If gender could be chosen, would you be a man or a woman?

Indeed, in past history, when a woman was involved in an outrageous calendar or upheaval, it was likely to be called a curse. The ancient feudal ideology gave women too many constraints, from the gate to the three outlines and four virtues. However, it is precisely because of these that in this new era, the rights given to women will gradually increase, and women can also become the leaders of the times.

Women's personalities tend to be cautious and careful, which is the advantage of being able to compete with or surpass men and build a career. Moreover, the pressure on men in this era is increasing, and the daughter-in-law must have a car and a house, a certain salary**, and when she is sad and stressful and needs to be relieved, tears may be said to be weak by some people. As for women, when they are sad and shed tears, many people express understanding and sympathy, and there are also people who give appropriate comfort.

The pressure can be reduced a bit. <>

There is such a well-known saying, the poor raise children, and the rich raise daughters. This abundance is not only in money, but also in spirit and attention. On the road of life, parents will teach their daughters more and give more care. So, I'm more female.

Perhaps, you will say that women have to experience the pain of menstruation, the pain of pregnancy and childbirth, but this is not a kind of experience and meaning, looking at their October pregnancy, that little person with their own blood and bones, is also a kind of happiness?

In the same way, a woman's wardrobe is always missing a piece of clothing, every season of change, there is always a lack of a piece of clothing, leisure time, dazzling clothes, choose a favorite one, dress yourself beautiful, is also a thing worth looking forward to and relaxing.

Because I like beauty very much, I still choose to be a woman, but this time I must choose to be a healthy woman. Unhealthy, for a woman, is really very painful.

If it were me, I would like to be a girl, and I want to be a beautiful girl, a girl who lives in a big city, a girl who is wise, yes, this is what I am now.

In fact, most of my life circumstances have nothing to do with men and women, at least I don't feel that I have received any preferential or bad treatment because of gender, which may be because the metropolis is more tolerant of gender, or gender is weakened in study or work.

I am an only child, my parents are pampered on me, I study IT, although there are more men in the workplace, but the ability to work is really the ability not the gender, both men and women are the same, the ability is strong is to shine, I am relatively hard-working, so the work is smooth sailing.

Involution is inevitable, overtime will not be taken care of, and salary increases are also equal, I believe that the company can be fair, and so far there has been no unfairness.

The only difference is to have a baby, because of this, I said that this may only be possible for girls, whether it is good or bad, everyone depends on each other. Painful and beautiful for me.

I'm a fairly independent woman. When I didn't have a baby, I was also afraid of pregnancy and all kinds of pain of pregnancy. I am also afraid of the responsibility and pressure of having a baby. But may I ask, where is the meaning of life?

Is it the pursuit of a life of fine clothes and fine food? Was he born in a wealthy family, eating, drinking, and having fun all day long, without stress?

I think the meaning is that you have worked hard, worked hard, experienced, received the goods, and failed.

We all start as children, we are teenagers, we are young people, we are employees, we are friends, we are husbands and wives (some people may not have them), we are parents (some people may not have them), we are grandparents and grandparents (some people may not have them). We have a lot of experiences because we have such an identity, we will have such an experience, and the richness of the experience can make your life closer to fulfillment.

The process of women becoming mothers, as well as the bond between children and women, is something that men will not have, it is painful, and there are many sequelae, but the emotional value of children to their mothers is much more than that of their fathers.

Wouldn't it be nice to have one more person in this world who loves you?

If you are given the opportunity to choose your gender, you should choose men, because men feel more crazy and bold.

If I were given the first opportunity to choose my gender, would I choose male or female? Personally, I think it is relatively selfish to choose men, after all, women have to bear more pain than men physiologically, but men will also bear more pressure, anyway, in fact, men, women have their own advantages, and each has its own disadvantages, if you can choose, of course, everyone's thoughts are different.

If I could keep my current memory and choose my gender, I would choose a man because I want to experience the life of another gender and nothing else.

If I can't keep the memory of the present, and live the multiple-choice questions I did in my previous life, the regendered "me" will not be the current me, I can't accept it, it's not about gender.

This question is like asking you which gender you think is better and which one is more popular with you, and the subjective factor is strong. The premise of gender is people, we can't choose the established gender, but we can choose the way to live as a "person", choose to be free and easy, and we can laugh at the good and bad in this life; There are also people who choose to be violent and refuse to settle down....Life is rich and colorful, so why bother with the non-existent multiple-choice question of gender.

No matter what gender he is, I can still live this life well.

If I were given a chance to choose my gender, I would choose men, the current society is different from the past, men can earn money, women can also earn money, but women suffer too much, and a large number of men just enjoy it.

Of course, I chose men, although men are a little tired, but they are safer.

If I were given another chance to choose my gender, I would still choose to be a man, not a woman, because after all, men are still in a certain strong position in this society, and they can get more resources, and they choose to be men, they don't have to do housework, they don't have to take care of children, they can just be responsible for going to work, and as a woman, they have to go to work, take care of children, and do housework, which is very hard, and the process of having children is also more painful.

If I was given a chance to choose my gender. I would choose male. Because men can give a lot of warmth to women. Although in today's society, men and women are equal, but most of the time. It is also unequal. Men are stronger than women.

Gender is always a popular topic, and there are different points of view. For example, men often say, "Women don't have to shoulder a lot of responsibilities like men, as long as they dress up beautifully and find a rich man to marry", "Expectations for men are always high, no money, no house, no car can't have a girlfriend at all", "Men can only swallow tears in their stomachs, and women can always cry generously in front of people", "When it comes to working overtime, it is left to the boys to do more, and the girls can leave after taking a leave"...I'm sure you've heard a lot of men say that, right?

But is it true that women are in the same situation as described above?

From the perspective of companies in different industries, except for the IT industry, where there are more men and fewer women, there are more girls than boys in the service industry and the news industry. At least the part of making money, the expectations of men will be higher, and girls will like to find a man who is stronger than themselves to marry, but the problem is that if the competitiveness or luck of the girls themselves is not enough, this idea is not as practical as realizing it themselves.

When it comes to women, they don't need to work too hard for their careers and wait to get married and have children, which makes women cry and laugh. Just the menstrual period, the pain of giving birth, breastfeeding, and the body is out of shape. Wait, I'm about to cry when I talk about it, but do men understand?

Of course, men also have all kinds of hardships, as the economic pillar of the family will inevitably bear more, but women are the pillars of the family's life, and it is not very easy, first of all, it is necessary to shorten the distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law (the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is generally far more than the problem of father-in-law), there is no time for children at home, disconnection from society, and independent housework. I believe that many women think when they see this: women are better?

Let's change to a man!

The pressure of life is the same, men and women are not the same, it is better to be a man or a woman, why bother to think about it, live in the moment and do yourself well first. Men envy women and don't have to think about economic issues, and women also envy men who don't have to think about family issues.

In fact, no matter which gender has a hard side, men should not preconceive that being a woman is easy, and women should not think that being a man is good and majestic. Although the social environment and family structure lead to a gap in the perception of gender roles between men and women, it is important that the two sexes need mutual respect, communication and understanding, so that both parties can adapt to development.

Women should be virtuous and patronize their families".

Cooking, laundry, mopping floors, washing dishes, tidying up the room ......Since ancient times, women have had to be virtuous and virtuous, and these housework seems to be inherently women's work. The hostess of a home, in fact, is also half of the family, the operation of the whole family depends on her, she has the responsibility to keep a home clean and tidy at all times, the windows are bright and clean, and there are hot meals on the table when the time comes, and to know accurately that each sock of each person in the family is placed in the ** ......

The scariest thing is that this job is still free and lifelong!

And even if you do all this, no one thinks it's a big deal, you're a woman, shouldn't you do it well! Could it be that these little things at home make it impossible for men to do them?

Women should be financially independent".

The economic foundation determines the superstructure, in modern society, there are not many men who can afford to support the whole family, and the husband and wife only have one person to make money and the whole family will suffer from poverty, even if the man can afford to support the family, the days of reaching out are not as good as imagined, and the ability to make money is almost equal to the right to speak in the family, just like a company you have enough shares to be a major shareholder is not!

When you want to buy food, clothing, housing and transportation, when you want to arrange family trips, when you want to arrange children's future education plans, everything that costs money, then it can't all come according to your ideas, or the opinion of the person who gets the money is the most important.

You have to listen to others for everything, you can't call the shots, what a humiliating life it is, a full-time housewife is the most dangerous and insecure job, no salary and no contract, all the future is pinned on the feelings and character of the husband, if you don't make your own money, who can guarantee that you are so lucky enough to be a broad wife for a lifetime? Therefore, while women are virtuous and patronize their families, economic independence is also the foundation for modern women to maintain their marriage.

A woman should be as beautiful as a flower."

Men can not be beautiful, as long as they are neat and decent, if a man is fat and has a beer belly, he will be more successful people. But women can't, if a woman is not exquisite, not groomed, not dressed, not beautiful, she is irresponsible to herself and rude to others. Even women who are not good-looking, the advantage in the workplace is not particularly large, gender discrimination in the female workplace is indeed very common, women are respected in the workplace is often related to a good self-employment image, only by dealing with their own workplace image, in order to win the trust and respect of leaders and colleagues, in order to have a higher prestige, and the time and energy she spends is much higher than that of men.

This society's requirements for women are all-round, three-dimensional, 360-degree harsh without dead ends, behind the label of a "good woman", how many requirements there are, think about it will feel incredible! But before being a good woman, let's learn to love ourselves first, Qingxin magnetic power sanitary napkins will solve menstrual troubles for you, beautiful from the inside out! And Xiaoqi wants to tell you that this sanitary napkin is different from the sanitary napkin you usually use.

I feel that it is better to be a girl, because girls are less constrained, and it is easier for us to choose to live in China, and if we are boys, we will be disciplined by our parents. And if you choose not to marry or have children, then your parents may think that you are unfilial, but if you are a girl, this kind of trouble will generally be reduced.

If I had to choose my gender again, I would choose a male. Because I feel that men are the embodiment of strength, bravery, and responsibility. He is a man who stands up to the heavens and the earth. I've always admired people like that.

Don't even think about it, just choose a man,If I were really a boy in this life, I might not have been wronged so much when I was a child, and I might be a treasure in the family like my younger brother. <>

I was born in a patriarchal family, when I was born, it was because I was a girl, the family is a nose is not a nose, eyes are not eyes, I want to lose me, my father stood aside and sighed, grandma didn't say a word, looked at me viciously, my mother cried at the time, everyone else gave birth to a boy, why is she so angry, born a girl, from that moment, I began to suffer from the dislike of the whole family, until my brother was born, The relationship between our family members has been somewhat relieved. <>

Speaking of patriarchal things, I really have a stomach of grievances, I remember that I was ten years old, when my brother was five years old, it was a little boy naughty and mischievous, that day was the weekend, my parents had to work overtime in the factory, so I let my five-year-old brother take care of me, although I was just a child at that time, but the task given to me by my parents must be completed, I must take care of my brother, otherwise I really can't eat and walk around when they go home.

I really didn't dare to leave my brother for a moment, for fear that he would break everything at home, but people are in a hurry, just a moment when I went to the toilet, my brother actually smashed the TV series at home, and I began to be scared at that time, what should I do, wait for my parents to come home, how should I explain it. <>

When I got home, my parents didn't listen to my explanation at all, and my father's backhand was a slap, and it was very painful to hit me in the faceAt that moment, my heart was very painful, tears couldn't stop flowing down, the same parents were born, why is the gap so big, is it because I am a girl, is it that we girls are so unlikeable.