My boyfriend is home, what do you say about my boyfriend going back to his hometown today?

Updated on society 2024-04-09
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can try to change yourself, maybe he is starting to get a little tired of you clinging to him, in many men love is not everything

    You have to be brave.

    Be strong and vulnerable, although it will make him feel distressed

    But it's also starting to give him a headache

    Be vulnerable once in a while. Be spoiled.

    That's enough you can lie to him

    Said sick. If he doesn't come, he won't go to the hospital

    Provided, of course, that he doesn't have anything important at home

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's hard to love someone.

    I chose this path myself.

    You should insist on finishing it.

    The process is very hard.

    But in the end, when you see the beauty of love.

    You'll know you're paying for it.

    Since you love him.

    It should be cherished.

    Don't be so headstrong.

    Although willfulness is the preserve of women!

    Don't wait for loss to know the beauty!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A good man should cherish it.

    There are really not many good men in this world, and you can work hard for the sake of beauty in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is beautiful and happy, and there are times of pain, cherish the people around you, don't be willful!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I once fell in love with someone like you Later, I found that my heart hurts so much Sometimes it's a little bit uncomfortable, it's too tiring for people like you to be his wife, not a daughter in the future! It's time for you to mature!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If your boyfriend is back to his hometown today, you can send some blessings to make him feel your love and care. Here are a few simple examples:

    1.Wishing you a safe journey and enjoying your time with your family!

    2.I hope that this return to my hometown will make you full of harvest, see your relatives and friends who have been reunited for a long time, and reminisce about the beauty of childhood.

    3.The best friends who left you in your hometown are waiting for you to go back! Cherish this rare trip to home or a neighborhood.

    4.Nostalgia for the stories that were once familiar, and enjoy the people and sights that were once familiar. I wish you a journey home full of warmth and touch.

    5.I hope that when you return to your hometown, you will be able to get the respect and love of the people around you, be happy, and forget your troubles.

    In short, no matter what blessings you send, the most important thing is to make your boyfriend feel your sincerity and care, which can make him miss you more and cherish the relationship between you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The weather is starting to get hot these days, remember to drink more water, pay attention to sun protection, I have to take care of myself when I am not by your side, and call me ** when you miss me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When a friend comes home from work and sends you a message, say something caring to make your boyfriend feel warm.

    1. It's going to be okay, I'll always be by your side!

    2. You don't have that many viewers, don't be so tired.

    3. Work should never be just incidental.

    4. Where the light is strong, the shadow is also darker.

    5. To hell with your worries, be happy first.

    7. The most valuable character in life is to live naturally and destituously.

    8. There is no mountain of flames that you can't pass, my dear, you have to believe in yourself.

    9. Your parents are still working hard for you, and that's why you have to work hard.

    10. In fact, there is no desperate situation in life, and the desperate situation lies in your own heart not being opened.

    11. Don't go into sadness when you're not satisfied, think about the days when there is laughter.

    12. I support you no matter what you do, and I will accompany you wherever you are.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When your boyfriend comes home, you should spend more time with your boyfriend, care more about your boyfriend, and you should also care more about your own husband, both of you are women, you should also care more about your husband, don't let your boyfriend feel that you don't care about him, in this case, your boyfriend will be very disappointed in this relationship, so you should care more about your husband, spend more time with your husband, and care more about your husband, so that your husband will love you more and be more inseparable from you, Your life will be happier.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Mom and Dad are going to ask you to bring your boyfriend home, and you say it's not the right time, you can see from this question that you are a calm and principled person!

    The relationship between two people, whether it is good or not, whether it is suitable or not, only the two people concerned know best, and they can't see their hometown, most of the time, it is decided by two people, not by their parents.

    In the past, we always said that feelings are the life of parents and the words of matchmakers, but the times are different, and feelings must be decided by themselves and grasp their own happiness!

    I think you did the right thing, when the relationship between the two people is more stable, and you trust him more, and he also makes you moved, down-to-earth and reliable, it's not too late to say goodbye to your parents!

    However, the conditions you mentioned about your boyfriend may not be the conditions that your parents agree with, and it is necessary to listen to your parents' opinions to see what your parents will say, whether they are right, and whether it is necessary to refer to or listen to their opinions.

    Because parents are past people after all, and sometimes, they will see things more comprehensively, transparently, and profoundly than we do, so it is necessary to listen to it, and there is nothing wrong with it.

    In addition, when you fall into a relationship, you will often lose sight of Mount Tai, and it is easy to become blind, only seeing the good of the other party, but not the shortcomings and disadvantages of the other party, which is also very dangerous!

    Therefore, it is recommended that before your boyfriend officially meets his parents, tell his parents about his boyfriend's situation, let them know in advance, they also have a preparation, in addition, listen to the analysis of their parents, and then think more about themselves, marrying is a lifelong thing, and the other party can temporarily have worse conditions, but this person can not be bad at all in terms of being a person, doing things, and working to earn money, especially in terms of being good to you, it is better not to adulterate at all!

    So when I went home on Friday, I honestly told my parents, I think as long as he is reliable, his parents will not be overly opposed, and the ultimate goal of parents is to hope that their children can be happy, so you should have more understanding of what your parents say!

    I wish a lover a family member!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since the two of them have already lived together. I think you've figured it out. You should take it back and show it to your parents.

    I think you should be boyfriend and girlfriend, and since you're already living together, what's not to show your parents? As a girl and a boy living together, I think you'll be able to figure it out. So what it should be is what it is, you can't hide it, since you chose this boy as your boyfriend and live with him, you should let your parents know.

    Otherwise they will be more worried.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    According to your description, your boyfriend rented a house in order to come to your city, and you often lived with him, and your mother found out, and your parents asked you to take it back to see, but you feel that you have only been talking to him for half a year, and it feels that it is not the time to meet your parents, and his conditions may not be the conditions that your parents agree with, so you are a little hesitant. I think this is something that should be considered:

    First, you are now living in your boyfriend's house, which is a big deal for your parents. You may even think that you are already living together before marriage. So they want to meet your boyfriend, and for good reason.

    In fact, meeting your parents does not mean that you must let your parents agree to your marriage at the moment, but it is just an understanding, and I think it is not impossible to meet each other.

    Second, what do you think of your boyfriend and how your relationship is developing? If you don't think he's a good fit, it's better to get out as soon as possible.

    Third, if you really don't think it's suitable to meet, then don't meet for the time being, first look at the boy's ** with your parents, talk about your boyfriend's situation in all aspects, listen to their suggestions and ideas, if they think it's okay, your boyfriend will not refuse to go to your house, and it's not too late to bring it at that time.

    Fourth, if you decide that this person is the person you have entrusted to your life, I believe that your parents will eventually respect your opinion, and as for the current income or family situation, it is not the core issue. But now the point is that you're not sure if he's someone you can trust for life, and then you're living together, which makes it easier for the unknown to happen.

    Therefore, even if you don't meet, it is necessary to communicate with your parents first, listen to your parents' advice, jump out of the feeling of love, calm down and think, what kind of spouse do you want? Marriage is a lifelong event, and the other party can temporarily have poor economic conditions, but this person's character, values, conduct and development prospects must meet your conditions.

    Good luck and satisfaction.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, your parents already know that you live together, so you must want to know about him first. Your own children will be more distressed, especially girls, because emotionally, especially when they live together, girls are more disadvantaged. You have been dating for half a year, do you confirm that you will not be as good as marrying him in the future, and if so, then please try to say good about him in front of your parents.

    Even if your parents agree to hand it over, you can't tell your parents if you quarrel.

    You have to judge whether he is a potential stock and whether his future can be as good as he planned with you. I came from here, my husband didn't own a house, and my family didn't agree at first, but my parents were honest people, and after meeting him, they still agreed to us.

    Our current state is that we have been renting a house since we got married, and we have no financial ability to buy a house, and his job change has caused us to live separately although we are in the same city, and we meet for two days in half a month, because the rest is different, and we only meet at night. Is this the kind of life you want in the future, and have you ever considered that you may be reluctant to buy a slightly more expensive cosmetics or new clothes that you like in the future?

    Also, in the future, if you can get married, will you go back to his city with him, or will he live in your city with you, what will you do during the New Year, go to your mother's house or go to your mother-in-law's house. If you are in your city, then your parents will definitely give more to you, and your in-laws may not be able to take care of anything.

    Think clearly, take him to meet his parents first, listen to his parents' opinions and suggestions first, if you really can't be together, it's only half a year after all, and it won't be so painful to leave. Don't think how much he loves you when he came to your city for you, he weighed the pros and cons to come.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since you have lived together, you should have the idea of getting married, and so should you see your parents.

    If it's just often, you really shouldn't go to see your parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you need to find out whether you think that his condition is not acceptable to his parents, or whether his parents are really interfering with your feelings about the "condition" (such as this has happened before). Because most parents hope that their girls can find a boy with good conditions, good character, etc., the original intention is to hope that their children will live well and be happy.

    Secondly, if you are only in the relationship stage at present, and you think that meeting your parents is a very serious issue, and you don't want to involve marriage too early because of your parents' interference, then you should be honest with your parents about your true thoughts: you feel that the current relationship is not stable enough, and the love period is all freshness and happiness. You'll still need time to get used to it, and when you think you've identified him, you'll take him home.

    Finally, tentatively ask your boyfriend what he thinks about your parents wanting to see him. Love is a matter of two people, and the most important thing to ask about emotional matters should be the object, in fact, it is not us outsiders.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Boyfriend rented a house in your city for you. You'll often go and stay at your boyfriend's house. But you don't want to show your parents with your boyfriend. Because of you, we've only been talking for half a year.

    Girl, do you know what it means to parents for a girl to live in her boyfriend's house? In the eyes of your parents, you are determined to marry him. You may even think that you are already living together before marriage.

    And you don't want him to meet your parents.

    Of course, you're an adult, and you're in charge of your marriage. But shouldn't you let your parents know whose house you're spending the night in? Can you put your parents at ease.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your parents asked you to bring your boyfriend home to see, probably because your parents think that you have been in love for a long time, but you haven't brought your boyfriend back, so they proposed to let you bring your boyfriend home, your parents should think that you are not too young, they want to see what your boyfriend is like, and they also want to give you a check, so they want to take a look, I think you can let your parents take a look, which is also a good thing.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Now that you're living with him, you have to take her to meet his parents. You believe that your parents will understand you very well and convince them that you love him very much, and I think they will be reasonable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you think it's not time to bring your boyfriend to meet your parents, then wait a little longer, explain it clearly to your parents, and explain it clearly to your boyfriend, so that when the relationship is stable and there is a time to talk about marriage, it is not too late to bring it back.

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