Why don t unmarried women use contraception when they don t want to have children?

1. Unable to make full use of workplace resources: There are many work systems and benefits specially designed for working parents with children in the workplace, such as paid maternity leave, maternity leave travel allowance, child education, etc., and married and unpregnant working women are often unable to make full use of these resources and may lag behind working parents with children.

2. May be excluded during pregnancy: Once a woman is pregnant, her work will be affected, and she is likely to suffer from her colleagues ostracizing her or even be forced to resign.

3. Career opportunities may be lost: Married and non-pregnant working women may lose the opportunity to participate in training or development opportunities because they may not be able to travel for long periods of time or for short business trips.

4. More family pressure: Married and non-pregnant working women may be subject to family pressure, because family members may blame them for not being able to get pregnant early, resulting in greater family pressure, which will affect their workplace performance.

Here's a few pieces of advice for unmarried girls.

1.Marriage is not just a matter for two people, but also for two families.

Many people say that love is a matter of two people, and marriage is also a matter of two people living together, but marriage is more of a matter of two families, so the ancients had a certain sense of being a household, don't give up your home for love, two people get married, you have to go to each other's house, you have to get used to the habits of the other party's family, if the husband is more enlightened, you husband and wife live by themselves, maybe the situation is better, if you live together, you have to learn to get along with your mother-in-law and father-in-law, If you get along well, you will be more harmonious, but if you are not satisfied, then you will live a very difficult life, especially when your husband can't reconcile the conflict between you and your mother-in-law, you will be even more sad, marriage is a matter of two families, so you get married not only to look at your object, but also to look at the environment in which your object lives, after all, the original family really affects a person.

2.Girls must have a financial **.

As a girl, you must have your own economy**, your independence is the basis for you to dare to speak, if you have been spending your husband's money, you may not have so much courage and confidence, but when you have your own money, you can buy what you want to buy, you can also have a greater right to speak, even if you quarrel with the object, you can also have your own place to go, more importantly, although money is not omnipotent, but this is your confidence, you can tell yourself that you can live well without relying on anyone, So you can live well without others.

3.Before marriage, you must do a marriage inspection and talk about some precautions in marriage, such as property management, such as mutual respect, as small as washing dishes and cooking.

Husband and wife respect each other to go further, do a marriage inspection before marriage for the good of both parties, how many people have no children after marriage and then blame the woman, so girls must protect themselves, discuss all kinds of rough and closed things before marriage, so as to avoid a lot of quarrels, and must say that the decision-making power of the usual family affairs, for example, the husband and wife discuss, respect is the primary condition for the husband and wife to get along for a long time, the two sides are equal, is to help each other, if one party has been in a weak position for a long time, Then this marriage is unequal.

4.You must have your own voice at home and think more about yourself.

When you get married, you can't listen to your husband, you must have your own right to speak, and at the same time be kind to yourself, people are visual animals, you must learn to be nice to yourself, you not only have a husband and children, you are still yourself, so be kind to yourself, you must always learn, always progress, so that you can attract each other more or all the time, and the freshness will never go out of style.

Because unmarried pregnancy is likely to become a single mother, it is very hard to take care of a child alone, so unmarried pregnant girls do not want this child.