I don t have any friends now, but I m very dependent, what should I do?

I've tried this situation too, both in high school and in college, and at first it was very uncomfortable, I felt very pitiful and unpleasant, but I slowly got used to it, and after that, I became more independent, and my grades continued to rise, and later I thought that some friends were stumbling blocks. Actually, it's nothing, just get used to it! When you grow up, you have to be independent!

Don't pay attention to other people's opinions, and don't pay attention to what other people say; Go your own way, let others see and say, and one day, they will be tired and they will regret it!

There will always be something to face on your own in the future.

Then it is better to take advantage of the present and learn to rely on yourself.

Only you are the most reliable.

In the rest of your life, you have to rely on yourself, and it is useless to rely on others.

Why does it have to be accompanied?

You can go anywhere by yourself.

I know how you feel.

I'm in my second year of junior high school.

You first want to think why you don't have friends on weekdays

Could it be that the problem is with you.

Look at someone in your neighborhood who is studying at your school, and then take the initiative to get to know her

Then you can go to and from school together.

And your family lives close.

Then find a friend to go with you!

Your situation is really the same as mine. It can only be said that it is exactly the same, a few years ago, because my friend broke up with me, and spread bad words about me everywhere, plus I wanted to save face, so I was almost always alone for more than a year. But this kind of thing will always come into contact with in your life, at first I will always feel that I am very pitiful, that I am a forgotten person by God, and then after a long time I will want to take revenge, I want to take revenge on the woman who broke with me.

I always felt that I was deceived, and gradually became a bit of obsessive-compulsive disorder, but at that time, my biggest gain was that because I had no friends to go crazy with me and mess with me, my academic performance became very good

But as time passes, you will find that this is actually a gift from God, and God wants you to hone yourself through this matter, and if you give up, then you will never succeed, but if you persevere, then you will get a great gift.

You say that you always feel that others are looking at you, hehe, in fact, I have been in this situation, and even now there is a little, but I know that this is just a normal situation in our adolescence, and I always feel that everyone is looking at you, but in fact, no, it is like you are not always looking at others. But I know you're alone, so it's going to feel a little different, isn't it? It must be the feeling that others are looking at you with ridicule again, or you really feel that others care about you.

All in all, it was a good training, in fact, I regret now that I didn't let go of my courage to fight, but waited slowly, and planned revenge Although you may not have hatred.

But I really advise you, you must let go of your courage, make more friends, ask your friends why they ignore you, seek justice, and take the initiative to talk to others, otherwise you will really regret it.

I don't have anything to say about this kind of thing you will experience a lot in the future, really a lot, being isolated by everyone, no one paying attention to you, or failure at work, academic pressure, etc.

I don't know if I'm going to think it's ridiculous to say this as being two or three years older than you, but I really want to help you

And oh, the dependence psychology is very normal, even if you reach your 40s, 80s, you will still have a dependency psychology, isn't this society built by mutual dependence If one day, no one depends on anyone, then how to live? How to make money

So the more time you get to this point, the more you have to show your backbone and perseverance!

17.If the dependence is too strong, how can you be self-reliant?

People who are very dependent are less courageous, and they don't believe in themselves, and they are very unassertive! Very mother-in-law, selfish, selfish, feel that I am always stupider than others, etc. If you can really correct his shortcomings one by one, you need someone to guide and help him patiently.

Let him go out and be independent, can he rely on it for a lifetime? Why do people depend on people, it is affected by people's inert thinking, everyone wants to get something for nothing, and where there is dependence, of course he depends on it.

To learn and grow, this is something that everyone has to go through. Dependence is only short-lived, and now we have to learn to live independently, which does not mean that we are lonely, we have to arrange our own time and live a fulfilling life. Become a thoughtful, conscious, assertive person and you will not have a feeling of dependence.

That's when he has someone to rely on now, and when no one is dependent, and there are no relatives and friends around, he will naturally learn to live independently, don't worry about this, people are like this.

People will go through the transition period from dependence to independence, and everything will be fine!

That's because you relied on your parents too much in the past, so you are like this now! Start with small things and learn to do your own things! Whether it's right or wrong, it's always the beginning of self-reliance!

You have to try to make your own ideas, I'm afraid it's wrong.

Dependence is something that everyone does. It is precisely because of dependence that we become mature. Dependent on parents, that's because we're young, and we can't do a lot of things independently, relying on our parents, that's because our parents are the closest people to us, and our parents can help us do things that we won't do or can't do, relying on our parents, and sometimes it's a sign of laziness.

Rely on friends, that's because when there is no one else around, friends are the only ones who can give us ideas; Rely on friends, that's because friends play an important role in our hearts, and with friends, everything is easy. To rely on a friend is to give your own things to your friends. To get rid of dependency, you have to:

Do your own things, do your own things as much as you can, and don't do your own things.

Hehe, brother, you're just like me. So do I. If you try to leave your hometown and work outside the home, this vice can still be restrained.

You should learn to be independent, don't want your parents' money, go for a year, and ensure that you will mature a lot

Learn to be independent, do housework on your own, go out and exercise.

I used to be very dependent, but I've changed, I used to have a very good friend, at least now I really treat her as a friend, she used to be the most popular in our class, protecting me everywhere, I was used to her protection, treating her as a sister, and then she fell out of love, no longer lively, and she was not as popular as before in the class, I realized that everyone has a vulnerable side, everyone needs protection, try to help the people around you, you will grow up slowly.

You start with the little things ...

For example, 1 do what you can.

2 Help in the house what you can see with your own eyes, and sit up from a small age...

3 Try not to ask for everything all the time, but think about whether you really need it so much before you want it, and whether you have a lot of things in your home or have been like this and that... Why not give yourself a few more days or longer, and maybe after a long time you will find that you don't need that thing at all ... All you need is your own impulse at the moment ...

Do you get tired of things that you used to get so easily??!

4 You can also go out by yourself to endure hardships and work for others, and don't bring your pig and dog friends... It's best that everyone doesn't know ... There are many people who should take advantage of you or kidnap you or trick you into deceiving you if you have money...

5 Ask yourself, are they really all your true friends?! Don't be so quick to give yourself an answer ... FEEL IT WITH YOUR HEART ... Instead of other people's sweet words, rhetoric, acting or one-sided words, etc...

6 Start with small things and slowly help your mother, and you will find her touching her hard work, for you are everything to him ...

7 The next time you lose your temper, let yourself be silent and not speak, or avoid it outright... Then ask yourself if it's worth it?!For such a thing to hurt the person who loves him the most ... Though you win right or wrong ...

8 Try to embrace the flaws of others ... After all, you are not perfect ...

9 If you are afraid, let yourself develop the habit of exercising... One can change your physique... It's a good thing to be more active...

Slowly begin to share in your mother's affairs ... For example, helping to collect and dry clothes... Sweeping, washing, cooking, buying, etc.

They are too capable, and if they are less capable than you, they are also very dependent.

Start with simple things, do what you can do by yourself without bothering others, learn to cook some simple meals, try to be self-reliant, take your time, and get used to it

I don't think you're not independent, it's just that you are used to wanting to talk to someone and get opinions before you do anything. I don't have my own secrets.

Be independent, and if something happens, you can try to solve it yourself.

Give yourself a little hint, reflect on yourself often, and reduce dependence.

Be brave and find your own way to solve it beforehand.

Everyone has to learn to be independent! Especially women! To have an independent economy, independent living space! Let's start with a portion of your own journey.

Learn to be independent and have your own opinions. Learn to grow, do your own things, and don't always think about relying on others.

You are a leader who does not use your hands. Trick them.

What to do, first of all, you should first enlighten yourself.

Stay away from the people around you and live alone.

From little things to doing it yourself.

Try to do everything on your own!

If you can do it yourself, try not to rely on others to do it.

Leave everyone and try to do something.

Are you in love or in love with a more capable man?,,So you're willing to be a little woman behind him.。。

After a woman falls in love, it's almost the same, and my problem with you is very similar, and now we rely on him for everything, so we have to change.