He betrayed me for money, paid so much for him, and he betrayed me

There are too many crossroads in life, and the intersection in front of you is also a crossroads, how to choose, I think, it depends on personal opinions, or try to stop it, it will be counterproductive, giving up is also a kind of getting, such a man is not worth it for you to save her, or plan about his future, maybe he will be happy in the future, maybe not, but it doesn't matter, the important thing is that he has made the choice to leave you, that proves that you have lost an important position in his heart, At this time, it's too late to redeem it, and I'm saying, you're not a rich woman, so you can't be a shrew, give up, start another paragraph, you will find that true love will appear, but you notice it!

understands your reluctance to give up this relationship, but he did betray you, can you still get along with him as before? There will be a crack between you, and besides, if he betrays you for the first time, can his heart control himself without the second time, he loves you more than money, do you still want to compromise and seek perfection?

How do you know that if you pull him to save him, a person like this is backing you for someone else's money, he is so self-motivated, a man has to rely on his own strength to make his woman happy. Do you think, if he stays with you this time, what will happen to the rich man in the future, and what do you say he will choose? You know the answer.

Whoever separates from whom is painful, long pain is better than short pain, and you will have a better person waiting for you when you leave him.

All the stories happened so suddenly, I have been with him for three years, a long and short day, when our relationship has gone through three years of stumbling, I happily think that we can be together forever, I love him, believe in him, I care about him more than I care about myself.

But all the good things that were once good came to an end after his merciless betrayal!

He himself is running a company, I work in a foreign company, the business has not been good for the past two years, the economy has been very tight for more than two years, I have paid everything for him, and even more importantly, I have carried hundreds of thousands of yuan of debt for him, so that he can still drive a mid-range car to run business.

Since the beginning of this year, he has been very depressed, and he has been in a bad mood when business is not doing well, and he either goes out for drinks every night, or stays in the company office.

Occasionally, I will also make a fuss, life is not going well and I am still carrying the pressure of debt, no one cares about going home, so the mood comes, but I know that he is very stressed and distressed him, so I consult the psychological line to seek relief and regulate his emotions, don't add pressure to him, after adjustment, then every night he comes back at two or three o'clock and I have my stewed soup for him to drink.

In June, he occasionally talked to me that he wanted to go out and live for a while, and he also adjusted himself to try to turn the company around, and finally I said understand you, if moving out will make you better, go there, and then I will happily describe the scene when he comes back every day in my heart.

This month, my mother is sick and has to pay for medical expenses, and there are also creditors who want to repay the loan, so in order not to affect him, I took everything down and found a way to solve it myself.

In July, he took his summer clothes and rented a house outside, and he didn't want to tell me which neighborhood he was in, so he didn't think much about it, so he asked him to pay attention to his body, so as not to affect him, he also played less. At the end of the month, he occasionally came back for dinner and stayed overnight.

One night in early August, some coincidences, a friend called me ** and said that he was looking for a high-pixel camera to shoot products with more than 10 million pixels, and then he told me that his company had one, and asked him why he had this camera, saying that it was a friend with potatoes, and it could be seen that he was lying, and before going to bed, I smiled and asked him if it was sent by the girl abroad (I had told me that a foreign Malaysian girl had sent him items, and I didn't think much about it at the time), and he admitted that the girl liked him, I was depressed and curious about why I didn't get along with you like you to send a camera for thousands of yuan, did you tease people, he said that the camera was returned to her, which made me determined to uncover the truth.

The next day on the weekend, it was drizzling, as if there was something bad to happen in the ridge tracks, after eating at noon as usual, he went to the company, and I went to unlock his email password as I thought about first, my hands were shaking when I clicked in, there were photos of the girl and some normal emails in the inbox, my heart was shaking when I entered the outbox, the theme showed foreign love, thinking about you every day, looking forward to the mood, etc., looking at the love letters inside my heart was broken.

No, it won't. There was a time when I really thought that money was important, and even felt that having money would solve any problem, even something illegal. But as I've gotten older, I find that idea really ridiculous.

Money can help us in many things, but it is certainly not everything. If my friend gave up on me because of money, I think it must be me looking at the wrong person.

People often say that "talking about money hurts feelings", and I think that's the same. Although we never cared about money when we were children, at that time, everyone would AA when we bought snacks, drank drinks, ate food, etc., or sometimes we were in a particularly good mood that day, and we would invite everyone to something good. Of course, it's all something a few cents a dollar, and everyone won't care very much.

At that time, we simply thought that it would be good for everyone to have fun together, how could we think so much. Until now, when I grow up, I often see some bridges around me: a family has a big fight between brothers and sisters because of a fight for property; didn't fight so-and-so because he wanted the family's money, and killed his parents by mistake, etc., in short, some unscrupulous things for money.

But to be honest, maybe I really hate to understand, for the sake of money, can it really be possible to do without the most basic morality and the most precious affection between people?

I will also hear some words around me, and I have not contacted each other since I didn't borrow money. I once had an experience: a high school roommate suddenly added me QQ one day, and I said, do you have a number?

Why did you change it? Then she said it was stolen and she came to me to borrow money from me. At first, I didn't think too much about it, so I asked how much it was, and she said a few thousand yuan, because foreign banks can't get money if they want to upgrade their systems today, but they are in a hurry to use Kuxiang.

I said I didn't have that much money to discuss with my brother. At that time, I thought it was very strange, I felt that she spoke differently than usual, and she really almost sent the money over. I asked her a question at the last minute, can you name our roommates?

But she kept hesitating to change the subject, and I knew something was wrong. In the end, I found out that she was a **, not herself. Fortunately, I still didn't send the money to the lead car.

It's not that I care about the thousands of dollars, but I think it's really scary that some people take advantage of the sincere feelings between people to cheat money. I won't give up on friends because of money, but please don't use it to deceive my feelings.

In a relationship, if you give everything for a man, after a long time, he will take your contribution as a matter of course, he will get used to it, and over time, when he gets used to your goodness, he may not have a sense of gratitude, and he will not think that what you do is good, no matter how good you do, he may not necessarily think that it is good. So at this time, he may betray you.

Because you put yourself in a too humble position, he will get used to your goodness and finally betray you. Don't be sad and cheer up.

Because he couldn't find the freshness he used to have after being together for a long time, he felt tired.

A smart woman won't quarrel with her man!

He just wants to have fun! I'll come back to you when I'm tired! This may be the psychology of most men who want to have fun!

Explanation equals cover-up, and cover-up equals fact.

If you feel like he's cheating on you, that's actually a good thing, and if he doesn't love you, he won't lie to you!

If you can't feel his love, it's better to leave.

Are you really sure he's having a leg with the woman out there? In fact, many men are explaining what they are doing to cover up what they do. You have to think about it.

If you can stand it, you will continue, and if you can't stand it, you will leave.

Let's pay attention to yourself! There should be no betrayal in this matter!