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It should be that some couples may regret it, and some couples will not regret it. Couples who regret it feel very envious because they see their friends and grandchildren enjoying themselves in their old age, and when they look at themselves alone, they feel lonely.
Couples who do not regret it may be because they do not have to take care of their children in old age.
Dink families who have not had children all their lives have had a lot less financial pressure when they first started a familyYou don't have to make milk powder money for your children, you don't have to pay for your children's schooling, various interest classes, and you don't have to take into account the cost of your children's future marriage and buying a house.
But when they are old, the Dink family has no chance to feel the feeling of being called mom and dad by their children, nor does they have the opportunity to enjoy the opportunity to be called grandparents or grandparents by grandchildren or grandchildren. Although the Dink family lived a very chic life when they were young, they could not enjoy the warmth and happiness of being a father and mother when they were old. And when you are old, you will feel lonely and lonely without the company of your children.
At the same time, the elderly will always get sick, and the two people in the Dink family can only support each other when they are sick, and they will have no children to take care of when they are sick.
And for families with children, things are not so complicatedElderly people who have children to take care of will feel very secure and happy. This kind of happiness is something that the Dink family can't experience.
The reason why the Dink family chose not to have children is because before the child reaches the age of 18, the parents have very little time in the world, and the quality of life of the two will be reduced because of the birth of the child. MoreoverThe topic of life revolves around children every day, which is one of the reasons why the Dink family chose not to have children.
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The vast majority of families who choose Dink should not regret it, and most of the families who choose Dink are from good families with retirement salaries
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This question depends on personal thoughts, some people do regret it when they are old, and some people will not regret it, everyone's thoughts are different.
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When you reach the age, you will not regret it, it depends on your personal situation, and if you have a happy family and a retirement salary, you don't have to worry about it at all.
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When you get old, you will be very pitiful, the Dink family can't enjoy the warmth and fun of being parents, and you will feel very lonely without the company of your children, especially when you get older, no one will take care of you, and you can only choose to live in a nursing home.
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I don't think Dink is necessarily pathetic when they're old, because that's the life they love.
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I won't regret it, because I can save a lot of money by not having children, and in my old age I can go to a nursing home and travel around the world. But in the minds of some people, marriage is not for the sake of having children, it is just a small nest built by two people who love each other. It is precisely because of this that there is the existence of the Dink family, and they love each other very much.
They are also willing to grow old together, but they just don't want to have children, because they feel that children are a burden and will affect the lives of both of them. They want to hold each other's hands like this until they are old, and they are not willing to be distracted for the sake of their children, nor are they willing to lower their living standards for the sake of their children.
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At that time, when the two decided to choose Dink, they should have considered the consequences they would have to bear in the future. Therefore, even when you are old, you must bear all the consequences of your original choices: whether it is happiness, happiness, trouble, or sorrow.
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It should be, the Dink family, when you are young, is good, you want to go**, go straight away, when you are old, you will be lonely, no one to take care of, no company.
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Yes, when you get older, you will regret your previous choice.
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The road was chosen by himself, and he had to finish it by himself while kneeling, and since he chose Dink, he had no regrets.
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It's not that you don't regret it, it's very helpless, especially when you can't take care of yourself, it's not necessarily that the world abandons you, but you want to abandon yourself.
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In the past, there were many Dink families, and when they got old, they all regretted that they had no one to take care of them, and they were sick or something.
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It depends on the situation, some people say that children are the bond of family relations, and they can also provide for the elderly, and in the traditional sense, not having children after marriage will also be said by many people; But from another point of view, children can't completely tie each other, and children may not be able to provide for you in old age, so it depends on the wishes of you and your lover, just reach an agreement.
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I don't know if you've heard the sentence: "There is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness"! The meaning of this sentence is that although you have a filial son, but you have been sick for too long, this filial son also feels very troublesome and has become unfilial!
Raising children to prevent old age is an old saying in the past.
Now as long as you have a pension and live in a nursing home, the service is better than that of your son!
People who say they regret it are not aware of the current situation, nursing homes are everywhere! And now it has long been a society that only recognizes money, as long as you have money, you have a good life in **!
I'm most afraid that if you have a pension, even if you have children, no one will come to serve you!
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Unless you can look down on life and death, and end your life by yourself, you will definitely regret it.
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Not necessarily! But life is lonely when you're old! But some people like it.
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This is everyone's own choice of their own life, and no one can say what will happen in the future. But many Dink families are really doing well now.
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Nine out of ten regretted it.
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It really takes a lot of courage and perseverance to stick to a dink for a lifetime. Because of the resistance to the world, Dink is only accepted by a very small number of people, and the few people say that it takes a lot of courage and determination to convince the majority. When some young people got married, Dink spoke by two people.
The relatives and friends around them also felt that they were not big enough to put too much pressure on them. But as they grow older, people of the same age around them have children, and they live with their babies every day. People around me and my family sometimes get into disputes.
Under such conditions, many people can unswervingly stick to their choice. Whether it's a change in life circumstances or actual stress, many young people Dink is just a verbal word. Years later, I also had children and lived a traditional secular life.
One spouse regrets Dink and has children with the other person
Young couples agree that Dink wants to live a childless lifestyle, which is a relatively trendy lifestyle. Like Guang Yuanyi, he is a famous director, married in middle and elderly people, and married a kindergarten who has been in love for 9 years. At that time, he felt that he had reached a certain age and that the responsibility of raising children was too great.
Both of them are not very easy to raise, so they decided to let Dink. However, the conclusion is sad. Nine years later, Dink had a couple and gave birth to a daughter.
His wife decided to divorce. The biggest risk of choosing a dink at a young age depends on the fact that personal experience is relatively limited, the lack of control over life, and the consciousness is very easy to change. When I was young, because of the main reason for economic development and energy, I decided not to have children.
However, when you grow up, you may think about your children. At that time, there are couples who are older, and their fertility is reduced, and even if they want to have children, they may not be able to have children.
When they were young, especially when the two first got married, many young people wanted to live a free and chic life. I feel that children are a responsibility and a shackle, which will affect my quality of life. Hence his name Dink.
But as they grew older, they gained plenty of life and accumulated a certain amount of wealth. You look forward to the warmth and emotional comfort of your family, and envy the liveliness and vitality of women with children at home. gradually influenced Dink's thoughts.
So take a look at the middle-aged couples around you. Many of them are now starting to have a second and third child. I understand the importance of children for family.
Not to mention the old Dink. When you were young, you lived a colorful life. When you are old, it is all empty, it can only produce loneliness, and children are a great emotional comfort.
And Dink, who persevered to the end, except for the very few who really disliked children, most of them were forced to dink due to physical reasons.
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Hello, filial people, we know that filial piety comes first, parents often talk about not having children, and couples will have children if they can't withstand the pressure. There is also a kind of person who is old and has a change in mentality, and when he gets older, he will want to create something new when he is bored with his comfortable life.
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In recent years, the concept of Dink is very popular among young people, and many young people are attracted by Dink's concept of life of freedom and childlessness. However, I have had my own children.
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