Everyone s a review of my father! Preferably a psychologist!

Big brother, I have a mother who loves me very much, but, from my 12 years of memory, there is no such person as a father, so I don't know too much, but my mother said that it was because my grandfather was patriarchal that he divorced his father. I envy you, at least, this is also a special kind of care for your father, parents want their son to become a dragon, and their children can understand, your father is just a little extreme, but he still cares about you.

I've met, my dad, on my 13th birthday, and I was so happy that he saw me just "Hmmm! "A voice, perhaps, in his heart, has long forgotten, and my daughter, feels strange. Even if it's like a big brother's father, complaining, blaming, hating and hating my brother, he doesn't talk to me at all.

There are no words. Big brother, you are something to envy. Big brother, please remember that your father is a manifestation of having you in his heart, and he won't talk to you without you in his heart. Also, remember, at least there are people who envy you, think about those people, and perhaps, you won't think your dad is too much.

I'm not a psychologist, I'm only 14 years old, but I have feelings and satisfaction that psychologists don't have.

People, those who are content, are always happy. I don't have a father, but I have a mother and grandmother who love me very much, and I have very good friends, and I am very happy, I am very happy and lucky compared to the more unfortunate people.

Big brother, try it with a different mentality, okay?

Let's be happy soon

It doesn't matter what your dad is, I'm afraid you can't bear it now. As long as you can withstand his interference, it's not a problem. People will be very stubborn when they get old, and it will be difficult for him to change. I hope you can change yourself and adapt to the bad environment.

You're normal, I'm 27 and my brother is 26. The two of us sometimes watch the Hokage together. Arcade games are also played sometimes. It's that your dad doesn't have the courage and demeanor of a man, and he likes trivial things too much.

Many conservative families are like this, the older generation thinks that filial piety comes from under the stick, so they educate children by beating and criticizing, rather than praising them.

Now that you are disgusted with the way he speaks, you can try to think about what your father has done for you all these years, what you are happiest about staying with him, and you can ask your mother or other relatives what your father thinks of you in front of others.

Misuzu Psychological Counseling.

Hehe, why are you so similar to my home, I remember when I was a child, my father often said that other people's children were better than me, I listened to it for several years, it was annoying, and sometimes I hated him. Later, I went to study somewhere else, my father was very good to me, from the heart, he rarely picked me up**, just gave me living expenses regularly, and then my father was gone, but my grandfather said that my father was killed by me. I knew that if I hadn't gone to school, maybe my dad wouldn't have died of exhaustion---

Every family has a difficult scripture, I believe that your father loves you, and you don't need to say it verbally, although you are a little stricter, but you are still very happy. Don't care about the elders. Live your life well. I wish you a happy day.

Your father is not right to say this, he doesn't take into account your feelings, he wants to talk about it, and he hopes that you don't have psychological pressure, or, try his best to deal with it, he may be very sad, but he should not transfer the pressure to you, I hope you come out.

Jackie Chan's heart is too cut! The education method is inappropriate, the psychological pain can not be said, it is recommended that the father and son strengthen communication, do not exclude each other, by the way, the landlord also looks at the psychiatrist, you see the problem is not comprehensive enough, too extreme!

Don't always think that only women have menopause, in fact, men do, but sometimes it's not obvious.

Your dad may have formed this suspicion and paranoia because of years of **. Then you can find a way to investigate and clarify the previous incident to him, for example, the female colleague invited her to your house, and then said why she sent this text message to your mother's house at that time, or asked a few more colleagues to come to your house together. Of course, the mobile phone number must be truly expressed.

Family harmony also requires everyone to work together. Let your mom often show your dad what's going on in the company, and then explain them one by one with a smile. He doesn't have to guess alone.

Your dad is facing a "breakthrough period in life", numerology, there will be several turning points in his life, that is, the "breakthrough period", everyone is the same, write a note and stick it where he sees it, write:

Dad, you've changed! I want you to think about your recent behavior, is this what you want? Dad, everyone has their own life to live, life is not simple, do you still make it so complicated?

Think about the people around you who care about you, is this the way you give back to us? Dad, it's time for you to let go, and the past should be passed! Letting go is to have the strength to walk the next road.

People sometimes have to reflect! Drilling the horns of the bull will not improve the problem, let him reflect well, you can take your mother away for a few days, let him know that you will come back, but in your absence, ask him to think quietly about what he is doing?

Hello this friend. Just let your dad do what he has to do...

You should often go home to accompany your father, a person is often at home, it is inevitable to think cranky, you think about why you go home and he doesn't make trouble, he tells others that he wants to inform you through the mouth of others, tell you about his existence, just want to ask for more of your love. You really don't feel like home, everyone is in a different place, and you go home once every ten days.

I won't say anything else, you should work hard yourself or continue to work hard, the key points are two:

1. Let your mother and your father talk calmly and openly, and let your father talk all his doubts!

2. And the most important thing, don't let your dad always stay at home, it doesn't matter if you make money or not, the important thing is the happiness of the family and your father's health, so whether it's pressure or persuasion, help your dad find a job again, let your dad get out of the house, have his own things and work to do, and have his own career to struggle, so that he won't always stay at home and suspect for no reason, because he has a lot of time left, He had nothing else to do, and as soon as he sat down, he began to think about those things, and as long as he thought about it for a long time, something would happen, and over time, a vicious circle. Therefore, if it takes up his time to think about things, he will gradually have less time to suspect, and he will forget it with time in the future.

1.People usually due to"Self-esteem"misleading, and abandon communication (frank communication, active communication, full communication).

2.As a child, he is already a descendant of an adult. We should take the initiative to create opportunities for parents to communicate (being old does not mean that the mind is mature, it does not mean that we think comprehensively, we do not mean that we can let go of our children, and we do not mean that we can be calm in trouble).

3.Create an opportunity for everyone to sit down, find a host who can hold down the scene, and gather friends and relatives together. Explain the facts, show the heart. After that, you have to communicate with both parties many times, and you have to let both parties speak, even if they have something to say.

Emotional damage is the deadliest and the most difficult to remedy. I hope you will have enough patience and determination to deal with it and maintain peace in your family. As the old saying goes, everything is prosperous at home.

The old man is confused, and he has drilled the tip of the horns. You still have to solve the matter with your mother, you can't solve it, you're busy in vain. Your mom has lost patience with your dad.

Take them on a talk show, or talk more about how they met before, how they met for the first time, etc., etc., etc., which will make them cherish each other more.

There is usually drug dependence and damage to liver function.

1. Too much pressure is the root cause. 2. The problem of picking up stones requires cognitive reconstruction.

The family should start by reducing his stress to alleviate his problems. (Of course, a few price limits will also reduce the pressure on him).

** is a pattern of one win, two draws and seven losses, also known as a game designed for human weaknesses. The probability of making money is low.

The matter of panning for gold in the mine, pulling dozens of tons of ore, does not necessarily find a carat of diamonds, and the probability is even lower. It is possible to calculate an account, and it is not as profitable as a worker who pulls ore, and it is not as good as a worker who pulls ore.

In addition: children should also work their own, succeed in their studies and careers, share the burden of the family, and parents will also reduce pressure.

Has this paranoid personality trait always been this way, or has it been the case recently?

Does an individual or family member have a history of mental illness?

Is it because of the difficulty of picking up rocks that your normal life and work are affected?

How does he evaluate his recent behavior?

1. If your father doesn't affect his work, study or life, let him pick up stones, and treat it as a kind of love.

2. This kind of behavior is serious and belongs to paranoid mental disorder, and your father is relatively mild, and the problem is not big.

3. You can give your father something to do or entertainment that he is interested in to divert his attention, and he will not be so stubborn.

4. His condition is generally normal.

Since the doctor has been diagnosed with delusional spermatozoa, let's treat it first. It is best to be hospitalized**, at least to take the medicine regularly and quantitatively, and never stop the drug, and the fine score ** is based on the annual cycle. Don't stop taking the medication as if he is getting better, that will make the symptoms more stubborn.

Since there is no physical disease, it seems from your account that there is nothing wrong with your father picking up stones.

You can be your father with a more exotic hobby.

I just want to ask him if picking up rocks has bothered you and your family since everything is normal? If not, don't interfere with him, it's better to let him focus on something. Don't force his world to break.

My dad is a very cynical person, in fact, he is an inferior and selfish person, he has no place to vent, only through the family, your dad is nothing, but your mother, I don't talk nonsense, I just want to know what you think, do you want to have such a home, do you still want to maintain this kind of family, if so, you are also a very selfish person.

Judging from the above, you are too Otherwise, you wouldn't be until now You have to go to graduate school to say how much your father's salary is about 1800 Is there so much for you The problem is still your mother She is really great She can endure your father for so many years What I said must be a little ugly.

But it's true.

It's time for you to give up your childish ideas.

Liberate your mother.

I don't think I recognize such a father and let the family suffer.

In such a sick family, it is difficult for your mother to face life after divorce, and your father may beg you in the middle of this, hoping that you will be ruthless for your mother.

A slap doesn't make a sound!

First of all, give your dad a big-eared melon seed! Not convinced, in giving one! It's for your mother to beat, not for you to fight!

Then, find a man to pursue your mom, make your dad feel in crisis, and make mom accept your dad at the right time!

After so many years, if you don't vent, your mother will get sick, and your father is a stupid pig, an antique, the kind who doesn't shed tears when he doesn't see the coffin, he is too self-righteous and thinks that the earth revolves around him!

In this way, you should beat a stick to give a sweet date in order to clean it up, to put it mildly, it is servile!

If you don't clean him up, he will be more energetic, and if he doesn't know whether it's good or bad, he knows that he is messing around, which is more unreasonable than a woman!

Let's fight, just wake up!

First of all, the landlord is a good boy! I think I can say this from the perspective of a consultant. Hehe, not because of age.

The landlord can write such a post, which shows that you are taking on the family as a person, easing family conflicts, and showing the power and influence of children on the family.

At the same time, your father's problem, through the landlord's account, already has some obvious signs. But these signs, I am not convenient to tell you for the time being. Because real psychological counseling is not to analyze your problems for you and then tell you, but to help you realize that the problem is in the first place, not only to know, but to experience and recognize.

These are things that can only be done after you have established a trusting relationship with your counselor. So, for your father's situation, the advice I can give you for the time being is: First, he has his own personality flaws and a lack of ways to deal with things.

Second, he himself lacks a sense of security, family identity, and accomplishment. These are the reasons why he did the way he did. Therefore, when these essential problems of the father are gradually resolved, it will be possible to talk about the harmony of your family.

In addition, the two most difficult points in this case are, first, that your father is too old. Many clients over the age of 40 are very difficult to change. The second is that he himself must have a desire to seek healing. If he resists counseling, he can't.

So, what we can do is that the landlord and the landlord first go through psychological counseling to understand the real reason for the matter, and see what you can do first to deal with your father; Secondly, what can you do to influence him, to bring him in, to gradually influence him. Therefore, in the end, it is recommended that the landlord go to life to find a suitable psychological counselor (not a doctor who prescribes medicine in the hospital) and do face-to-face counseling. It can be you and your mother who do it first.

This would be a more objective option.