Under what circumstances would you be willing to get married?

Getting married is a lifelong event. It's also a lifelong commitment. When you meet the right one, you are very comfortable, you want to, and you are willing to live with each other, and the other party just wants to get married in your heart.

It doesn't matter how much money you have, as long as you are self-motivated to do so. It doesn't matter whether they are beautiful or ugly, as long as they look at each other very pleasing to the eye and have a down-to-earth heart.

The premise of marriage is to meet the right person, and this person is a person worthy of lifelong trust. Marriage is a lifelong event, we must be cautious, you can get along for a while before getting married, understand each other more, once you enter the palace of marriage, then you must take due obligations and responsibilities. Marriage is different from love, after marriage will face life, children, parents and other problems, can not have a try-and-see attitude, hasty and flash marriage are unwise choices, when you meet a worthy person, then love seriously, love her for a lifetime. ‍‍

In the case of the right door, at the same time, it is necessary to be self-motivated and responsible.

Because my age is just on the verge of getting married, that is, the right age to get married. In my opinion, marriage is the biggest thing in the life of a man and a woman, because it will affect your happiness and quality of life for the rest of your life, so you should be cautious about getting married. There is a good saying, we should be with comfortable people for the rest of our lives, which also shows that choosing to get married is that we should feel happy, and the so-called happiness is nothing more than self-satisfaction.

If you find a suitable person, you can get married when you and I are willing. Marriage is not a game, you must understand the character of the other party to decide, character is very important, in the future marriage can be long-term depends on this. Many people get married in a daze by sweet words before marriage, only to find out that their personalities are incompatible after marriage....So under what circumstances will you get married?

When you meet the right person for yourself, get married, know more about it, and have more contact, only if you have a good character and are willing to work hard, you don't have a bad temper. It doesn't matter if you are poor, it is important to have a self-motivated heart; It's good if people are ugly, as long as the other party has a heart that loves you and tolerates you. ‍‍

The result is a lifelong event, where both parties are emotionally stable, attracted to each other, and give each other a sense of security and happiness, which comes naturally, rather than getting married for the sake of getting married.

If I were given another chance, I would choose to get married. Here's why:

First, marriage has allowed me to grow.

When I was alone, I lived a very casual life and did whatever I wanted. Doing nothing leads to nothing. At that time, I was eating fried rice and fast food outside every day, and after four or five years, my family asked me to shred the ginger and I couldn't even do it.

At the same time, it is also very unhygienic, whether it is where to live, what to wear or use, it is a mess, like a messy kennel. Every time I drank, I got drunk, and sometimes I was so drunk that I went to the hospital for an infusion and almost fell unconscious. But after getting married, whether it is life or work, you have made great progress, you have learned basic life skills, you have learned restraint, you have learned to control your emotions, you have matured in the eyes of others, and you have grown up in your own eyes.

So, marriage can make people grow.

Second, marriage gives people a sense of belonging.

When you are single, no matter where you go, you feel like you are drifting, like dandelions scattered in the air, with no direction and no destination. But after getting married, no matter how you go, you still have worries, and you want to go home. Some people say that marriage is a besieged city, people in the city want to get out, and people outside the city want to go in.

But a person who has really experienced marriage, even if you let him choose a hundred more times, he will choose to step into the marriage hall. Because marriage brings people a sense of belonging.

Third, marriage makes people painful and happy, and makes life complete.

There are all kinds of chicken bits and pieces in marriage, all kinds of chicken feathers, all kinds of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and all kinds of troubles. However, marriage also makes people happy. When the family sits together for a reunion dinner, when the crystallization of your love is born, when you celebrate the birthday of the elderly and children, when you lie down together and talk about your work troubles, etc., you are all happy.

Marriage makes your life more complete and gives you the joy of having three or even four generations in the same house. If there is no marriage, perhaps, life is incomplete.

Fourth, marriage brings you companionship.

We all say that old companionship means that marriage is family affection and companionship in the end. When we are young, we can be unscrupulous, we can feed the whole family by ourselves without going hungry, and we can do whatever we want. But when you're older, what you need is the company of another person.

We have friends and relatives, but marriage is the most stable companion, and no one can replace the other half.

Anyway, if I had to get given another chance, I would still choose to get married. Because marriage makes me grow, marriage brings me a sense of belonging, marriage makes me happy, and makes my simple life more complete.

When you meet the right person, you can get married, marriage is just a life experience, you will have regrets if you don't experience a fight, and you will get married when you meet a person who feels sorry for yourself and can warm yourself.

I have been married for a long time, and the reason for getting married at that time was very simple, that is, I liked each other, felt that I could rely on each other, and I could go through each other for the rest of my life. Now that I think about it, this is indeed the case, life is short, if you find the right person, then hurry up and accompany each other to old age, otherwise your life will be gone in a blink of an eye. I am the reason for this, and others estimate that it is similar, I summarized it, and it is nothing more than the following reasons.

One of the reasons: the need for love. For modern people, this should be the main reason.

Everyone will pursue love, and love is also one of everyone's needs, after getting love, then there must be a result, and marriage is the result of love. It is with the guarantee of marriage that love will be more long-term and stronger, with legal and moral constraints, so that people inside the wall can enjoy happiness with peace of mind, so that people outside the wall are not coveted, this may be the greatest meaning of marriage, it is a tangible protection of love, so with love, it is inevitable to choose marriage.

Reason 2: The need for responsibility. Love is beautiful, but some people still haven't found it for a while for various reasons, but the reality doesn't allow them to look for it anymore, so choosing to get married is more of a responsibility.

This situation is also very common, there may be no love between each other at the beginning, after meeting a few times, or when it feels similar, they will choose to get married, and regard marriage as a responsibility, and after marriage, due to a long time of running-in and being in the same boat, there may be love, but it is not the case when you start to choose to get married.

No matter what reason you choose to get married, you must be responsible for your marriage, this is not child's play, it is related to the fate and happiness of many people, you must be responsible, you must have a sense of responsibility, otherwise you will not feel happy, and you will be hurt by the people closest to you.

After graduating from graduate school, because I had already completed my studies and had time, I was looking for a stable job after getting married.

I don't think I will choose to get married because everyone around me is married, only if I find someone I like, only if I find someone who loves me and can give myself happiness in life, people will get married.

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Fourth, learn to be understanding others, which is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget what you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day earlier, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.