What kind of experience is it like to be at odds with your parents three views and you?

I don't have a common language with them, and sometimes I don't have the same opinion, I have a disagreement, and I end up parting happily. I was angry at the time, and the more I thought about it afterwards, the more angry I became. The whole person will lose his temper or something.

Everyone will have their own ideals and wants to live and goals, and want to go to the big city to work hard for their own life path, and their parents are completely different from what they think, they think that they can find a stable and good job in a small county town, with a high salary, and they can be by their side.

My parents have always thought that college students are very popular now, and they have always thought that I will have a job sitting in the office after graduating from college, and I have told them that I want to go to graduate school, and they said that it is a waste of time, and it is better to enter the society after graduation, and then there is a good job.

I work and live in a big city, although I am now in the struggle stage, but my ambition is still very big, and I am also very positive about work, and I have no plans to get married at present, but every time I call, my parents will say come back to work here, and there is a boy with good conditions, whenever this time I am actually very helpless.

My dad and I don't have the same three views, when I graduated, I chose to come to Beijing to work, because I felt that the work was more profitable, and I could come out to see the world, but my dad disagreed, he always said that the big city is not good, it is not as comfortable as living in a small city.

My dad is like this, I live in the countryside, because the summer is very hot, the small electric fan in the house is not very effective in the summer, so I used half a month's salary to buy an air conditioner for the family, I thought my dad would be happy, but I didn't expect him to say, this is too much electricity, what to buy it for.

My dad and I are like this, I was preparing for the graduate school entrance examination last year, and I wanted to continue to improve my academic qualifications, but my dad said that continuing to study in graduate school is a waste of time, and it is better to know how to find a job and make money after graduating now, I am speechless.

When I just finished the college entrance examination, I asked my mother and I said that you are happy for me to be admitted to a good university, she said that she is not happy, and it will cost you a lot of money to be admitted to the university, and I hope you can't pass the exam.

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1. Parents' three views are not exactly the truth, you can't change them.

They have their reasons for not having the right outlook; Your parents' parents' three views are not correct - the social class is very low, there is no way to be sophisticated - it is not easy to make money and take care of children, how can you have time to talk about poetry and distance 2, improve yourself.

Separate you from your parents, who are not the same as you. One day you will leave them and fly far away, and when you are obsessed with them, you will not be able to fly high and fall to your death.

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Stay away, treat it cold, lock it up in your own room, and don't communicate.

Then do your own thing.