I didn t have any friends in my class, and I was very aloof

You are similar to me.

If you look closely, it's not that you can't make friends, because you also said that 3 friends transferred schools.

It's just that you don't feel like there's a place to make friends with or send boring playmates to be together all the time.

People are different, the same kind attracts each other, people are divided by groups, and things are gathered by like.

When you don't meet someone in your current circle who can really speak, it's actually quite normal, and you can try to change your personality.

For example, now I am learning to laugh on my lips and learn to make people laugh with a word.

Then there will be more and more friends who are willing to play with you.

Nowadays, people wear masks to behave.

It's hard to find really close friends.

Don't you like to play with computers, if there are people to talk about on the Internet, you can also come out to meet and eat.

Let's have fun.

First of all, start to improve from the friends around the seat, take the initiative to say hello, it is not very long, but you must say it, even if it is one word: early. Then take the initiative to invite friends to walk with you when doing exercises, and take the initiative to invite friends to play with you in physical education class.

You are still young, you don't need experience, skills or anything to make friends, as long as you have a sincere heart. Take that step bravely, and you will definitely gain something.

Do you have something on your mind that you don't want to talk to your classmates around you?

There must be something that oppresses you and makes you ignore other people, so you can't make friends.

Take the initiative to say hello loudly, pay more attention to the outside world--- try to figure out the true psychology of others, and help others when appropriate. Let go of yourself and believe that you will gain a lot of friends.

At what age did you earn money to buy a computer?

And how old are you, you'll be able to engage in **.。。

Take the initiative to talk to your classmates, and don't want to save face.

Why don't you open your mind and talk to your classmates more! The topic doesn't matter, as long as you can communicate with each other more.

First of all, it is important to be clear that introversion and extroversion are just one personality, and either one is fine, but they have different strengths and weaknesses.

If you know that you are an introvert and it hurts you to make changes (i.e., become cheerful), then you might as well try to play to the strengths of being an introvert: study hard and study hard to become a strong person in your professional field.

In this way, even if you are different in personality, it will not have much impact on your future participation in society and work.

Let's say you're not explicitly introverted and really want to change. Then you might want to start by joining a small group or club like a club. Or start by making an extroverted friend, build a friendship with them and learn from them, and even slowly integrate into their circle of friends.

In this way, your circle of friends will also expand, and you will also learn the way to be cheerful.

This is not a problem that will be solved in a moment and a half. Maybe suffering from autism.

Then you change yourself, cheerful and gregarious.

In fact, there are no real friends at work, everyone walks together for work, intimate friends are to make friends together, when too many people know your secrets are not good.

Open your heart to the outside world and get to know the people around you and around you.

You have to be talkative, and you have to tell others what you think.

In fact, you are surrounded by real friends, but you don't know how to find out, bosom friends are found around, but don't deliberately look for it, friendship still needs a bit of fate!!

Friends lie in the heart, you only show your heart to others, others can give you his heart, don't be afraid of being hurt, only after the injury can people cherish more!

The first thing is not to give up your efforts, you have to believe that your previous efforts have not been in vain. Because you have done some wrong things before, which has led to such consequences, you must have the courage to bear the consequences and take your own practical actions to slowly change their views. I have a friend who entered the juvenile detention center in junior high school, and after coming out, he was slowly admitted to high school, entered university, and went to graduate school, and he also had a lot of friends around him.

There are still a lot of changes that can be made while you are young, and don't wait until you regret it later! I don't know if you can understand it, but I still wish you happiness and happiness, and you must not give up your efforts! You have to go on your own way!

First of all, you have to figure out what is causing the current situation you are talking about: external or internal.

Extrinsic factors: Do you live in a dormitory or do you live a private life with your parents?

Is it that the high school life environment is high-pressure?

Internal factors: Are you too inferior?

Let's talk about the first external factor: do you live in a group dormitory or do you live a private life with your parents? In fact, when I was in high school, there was also a situation like you, in the first semester of my first year of high school, I was basically alone and there was no one to talk to, the main reason is that "I am my mother to accompany me", every day to the point into the classroom to class, after class to rush to the rented house (at noon and afternoon after class to rush home for dinner, evening self-study to rush back as soon as possible, otherwise the night road is afraid of a person), so naturally there is no opportunity to communicate with classmates, fortunately, there are good junior high school classmates to exchange letters.

But after a semester, I began to try to change this life, I discussed with my mother if I could not go home from school in the afternoon to eat, eat in the cafeteria with my classmates, I need to communicate more with my classmates, in fact, it is helpful for life and study, my mother thinks it is reasonable, and I can also see my distress in the first semester. In this way, I began to participate in the dormitory life of the group, and after communicating with everyone, I realized that it was not that others looked down on me, but that I did not give others the opportunity to get close to you. So if you have this reason, you can try to live with your classmates more.

High school life is a high-pressure environment? In fact, if you look back on more than ten years of studying, you will find that primary school is novel, junior high school is ignorant, high school is the most fulfilling, and college is growth. The hard study is to be admitted to college, and high school is the final stage, so most people are racing against time to study and do questions, and there will be some students who are not willing to spend too much time socializing, at this time active communication may be the most correct choice, you can start with them from the exchange and learning ......You can communicate with your classmates in the same way that you have a good time with other classes.

In fact, high school classmates are the most iron, because everyone has a common goal of "going to university", and there is no other conflict of interests.

Let's talk about the internal factors: Are you too inferior? In fact, everyone is friendly, you have to let go of your fears, let go of your inner inferiority.

Communicate with people. In high school life, in fact, what everyone wants most is to have someone to share their joys, sorrows and sorrows with, and only classmates who are in the same environment as themselves can understand their joys, sorrows and sorrows.

There is no necessary connection between reading and making friends, if you are good at reading, someone will naturally come to make friends with you.

There is no gain without paying, sometimes friends do not rely on others to find you, sometimes you have to rely on yourself to fight, the key is to rely on yourself to take the initiative, everyone needs different, the most important thing to make friends is that you have to pay first, this is a joint relationship, sometimes you make a friend, in fact, it is a friend of his circle, after the start is opened, it is much easier.

Hope it helps

To be honest, it's better to have no friends than to make friends these days, and if you are sincere to others, there will be people who are willing to make friends with you.

You say it so confusingly that is, it's not a symptom, it's a personality disorder, and the dao is not socially desired, and generally not.

He felt lonely and had no self-knowledge.

Getting along well with classmates does not mean that he can become your bosom friend, upstairs said yes, if you want to find a friend, the first thing is not to hide yourself, but this may hurt, because the real you may not be accepted. However, if there is one person who knows the real you and will not dislike you, then he is your confidant. The current culture of making friends is not to be too intimate at first, or to expose yourself too much (appropriately), otherwise some people will be disgusted or make bad friends.

Later, if you find someone who has a good appetite, or who has been together for a long time and has enough bonding, then you can lay a good foundation for you to be yourself.

In your current society, it will be difficult to ...... without one or two people in the class who can talk (empathize, I always tell my parents this, I am annoyed).Let me share my personal thoughts......Due to the persecution of parents......I decided next semester that I wanted to make a friend or two in the class and get back into ......For true friends, I won't be too persistent, let it be, there is always a true friend of yours in this world.

For me and me, in fact, copying someone is the best, you are bored now and want to find a soulmate, but when you have friends all over the world, you think about it, wait for others, accompany others to eat, and care about other people's affairs when you are very busy, are you so free? Hell of the loneliness, you study hard, you have good grades, and you are respected by others in any way, of course, provided that you don't harm others.

Not all, just copy is that you don't fit in and bai already, you should belong to that kind of quiet not how.

Du Mo speaks, the personality zhi can't let go, you want to find.

Dao a bosom friend, in fact, it is not difficult, first of all, be a happy self, don't care too much about what others think of you, help your classmates more, share your happy things with them, interact more, get along more, and gradually get along.

You first have to figure out the personal hobbies of some people in your class, and then find places where you are active in interpersonal communication, provided that you learn to be cheerful, and if there are any awesome people in the class, you have to learn from them appropriately.

Normal, hehehe, sometimes you want to make friends with people you think you can be good friends, but they don't have a heart to heart with you.

No, that's because you have a psychological role in yourself, and you should show who you really are. Face everyone with your glorious side.

If those who have better grades than you look down on you and you are unhappy, why do you look down on those who have worse grades than you? You should get along with them, maybe good grades are not the reason why they isolate you.

You can ask those classmates who look down on you for having better grades than you, why they isolate you, maybe it's not that their grades are better than you, they look down on you, you don't always want to look at your classmates by their grades.

You can take the initiative to make friends with them, for example, by chatting with them after class, but you can actually try to go. The most important thing is not to get into trouble with your classmates.

I'll just talk about that, the important thing is that you have a sincere heart to get along with others, so that the classmates will get along with you well, if there is anything you don't understand, just ask!

Why should you look down on them?

According to what you say, you are no different from those self-righteous people, you don't know that there are people outside the world, there is a heaven outside the sky, academic performance is such a thing, if you don't advance, you will retreat, this time their grades are much worse than yours, you look down on them, maybe they will catch up with you next time, what are you dragging.

Of course, there is a reason that students with good grades and students with poor grades have different thinking skills, just as the more difficult the questions, the easier they are, the easier it is to grind for a long time. This may also be the reason why you are isolated by a lot of people.

Or it's not about grades at all, it's your personality, like me.

The result of treating them separately makes you more isolated. In fact, think about it from the opposite side, do students with good academic performance only look down on you or all students with slightly worse grades? Moreover, I think it would be too extreme to divide people into three, six, nine, and so on because of their academic performance.

Maybe you're still a student, and your judgment of everything is grades. But what I want to tell you is that grades don't mean everything, and more accurately, he doesn't mean anything.

Don't treat them differently, but treat them equally. Otherwise, you'll be isolated.

1,.I'm going to say to you, go your own way and let others tell you to go! 2.I would like to say that it is very important to have good interpersonal relationships. 3.You shouldn't treat people with worse grades than you, everyone for me, I for everyone, you know?

If you look down on your classmates who are worse than you, don't blame you for looking down on you for studying better than you, this is a truth! Isn't making friends just about the other person's academic performance?

They have difficulty helping ,,, take the initiative to speak.

You can try to communicate with them as much as you can, as long as you want to be friends with them, and persevere, eventually someone will be your friend. If not, then change your personality.

Just be yourself and make yourself strong! It doesn't matter what others say.