Would you accept a girl who has had her wrists cut before?

Accept! If you really want to cherish her, if you really want to help her change that little bit of self-confidence in her heart, then accept her!

My girlfriend also has it, not when I was a child, I helped an adult to take a wine bottle and accidentally broke it and fell stupidly to scratch it! Shocking!

Every time I hold her and see her scars, I feel an indescribable discomfort. So in my opinion, I will cherish her more, and I think you will too. Right!

PS: Look, I'll just say, you'll be a little bit unconfident! You will regain your self-confidence, the self-confidence that you should have, which only belongs to women! Believe in yourself now, you can! You can!

It's not that they haven't accepted you, it's just that they haven't met someone who will accept you.

No! Unless she has come out of the shadows and there is still a point, she already has the confidence and courage to live again.

I will pity or save her, but I will not accept her, this kind of behavior obviously proves that this girl is reckless, and it also proves that she has been deeply hurt, so many things are unpredictable, if you are not sure enough to heal him and take care of her for the rest of her life, you may become a fuse, it sounds cruel, but I hope you think twice.

As long as you feel that you love her enough, there is nothing wrong with it, girls like her generally need more care and care from others, you are good to her, maybe she will always remember it.

If it's me, I can't accept it, there are a lot of stories behind this scar, maybe I can't accept it.

My wife has died several times, once by suicide, not because of me.

It takes courage to commit suicide, and I don't dare

Now my wife is very sunny and very good at living, because she is now living in our love, she has all kinds of different thoughts every day, which makes me have a headache, and her thoughts always involve me

But this kind of life is interesting, or every day firewood, rice, oil and salt, how tasteless!

The past is in the past, the sun is warm today, and there will be someone who loves you not far away who will stay with you for the rest of your life.

Why is it unacceptable? What are you afraid of? Love her and embrace her, including her past and present!

Yes! Because it doesn't mean anything! It's just the impulse of youth!

People say that if you want others to look up to you, you have to look up to yourself first, in fact, this is the same, if you want others to accept you, you must first accept yourself, find self-confidence, believe in yourself, and have a kind of pride in self-sacrifice, so as to find true happiness and happiness.

If you love her, you won't care about her past, cherish the present, if you lose it, you won't have a chance.

The past is the past, everyone has a past, why don't you accept someone else's past?

The past is over, your sincerity will definitely move him around you, have a good time, be happy

If I like her, why not?

Maybe there's only one girl in my life who can be so obsessed with you. Long-term pain is like short-term pain, a person who can give up his life for another girl, even if he keeps his body, his heart is not on you. Instead of making them all suffer, turn around in style.

This behavior doesn't necessarily care about you. On the contrary, it is a bit naïve, and all girlfriends should cherish it. No.

Unless she has come out of the shadows, there is one more point where she has the confidence and courage to live again.

Your girlfriend may have a psychological disorder or have undergone a lot of changes as a child. If you really love her, help her out of this state and give her more security. If you don't love her, end the relationship in a more tender way.

If you can ask this question to prove that you don't love her, then there's no need to weigh the pros and cons and ask if you can have such a girlfriend. She's a person, it's up to you to say it. A man like you is not worth it.

Personally, I think this is a narrow vision and a single thought.

First, it is caused by immaturity enough. I'm sure in a few years, she'll understand! In fact, there are billions of people in the world, and most of them will experience the failure of their love, or even the breakdown of their marriage, and few will be spared.

In fact, compared with people whose marriages broke down later, people who broke up in time before marriage were lucky. Life is like a long journey. During the journey, even if the scenery in front of you is terrible, after a few stops, you will see beautiful scenery——, which may have been completely unthinkable before.

So, for the sake of a better future, everyone should live well. If I'm in a bad mood right now, I'll give you a few more suggestions: find your most trusted relatives and friends, chat, eat, go on an outing, and talk about life.

You can also participate in some relaxing and enjoyable sports activities, such as playing ball. You can also listen to songs, sing songs, read books, write diaries, ......Just pay attention to listening to songs and reading, listen to and read some comfortable, brisk, and positive works, and works with certain inspirational and philosophical value are also worth recommending.

People who don't love themselves and don't want their parents are worthy of loving others.

No, I think such people are scary and will make me afraid.

No, it would make me think that the relationship was very deformed, and I would be very scared of my girlfriend.

Summary. Hello, I am Ray, a psychological counselor, graduated from Capital Medical University with a master's degree, a certificate of psychological counselor of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and a senior psychological counselor. He is good at marriage and family, gender relations, personal growth, and adolescent transition.

I can understand your embarrassment very well, and the girl who cut her wrist means that her emotional processing ability was not very strong at that time.

Hello, I am Ray, a psychological counselor, graduated from Capital Medical University with a master's degree, and has a certificate of psychological counselor from the Chinese Academy of Sciences. He is good at marriage and family, gender relations, personal growth, and adolescent transition. I can understand your embarrassment very well, and the girl who cut her wrist means that her emotional processing ability was not very strong at that time.

And relatively speaking, there may be a depressed mood and depressive tendency at that time.

Can you marry home?

But this can only represent her emotional processing ability and state at that time, not her current state.

I think if she is in a healthy state at the moment, she can consider a marriage.

Just like Song Slip's body is sick and healed, the spiritual or cold resistance will also be cured, so if she has fully recovered now, it is Ye Tuan La who can consider getting married without being bothered by the previous <>

This is of course a kind of love, if you don't give all the emotions for the other party, then there will be no such a choice, but this way is extremely wrong, if the girl knows such a behavior of the boy, then it will only produce more fear, only farther away from him will not have any contact, which is also a basic protection for yourself.

Sometimes you have to think about it empathically, if you don't even go to yourself, you can't even protect yourself, then what does he do to protect his loved ones at this time, so in this case for such a reason, it may be unacceptable for many people, even if two people do not break up, then in this case, the other party may find a way to leave each other for this reason to protect themselves.

Therefore, for any relationship, no matter what kind of pain you encounter, no matter what kind of result you encounter, you must have a rational attitude to face it at this time, only in this way can you better deal with your emotions and face life better.

It was true love at the time! But love