Who did the Empress Dowager Xiaozhuang love in her life?

It had to be Dorgon.

If it weren't for the love of Dolgon, then Hyozhuang would not have chosen to ask Dolgon for help when Huang Taiji died. Xiaozhuang ostensibly wants to find a helper for Fulin, but it is also to rely on himself.

Xiaozhuang has always loved Dolgon, but they couldn't finally become a family because of Huang Taiji's horizontal insertion.

Because he loved him, he chose to be the first to ask Dolgon for help when he encountered difficulties. Because she knows that Dorgon loves her too, she will succeed in the end.

Hyo-zhuang's marriage to Dolgon also illustrates this problem, Hyo-jo is a mother, but also a woman. Could it be that a woman doesn't love the man she wants to marry?

She thinks about politics, but she also has her own personal feelings. She chose this decision that was good for all of them, weighing the pros and cons.

The fact that Xiaozhuang was not buried with Huang Taiji after his death also illustrates this fact, and Xiaozhuang's reason is not to disturb Huang Taiji's stability. But only she knows that she is unwilling to be in a tomb with Huang Taiji.

She chose a tomb that was closer to Dolgon, though she could not be buried with Dorgon. But she did love Dorgon in her heart.

His own son and grandson, for Huang Taiji and Dolgon, are all political needs to be together, how many feelings do you say, a rational woman like Xiaozhuang, the proportion of emotions should not be large.

Of course, it was her son, Emperor Shunzhi. There is no comparison between love and motherly love.

The most loved thing in my life is myself, my children, and my grandchildren! As one, it is also worthy of the Qing Dynasty!

I can't say who she loves. If Xiaozhuang really married Dorgon, how could there be no record of such a big event. I estimate that many people are influenced by the secret history of Xiaozhuang, and they have already decided in their hearts that it is the official history.

The first love of the Empress Dowager Xiaozhuang is her son, the second is the status of her son, and the third is Dorgon.

I feel that feelings are not the most important thing for her, a very rational woman, when I was a child, I felt that she loved Dolgon the most, and now I feel that she loves Daqing the most.

I also think that she only loves her son and grandson and Daqing.

but owes more to Dorgon.