Would you rather be married or remain single without considering your parents?

Because I have experienced it, I chose to be single all the time, marriage did not bring me happiness, but brought pain, so if I go back to before I was unmarried, I may still choose to get married, which is nothing to do with the opinions of my parents, after all, the experience of married life is complete, most people are like this, isn't it, can't be different.

I am willing to be single all the time, and the whole family is not hungry, and I can continue to improve myself without so many worries.

Don't think about your parents, don't get married just because you're going to get married.

A life with someone is perfect, and I definitely choose to get married.

I can't stand being single all the time.

Getting married, having children, and continuing life is the life I want.

Under normal circumstances, under such a traditional ideology in China, even if the parents are very open-minded, they will uphold the principle of getting married and passing on the ancestry! It is also a child who wants to leave some of his wealth and thoughts to himself. Because this is a traditional idea that has been ingrained since ancient times.

However, some people may have advanced thoughts and feel that their time is really not enough, and there is no need to worry so much about their next generation. However, at least in an environment like China, such people are still in the minority. Because the purpose of marriage is definitely to raise the next generation.

But there are also Dinks, but they are a small part. So, if it were me, I would also like to get married and have children, and make a traditional life without regrets!

Of course, I am married, at least I have someone to accompany me to go shopping, and I have a colorful and different life.

I think under normal circumstances, you should still choose to get married, because marriage is a major event in a person's life. Only when you get married, can a person's life be more perfect.

If it were me, I would definitely choose to get married.

I didn't think about my parents in the first place, it must be good to be single.

Reason: The difficulty of the result is greater than the difficulty of oneself.

Without thinking about my parents, I am willing to get married. Because life is about continuity. Only married. gave birth to a child. Your life can be continued.

Hello, in fact, everyone will choose to get married when they reach a certain age, there is a family, as the saying goes, men should get married, women should marry. When a person grows up, he has to start his own family and start a new life. However, some young people have not been married for a long time for various reasons, and the elders in the family may do some more excessive things to their children when they see it in their eyes and are anxious in their hearts.

Specifically, because the child is single, the elders in the family will often urge the child to marry, pick the nose and eyes on the child's daily behavior, and introduce the child to various relationships.

1. Because the child is single, the elders in the family will often urge the child to marry.

For the elders in the family, the single state of the child will make them very anxious, so they will do a lot of things that seem excessive to outsiders. Among these things, the simplest and most direct is to often urge marriage. Specifically, the elders of the family will urge the children to marry on various occasions, and in this way influence the children, hoping that they will get married as soon as possible.

For those children who don't want to fall in love and get married, this method is not very effective.

2. The elders in the family will pick their noses and eyes at the daily life of single children.

Some elders in the family will pick their noses and eyes at the daily life of single children in the family to urge them to get married as soon as possible. The reason why these elders will make such a move is that on the one hand, it is to give their children enough influence to urge them to get married, and on the other hand, it is also because they are not satisfied with their single appearance, so they will find fault with them and make the children feel overwhelmed.

3. In order to allow single children to get married as soon as possible, the elders in the family will introduce various relationships to their children.

In order to make the single children in their family fall in love and get married as soon as possible, the elders in the family will try all kinds of ways. For example, they will introduce their children to various relationships, hoping that Wu Bi's children can end their single status as soon as possible. However, because the objects they introduce do not necessarily meet the requirements of the children, the efforts of the elders in the family often do not achieve the desired results.

But in order for the children to get married and start a new life as soon as possible, the elders will still help the children find a partner in their own way.

In the old days, as long as you could get by, it was different. In addition to external factors, internal factors gradually aggravate. In other words, it is not only required that the partner have a good character, but also whether the three views are consistent.

In layman's terms, when two people are together, there should be a topic to talk about, and what you like, I also like. You're an athlete and I have a running habit. Even if the small issues cannot be the same, the big aspects must be the same.

If you don't meet a partner with the same three views, you'd rather be single than get married. Rather than being in trouble in marriage, it is better to be happily single. There is too much pressure in society, and getting married is harder than finding a job.

When it comes to marriage, it is inevitable to talk about the bride price, dowry, and house.

As a woman, I have never been against the bride price, and I firmly believe that the attitude of the man's family towards the bride price is a direct representation of the family's attitude towards the woman and the woman's family. However, I have always resolutely opposed the sky-high bride price, otherwise it would be a joyful marriage, and it would be like a sale, so how can the word "love" be spoken?

And the problem of housing has become one of the main reasons why many young people refuse to get married.

Women want to get married after they have a house, for a peace of mind and stability, and if a man does not rely on his parents, how many can buy a house in the city where he works before the age of 30.

Therefore, from the perspective of the current social phenomenon, when most men and women get married, either the man's parents buy a new house, or the parents of both men and women each contribute a part of the funds to give the young couple a down payment on a mortgage, and the young couple will repay the mortgage together after marriage.

It is not difficult to find that many couples whose feelings stop at talking about marriage, some lose to the bride price, some lose to the trivialities before marriage, some lose to the attitude of the other party's family, and some lose to the inability to buy a house, or a dispute over the signature on the house.

However, we must admit that if a relationship eventually loses to real problems such as bride price or house, it can only mean that there are problems in the relationship itself, and the quarrel will not stand the test. This problem cannot be solved when you get married, and if you encounter bigger and more serious problems involving reality or economy after marriage.

In addition to the reasons mentioned above, there are other reasons, such as enjoying the freedom of being single, and not wanting to be restrained for the time being; Or you haven't thought about what kind of partner you want to find; Or maybe you are tired of falling in love and taking a break.

Actually, don't be pressured to be single in the face of marriage urging.

Being single is just a choice of life, some people choose to get married, and naturally some people choose to be single, whether there is an advantage or disadvantage between the two, it is just a difference in lifestyle.

More and more young people only choose to fall in love, and do not want to get married, let alone have children, which is the status quo of most single young people. Especially in the big cities of Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, it is more prominent.

So why are young people reluctant to get married? Many people say this: I don't seem to have any interest in making friends and getting married, but it's good to be alone. This kind of thinking is not an exception, but many people can't help but choose the bridge.

Psychologically speaking, making friends, interpersonal relationships and intimate relationships are all derived from people's social attributes, that is, to meet emotional needs, life needs and value needs.

In this way, whether young people are afraid of marriage or because of economic reasons, choosing to be single is caused by a lack of sense of value, or a disconnect in a certain aspect of demand.

In other words, more and more people are looking for a soul and life partner, and if they can't find it, they would rather be single, so it seems that more and more single behavior can be understood. Of course, this is only an emotional need, and on the other hand, there is also the financial pressure of young people.

More and more young people are a generation that can't make ends meet, and they can only survive by "gnawing the old".

It is precisely because of economic pressure and emotional pressure that more and more young people choose to be single, or have boyfriends and girlfriends, but they are only ambiguous, neither in love nor in marriage.

The post-80s generation is moving forward with a heavy load.

It can also be said that the hardships and difficulties of the post-80s generation are fully visible, and young people happen to see the difficulties of the post-80s generation. For example, they dare not rest, dare not spend money, dare not get sick or even dare not be willful. The suffering of the post-80s generation is reflected in three points, which are also very real:

First, all the good times, the post-80s generation has not caught up. In the past, college students were assigned jobs, and after 80, they could only be self-reliant, and housing prices were also very high, which not only put a lot of pressure on life, but also a lot of economic pressure. No wonder it says:

The post-80s generation charged tuition fees when they went to school, and when they finally graduated, they were not allocated; If you don't distribute it, you can finally find a job and make money, and housing prices have risen again.

I can't keep up with one step, I can't keep up with every step, so there are only the hard-pressed post-80s left.

Second, the post-80s generation is very embarrassed. The youngest post-80s generation is also 30 years old, and it is very embarrassing at the age of 30-40, which means that you can no longer get by like people in their 20s, nor can you have the capital to "live quietly" like the post-70s and post-60s.

For the younger generation, the post-80s generation is a big tree, and they must work hard to grow in order to provide continuous supply for their children and grandchildren; For parents, they have to bear the responsibility of raising and caring for them.

Third, the future of the post-80s generation is worrying. In addition to conditions and age, there is also the issue of the future of the post-80s. In this era of extremely fierce competition, many fledgling young people in their early 20s are particularly good, not only able to endure hardships, but also to stay up late, while the post-80s generation has reached the point of calm in terms of physical fitness and inner emotions.

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In the past, many people fell in love, and when it came to the world, they would actually get married, and they might even talk to only one person in their lives. But now a lot of single men and women.

What is the main reason why they are reluctant to get married?

1. Very much pursuit of freedom.

Nowadays, many people are actually very freedom-seeking, they hope not to bind each other in their relationship, if they get married, it is like using a piece of paper to limit the personal freedom of two people. Because some people do want to be free to be themselves in love. Therefore, in the process of falling in love, they will be relatively bland, and they will also give each other a lot of space.

Some people don't get a good emotional feedback in the process of falling in love, that is to say, when they fall in love, they don't feel the love that the other party brings to them, which is why many single men and women are reluctant to get married, or even unwilling to fall in love.

Second, it is not a necessary thing.

And after single men and women have been single for a long time, they will actually find that falling in love or getting married is not a necessary thing for them. Naturally, they will not choose to get married again. Because we can live well by ourselves, and when we start to fall in love, we will even keep dating and meeting to find out, and then the expenses will increase, so some people are not willing to get married at all in order to avoid these expenses, because if we can't even take care of ourselves, how can we take care of others.

3. Find your own meaning.

With the development of society, in fact, the current price is also slowly **, the cost of marriage is getting higher and higher, and even after marriage, the child's education, the child's various expenses, is also a headache for parents. Some people, once they think about it, they are afraid to get married now. In the past, many people thought that if they wanted to get married and have children, then their life could be called fulfilling, but now more people want to find their own meaning.

The reason why I have always been single and unwilling to get married is mainly due to the following factors: first of all, in combination with my reality, I do not have the conditions for marriage, two people getting married together is not child's play is the need to have a certain material foundation of Jian Xiangling, and I have only graduated from college for more than two years now, and my career has not really stabilized, and now girls are more realistic, I hope that the boy who marries me can have a car and a house, and give himself a large bride price, And my family conditions are difficult to meet, and now the vast majority of girls have marriage requirements, so from this stage, it is the most realistic choice for me to remain single. On the other hand, the decision to marry two people together, in addition to the material foundation, also requires a certain emotional foundation, these emotional foundations are required for two people to be highly compatible in terms of three views, to be able to tolerate and understand each other, to find a person who is more suitable in all aspects, it is also more difficult, I am also very aware of this, so I did not find the one that really made me excited, did not find the one that made me really able to quietly recognize, I will not settle for myself before I feel that I am suitable for each other, after all, a marriage is related to my lifelong happiness, once I choose the wrong one, and then want to correct it, the cost and price paid are often too heavy.