asking their children for money, and even ask for cars and houses, without considering the hard work of their children, not understanding the difficulties of their children's lives, and just thinking about their own happiness. So he became a vampire attached to his children, overwhelming them.

3. Urging children to give birth, but not helping children.

Many elderly people have the idea of preference for sons, and they are already old, but when they see that they have no grandchildren, they will make trouble at every turn, and try their best to let their children have a second child.

But when the second child was born, he refused to help take care of the child, which led to a lot of pressure on the child, but he was happy to be idle on the side, such an old man is really disagreeable.

In fact, the elderly are already old and should have taken care of their children in every possible way, but some elderly people are extremely selfish, and there will always be some moths at every turn, so that the children are overwhelmed, and the relationship between mother and child or father and son will be very tense. In fact, there is a certain trick for the elderly to get along with their children.

4. Blind comparison.

There are always some old people who have some strong ideas, and they always require their children to do "no one I have, no one has me". The wishes that were not fulfilled in the sons are now being forced on the grandchildren. Grandma Meng Meng is such a character, I can always hear Grandma Meng say, the children of such and such a family can speak, why do you only know uh-huh, the children of such and such a family will urinate independently on their own, how can you still pee your pants, and so on.

5. Complaining.

The elderly help to take care of the children will always make the elderly sacrifice their normal entertainment life, but there are some old people who always like to keep complaining, complaining that the house at home is too small, the grandchildren have no place to play, complaining that because they have no time for their grandchildren, complaining that the children are inconsiderate of the difficulties of the elderly.

As follows:

1. Selfishness.

Although the vast majority of the elderly will feel sorry for their children and grandchildren, it is not denied that some people will still take their own interests first, even if they have children and grandchildren, they will consider the problem from their own point of view, and let the whole family revolve around themselves, such people are really a nightmare for their children, and when their children grow up, they will treat their parents in the same way, and the old people are desolate in their old age.

2. Grumpy and unreasonable.

At the same time, a short-tempered person, even his own children, is simply unbearable. Especially in the process of children's growth, if the parents' temper is relatively short-tempered and does not make sense in three or two sentences, they will yell at the child or beat him, which will also cause a certain psychological shadow to the child's growth. When the child grows up and the parents get old, the child really can't get close to the parents.

3. Never save a pension.

Of course, the confidence of life in old age also has a lot to do with the amount of pension, for those who do not have a sense of pension, never consider the matter of pension, just count on relying on their children, and when they are old, they have to rely entirely on luck, and sometimes it is inevitable that it will be desolate.

is like a neighbor in his hometown, who worked hard to build a house for his son, and he didn't save a cent of his pension, and when his son got married, he split up, and the old man moved out to live in a very bleak manner.

1. Acting arbitrarily and without considering the feelings of his family at all 2. Extremely selfish and becoming a vampire for his children 3. Urging children to give birth, but not helping children.

Completely unreasonable, some old people rely on themselves to be elders, relying on themselves to be parents, so they will always be extremely critical of their children, short-tempered, and completely unreasonable in everything, which will increase the pressure of children and the disgust of children for the elderly, even if such an old man has no one to support in his later years, it is actually not strange.

The simplest is that they are always self-centered. They never feel their daughter's pain, they only blame her. Everything is the daughter's fault. There is also a lot of asking for money from my daughter.

Now there are a lot of old people, very selfish, inconsiderate of their children, in fact, there are a lot of manifestations, because the old people are old, afraid of losing everything, so they want to pull all their children to their side, which will delay the work of their children. Therefore, many elderly people think about themselves and do not think about their children.

When he is in difficulty, his parents not only do not help him, but also speak ill of him, especially because his life is not rich, and he reaches out to him from time to time to ask for money.

They only think about their own affairs, and never worry that what they do will cause disadvantage to their children, and even if they think that it will cause disadvantage, they will do it because they have made themselves a party to the benefit.

What is it that only thinks about yourself? If you don't think about anything for you, you can spend enough food and enjoy yourself, such an old man is selfish.

The old man often makes some unreasonable demands, such as regardless of the financial situation of his own children, the old man sees other people's children buy a certain luxury goods, he also wants it, and so on.

If you ask your children for money, most old people won't do this, so you don't have to worry.

And so on. 5. Complaining elderly people helping to take care of children will always make the elderly sacrifice their normal entertainment life, but there are some elderly people who always like to keep complaining ,..

Always asking for money, children are in trouble and don't say a word, don't care, don't like to stay with their children, like to run out to play by themselves, this is the manifestation of the selfishness of the elderly.

Legal Analysis: Try to negotiate a settlement. However, children have the responsibility and obligation to advise and restrain their elders in the case of inappropriate words and deeds. Instead of blindly being foolish and filial, let your parents come to the ground. In particular, we must resolutely put a stop to those behaviors that endanger society and harm relatives.

Legal basis: Article 1067 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where parents fail to perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support. Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Legal Analysis: Try to negotiate a settlement. However, for the inappropriate words and deeds of the parents of the elders, the children have the responsibility and obligation to advise and restrain Wu Chun.

Instead of blindly being foolish and filial, let your parents come to the ground. In particular, we must resolutely put a stop to those behaviors that endanger society and harm relatives. Tachibana back.

Legal basis: Article 1067 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where parents fail to perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support. If an adult child fails to fulfill the obligation to support him/her, or if the parent lacks the ability to work or has difficulties in living, he or she has the right to demand alimony from the adult child.