I feel like I m ruthless! Am I being too ruthless?

Life is inherently joyful, angry, sad, and happy, with seven emotions and six desires. When you are alert to yourself that you are a little cold, a little ruthless, and will hate yourself like this, it means that there is actually a soft side in your heart; It's just the way you've always presented. It is manifested in the manner described above.

I'm glad to know that you want to change your mood, awesome!Life, taking detours straight, is a kind of wisdom; Making a straight turn is an experience, but it takes time. So, it's up to your mindset.

There are several ways to do this, please refer to it, and please try to do it.

1. Silent method.

It's a bit difficult and even embarrassing to suddenly change your personality. So, please listen attentively first, you may not be able to get enthusiastic for a while. But you listened.

In addition, you cooperated to help, and even corrected your image that you could not have done in the first place. That's definitely a big step forward.

Second, the spring back to the earth.

Ibid., the ears are still listening to the topics of friends and family; However, your facial expressions can be changed slightly. Maybe the original indifference and ruthlessness will make people retreat when they see you. However, try to soften your expression, smile slightly, and if you find it difficult, try to raise the corners of your mouth.

At this time, there is no need to show your teeth, and showing your teeth is considered a further level of cultivation.

3. Role-playing.

Life, if you always be the same type of person, is too boring. Have you tried to play Wei Xiaobao and Johnny Depp (the protagonists of "Ghost Voyage: The Ghost Ship Curse")?

Try to think about what they would do and respond to if they were youActually, this is a very interesting process, and it is highly recommended that you definitely try this one.

Finally, I hope you don't hate yourself from now on, after all, everyone is unique in this world. Again, please remember one more sentence"Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June"。Come on, come on!

Have you ever taken others seriously? I don't know how old you are, but I feel that you shouldn't be very big, I suggest you go and fall in love with someone you like, then you will grow a lot!

Truth be told, you're right.

The closer is more, and the more you get.

Walk around more, the more diligent you are, the more you will be close, you don't need to compare with others, you feel that you can get by. On the other hand, you have to cherish your blessings, after all, you are in your thirties, and your grandparents are still alive. This is something that many people envy.

This doesn't mean that you are ruthless, because your family's economic conditions are there, so it is really difficult for you to give money at this time, because you are still living your own life.

Now people must have affection, but there must be the right person to have affection, you are to those wolf-hearted people, no matter how affectionate he is, he also looks down on you, the same is true between husband and wife, as a man, you coax her all day long to treat her as an ancestor, but she doesn't have you in her heart, she doesn't take you seriously, so for such a person in the future, try to understand it, don't make senseless sacrifices.