As a man, would you accept a woman?

Absolutely impossible, I wouldn't even marry a girl whose family conditions are much better than mine.

In my opinion, the Chinese feudal system has been influenced for so many years, and people are so conservative in their thinking, so they must be conservative to the end, as a man, I will never be involved in women for my dignity, I think that my dignity as a man will disappear completely.

It is absolutely impossible for me to wronged myself for money, let myself put my dignity aside for money, such a man has no life, and he can't breathe any air, he only lives in the world with grievances and grievances.

My purpose is to live happily, if I am allowed to go to the woman's family, and be angry with the woman's mother's family, I don't think I can do it, I am a very temperamental person, I will not save face for anyone, even if you are very rich, even if it is my father-in-law, even if I want to rely on you to support me, I want to be angry, I want to beat people.

And I feel that I can make a lot of money with my own efforts, I feel that I can achieve success, I can pursue it desperately for my dreams, but I can't give up my dignity, maybe I will do something I don't want to do when I do business, do something I don't want to do, do something shameful. But let me go to the woman's house to realize my dream, I feel that it is meaningless, my dream becomes worthless, it is not to realize my dream, but to humiliate my dream.

I can work hard for my dreams, but I don't cut corners. I can raise a woman, but I can't be raised by a woman, I can look down on others, and I can't be looked down upon by anyone.

A manly man, standing up to the sky, how can he be wronged to such a point? There are a few men in this world who have gotten into the rich and got a good end. It's impossible for me to get into it.

In China, the reason why many men are married is because the woman is an only child and the family conditions are much better than those of the man's family, so the woman's parents do not want their daughters to marry into the man's family to endure hardships, which is the main reason for the occurrence of marriage. Personal feelings of acceptance or not mainly depends on whether the relationship between the man and the woman is stable, as well as the requirements of the mother-in-law when entering the marriage, and the range that the man can bear; Many women say that they are in love, for that man, they give up this, give up that, and love is undignified. But for men, this is not the case.

Therefore, when a man is willing to give up together for love and get rich, he gives up much more than he imagined. Such a man, you should love well, instead of asking him for this and that, if people don't know how to be satisfied, they will never know how to be happy and happy.

<>Is this the legendary "door-to-door son-in-law"? As a man, even if I love someone very much, I won't choose this way, since I can't give her what she wants or a relatively good standard of living, I'd rather be single, indicating that my own efforts have not yet reached the standard of giving her a happy life, although she doesn't mind or their family doesn't mind me getting rich, but I definitely can't pass this level psychologically, it feels like eating soft rice, although I haven't experienced this feeling, but I understand. (Disclaimer!!

I'm not a macho person).

I've heard the older generation talk about the son-in-law before, so in my impression, the man who is rich is generally more cowardly, and he can't hold his head up in the woman's home, and it's okay at the beginning, and they all say it's nothing, but if the conflict is very serious, I'm really afraid that the woman will knock you out of the house, or you just swallow your anger, don't refute anything, and honestly clamp your tail and be a ......Although I don't pay so much attention now, it's very stressful to think about!

I have watched Chopsticks Brothers' "Old Boy's Dragon Crossing the River" before, and there is a plot in it that says that a male son-in-law played by Wang Taili is not welcomed at home, lives in the woman's house, eats at the woman's house, and is still the last piece of meat when eating, Wang Taili was just about to clip it, and was picked up by the woman's father and thrown to the dog, so can you bear it? ! Isn't it just that scolding people is not as good as a dog!

So as a man, I won't choose the way to get rich, it's too wretched, it's not suitable for me Wouldn't it be nice to work hard to give a better life to the people I like?

Summary. The man goes to live in the woman's house, and if it is a formal woman marrying a man, this situation is what we often call a bond. Some are not like this, they just live in the woman's house, because the house is inconvenient, and it is just an excessive way of life.

In fact, whether it is a rich man or a normal man marrying a woman, as long as two people love each other and live happily together. Because life needs two people to operate, and there should be no distinction between high and low. That's how long it will last.

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The woman's entry into the man's name is: the man goes to the woman's house to live and hand in the money, and for the man's family, it is generally called the son-in-law.

The man goes to live in the woman's house, and if it is a formal woman marrying a man, this situation is what we often call a bond. Some are not like this, they just live in the woman's house, because the house is inconvenient, and it is just an excessive way of life. In fact, whether it is a rich or a normal man marrying a woman, as long as two people love each other and are happy to be happy, Tongyin has lost the day.

Because life needs to be run by two people, and there should be no distinction between high and low. That's how long it will last.

Legal analysis: The custom of the man to join the family originated from the earliest matrilineal family marriage system, which is just the opposite of the male-dominated social system, and the custom of the man to join the family is mainly due to two reasons, one is because the woman's family has no labor force or no boy to pass on the family to receive the family, and then the woman will find a man who is willing to join the family to help the woman's family; Another reason for the disgrace is that the man's family is relatively poor and cannot afford to go to the daughter-in-law, so he usually joins the woman's family, and the woman will also support the man's family.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that a divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year and have lived together for another year, and one party files a divorce lawsuit again, the divorce shall be granted.

Marriage refers to the man's settlement in the woman's family, and most of this kind of marriage is because the woman's family has no brothers and no brothers, and the son-in-law is recruited to the door in order to pass on the lineage. There was also a prejudice in the old society that the man had to change his surname after settling in the woman's home, and following the woman's family name was often called "inverted door". In the old society, men would be looked down upon, but with the development of the times, few people will look down on men now.

Is your marriage happy? Although with the development of the times, the call for equality between men and women is getting higher and higher, but men will still be looked down upon. Many people think that incompetent men will choose to "plug the door upside down", and the impact of the custom on marriage and family relations is still relatively obvious.

Because a small number of people still use a feudal perspective to deal with the problem of marriage, resulting in the instability of the marriage relationship, some men are deeply affected by feudal ideology after marriage, and cannot correctly handle the relationship between themselves and the woman's family, which leads to contradictions. Many marriages lead to divorce for such reasons, and in the final analysis, it is still the deep-rooted feudal concept. With the development and evolution of society, there are more and more only children, and there are fewer and fewer simple children.

Many people negotiate before marriage and take care of both sides of the family after marriage, and the man does not completely go to the woman's home to live. The two started a family together and took on the responsibility of caring for both parents. To a certain extent, it also helps to promote social stability and progress, although it will still have some adverse effects on the marital relationship, but it is not excluded that many marriages are happy.

The relationship can also better solve various problems in society, such as marriage problems, pension problems, etc. However, now the marriage is also facing certain challenges, such as the current policy only allows one child, and the child's surname must be the same as the woman's surname after entering the family, which often causes conflicts between the two families. At the same time, couples also have to support 4 elderly people at the same time, and the family financial pressure is also very high, which often makes them feel overwhelmed.

In fact, marriage is also a normal marriage relationship, and it should not be viewed from the previous feudal perspective.

To join is to recruit a son-in-law, not the woman who marries, but you in the past. Giving birth to a child and the woman's surname. Living with his mother-in-law and swallowing his anger.

It means that the man goes to live in the woman's house after marriage, and the child born must have the woman's surname.

To talk about the soil, it means that a man marries into a woman's family.

Everything has a good side and a bad side. Not absolutely.

As long as the husband and wife love each other, have a harmonious relationship, and truly integrate into the family, it is the same to marry a man or a woman.

Respect and honor the woman's parents, and have a good relationship with the neighborhood. Then all is ok.

The son (daughter) belongs to the woman's family and has the woman's surname. According to Chinese tradition, the daughter who marries is a member of the man's family, but the opposite is true.

It means that the man becomes a member of the woman's family, and there is no harm in seeing whether the man's face can be hung up.

Even if the man marries into the woman's family, there is nothing now, there are many such cases, and when the conditions are met, they can buy their own houses and separate.

Later, the child should have sex with the woman, and the man should live in the woman's house.

How many boys seem to be reluctant to get involved now.

The low status of the family is like going back to a matriarchal society.