The cost of love, what to do if you spend more money in love

In you I see my former self, I hope to be taken care of by a man, I hope he has grace, he is willing to spend money on me, I hope he thinks about me all the time, there are a lot of text messages and I am very tired, but now men and women are the same, very selfish, very selfish, very considerate, empathy, women when they ask for equality between men and women, is it necessary to be equal in some aspects, so don't force it, don't expect too much from men, you are disappointed because you expect too much, look at yourself and be an independent woman, He will be impressed by you, everything goes with the flow, the previous brothers and sisters are right, there are still good men, if it is suitable, if it is not suitable, find it again, the feelings of this era are less permanent, more independent, free and easy

I don't like his concept What he means is that he minds girls spending boys' money Two people earn about the same amount of money and spend their own money I don't know how to say it But I feel very bad Boys don't have to spend a lot of money to please girls But boys have the responsibility and obligation to take care of girls Romance is necessary It's good not to waste it What do you say you can get along with me I think it's not for nothing to find a better one on your terms If he has such a concept, you will definitely quarrel over this in the future And. I think he's a little stingy I hope you won't be unhappy if I say this But I definitely can't accept such a boy It's not that he has to spend money on everything But I feel like he won't take care of people at all Hey, I can't say it well, you have to experience everything for yourself, and you can see if he is sincere after experiencing some things later.

Addendum: After you added, I think he is really stingy What do you like about him How much do you like him If you like him and don't know what to do, then cold him for a while Or talk to him about what you think Explain your thoughts and your problems You are talking about feelings Money is so clear how to be together in the future If you have a very general feeling for him Then I advise you to break up with him You want happiness instead of the distress caused by money You also said that you are a graduate student Do you have to bend down to be with him and still be affected by stinginess You don't spend any money on him He's really stingy like that It's not favored to be with a stingy man I've had this experience My ex-boyfriend just went to play with me or something and let me take the money alone Money doesn't matter But it's an errand A man is so concerned about money He must not be too tolerant Too much Do you know what I mean Think about it If it's really so tiring Then why bother.

Hehe you just want to get his love, no matter what way you want to know clearly that he loves you, but if you spend too much money, is it love? It seems a little selfish He may be a little stingy, or he doesn't know how to fall in love, but it's hard to tell whether he loves you just from the above, and the pay is proportional to the return, you can talk to him about these, just don't pull down the money directly, or it will seem to be cheap!

Within her ability, if she loves you, she won't care how much money you spend, and if you love her, you can't be too stingy.

It's not a personality problem, it's no way, except for this, it's really not suitable, generally during the relationship, I feel that women are the God in the hearts of men (no matter what graduate student you are, ,,) but people need to care, money is not about how much, only whether you have a heart, I used to be in love and said that it was my husband's money, but I will also pay back the gift to him, I also have friends like you, but in the end they broke up (during the breakup several times).

How can a man be like this, stingy He doesn't take you very seriously, and there are more worthy of his attention than you, not only women.

This kind of boy is really rare.

He doesn't seem to like you very much, and you don't even have a relationship like this, and you're not even friends, so why drag it out, let's separate!!

If you don't love you, it won't make you angry. Do you say yes? He also wants you to help the family ---

Another possibility is the problem of perception

I love AA. I think that's good.

It's so hard. But I don't think you're compatible. In his heart. You're not number one. Let's divide it early. Better a finger off than always aching.

Men are ...... who won't make women pay

If you don't get along, divide it early.

He's different, isn't he? I used to love spending money on girls, but it didn't work! , the woman is very complicated! ~

Love, I don't feel enough love! If you don't love it, you don't love it! ~

I'm very cheap.,I just want to spend money on girls.,And especially catch up with texting and calling ** or something.,But women don't like it either.,Hey, women are really complicated.。

It depends on whether the boy is really rich, if he has no money or is in debt.

Well, it's hard to see what type of guy you are.

Are you two too strong to cooperate?

The first is the AA system, which is universal for the vast majority of couples. Because both parties in a relationship are on an equal footing, although sometimes boys may take care of girls, so they will bear the bulk of expenses. But we girls should also be grateful to the boys who take care of us, don't let them bear it all the time, and we must also actively bear some expenses.

Even though sometimes the boy may pay the bill before the girl, we have to find other opportunities to take on what we should do. If the boy pays for the meal, then we can take the initiative to pay for movie tickets or milk tea, etc., and don't let the boy have one heir. Although they may not say anything at first, over time, they will definitely complain in their hearts.

The second method is more suitable for couples who have some financial means or savings. You can negotiate with your partner to deposit a certain amount of money into a joint account at the beginning of each month. The amount of this money does not need to be very large, it is entirely up to your financial base to determine whether it is more or less.

After that, all your expenses, whether you go out to eat or go out to play, can be paid from this common account. This can not only avoid the awkwardness of AA system every time, but also cultivate your common financial management concept in advance. If you want to do something, you can decide based on the balance in your account, so that you don't have to do things that you can't afford.

Of course, there are not only the two ways to solve the cost of the relationship, but there are many other ways, and you can always find a solution that suits you according to the different circumstances of each couple.

Hello! You can discuss with him to see what he thinks, whether he really loves you, if he is an irresponsible man, then his love is hypocritical, you can also explain to him that you are not married yet, you can also break up with him, don't waste your youth on such a man, you can also tell him that if he really loves you, then he will also plan for your future, and will not only care about his own feelings. You can work together to live your life well, instead of spending money blindly, which will also make him feel very shameless, and he will work harder and fight for your future.

In the process of falling in love, spending money is a necessary expense, so how to allocate it reasonably?

1. If the cost of love is more than 100, you can AA system.

When young people are in love, in order to consolidate the relationship between the two people, they will definitely date often, which will cause love expenses. If you often spend money alone, after a long time, this person will definitely complain. In order for the cost of love not to be a burden for one person, it needs to be faced by two people.

For some small expenses, there is no need for two people to be particularly detailed, but if a consumption reaches 100 yuan, the AA system should be agreed, so as to make the dating of two people easier. For example, if a couple goes to the movies, the movie tickets and snacks are about 150, and two people can share them. When two people go to a restaurant to eat, they will also spend more than 100 yuan, and such money can be borne together.

Second, two people can agree that at the beginning of the month, everyone will have to come up with the same amount of love expenses.

There are many places where couples have to pay for phone bills, such as paying rent, utilities, gas, dining out, going out, ...... to go outThese costs are not a small amount, and you should plan ahead to avoid disputes over expenses. For example, everyone can take out the same amount of money every month and put it in a fixed position, so that when two people are dating, they will not be embarrassed about who gets the money.

3. For living expenses, try to do who needs to spend money, don't worry about it.

When you are in love, some couples already live together, but some expenses are personal expenses, so you shouldn't let each other come to the hall to quietly train them. For example, women's personal items: clothes, skin care products, etc., can be bought with your own money.

And boys should find their own way to use it for personal contacts, game equipment, etc. In this way, the relationship will become extremely easy, and the relationship between the two people will be more stable.

There are different types of money spent in a relationship, but here are some tips for splitting your money wisely in a relationship:

Communication: First of all, you need to communicate with your partner about the financial situation, discuss and plan expenses together, and ensure that both parties have a clear understanding and expectations.

Activities: In a relationship, couples usually participate in various activities together, such as movies, restaurants, concerts, etc. In these activities, it is possible to try to pay or share the costs in turn, which can reduce the financial pressure on one of the parties.

Gifts: Gift-giving is an important part of a relationship. Try creating a budget and choosing gifts based on your budget, or opt for more monumental gifts rather than overly expensive items.

Travel: In a relationship, sometimes we choose to travel together. During the trip, you can plan the itinerary and budget in advance, and try to choose the most reasonable accommodation and transportation mode to avoid affecting the love process.

Future plans: If couples have joint plans for the future, such as buying a house, getting married, etc., they can plan and reserve funds together.

In general, the reasonable distribution of expenses in a relationship requires both parties to discuss and coordinate together, respect each other's economic ability and concept, and make appropriate adjustments according to the specific situation of the nuclear concession.

During the relationship, you should make a reasonable plan for spending money, and you must leave a full budget for the daily necessities that you usually need to make, and you can talk about dispensable consumption, and arrange some funds appropriately.

I think it costs to eat, drink, or buy some small things for your girlfriend in early love, but don't go to some more expensive places than staring at the bottom of the day.

Money should be spent in the right places, such as eating, buying clothes, and buying gifts.

When it comes to romance, the payment method for going out to eat can be based on the personal preferences and circumstances of both parties. There are two common ways:

1.AA system: Both parties share the bill equally, and each person pays their own expenses. This approach avoids overburdening, especially if there is a gap in the dispersion of the Blind Nuclear Clan, or if both parties want to remain equal.

2.Male Treats: Male students are responsible for all or most of the bills.

This way is seen in some cultures as an expression of gentlemanly manners, the care and respect that men have for women. However, this does not mean that the boy has to bear all the costs, but it is decided according to the agreement of both parties and the financial situation.

It's important to communicate and understand openly with each other when it comes to payment methods, respecting each other's perspectives and preferences, and finding what works for both parties. The most important thing is to establish a relationship of equality, mutual respect and communication, and to jointly negotiate and solve economic problems.

According to the situation at the time, whoever proposed to have a relationship would pay the first money, and the boy would pay for the later ones.

According to the social situation, if it is a dating boy who pays, if it is a meal, the boy can pay this time, the girl will pay next time, and you can share it when you go out to play.

According to personal circumstances, if you don't mind who pays, whoever pays the clan call is the same, and if you mind, you can pay each.

Exactly who will pay can be negotiated on a case-by-case basis, and there are no fixed rules.

The issue of consumption between boyfriends and girlfriends has always been a very sensitive topic. Whether or not to AA is decided on a case-by-case basis. Here are some factors to consider:

1.Economic conditions.

If the financial situation of two people is very different, then the AA system is not very suitable. For example, if one person has a higher salary and the other person is still in school or has just graduated, then the consumption level of the two people will be very different. When this slender brother is shooting, you can consider letting the party with the higher salary bear some more expenses.

2.Consumption habits.

Everyone's spending habits are different. Some people like to spend extravagantly, while others pay more attention to affordability. If two people have different spending habits, then some compromises can be taken. For example, you can take turns paying bills or split the cost on a case-by-case basis.

3.Degree of relationship stability.

If the relationship between two people is not very stable, then the AA system may be more appropriate. This can avoid conflicts and disputes caused by consumption issues. However, if the relationship between two people is already stable, then consider being more flexible in dealing with consumption.

To sum up, whether to adopt the AA system for consumption between boyfriends and girlfriends needs to be decided on a case-by-case basis. Factors such as the economic situation, spending habits, and stability of the relationship need to be considered. The most important thing is that both parties respect each other and negotiate a way of spending that works for both parties.