Why can t the person you love be touched when you give everything?

This kind of thing can be said to have been experienced by myself, and I gave everything before, but I still couldn't move her.

It was all when I was young.,At that time, I was still relatively ignorant.,I didn't understand much about this kind of thing.,I pursued the girl I liked according to my own wishes.,As a result, I was bruised all over my body.,I didn't get a little response for some of my efforts.,I didn't be able to move the other party.。

If you can move the other party, then basically this thing will be done, but the difficulty is that no matter how you do it, you can't be moved.

Now that I'm older, I've seen a little more about this kind of thing, and I've understood a little bit, and I've summarized the reasons why I can't move the other party.

The first point is that you didn't do well enough to move her.

The second point is that what you give is not what she wants, for example, she only wants an apple, and you end up giving a pear.

The third point, to put it bluntly, other girls just don't like you, but they don't have the slightest interest in you.

One simple reason is that that person doesn't love me at all.

My character is to love someone, you have to work hard to love, and use all your strength. But the love of a moth to a fire is actually not good.

If a guy likes a girl, he will try to chase it. But if he doesn't like it, then it won't help if the girl likes the boy anymore.

Loving him, he wants to know everything he has. I want to create a chance opportunity with him, and I have thought of a lot of ways to do this. But it didn't work out well.

I didn't know that I could do everything I could to find a boy's itinerary, but it didn't work.

Why is it that in the silence of Sheng Xiao, the female protagonist's pursuit of the male protagonist is actually not so difficult to chase, and I am also as enthusiastic as her. But apparently I didn't have her good luck.

Maybe I can only say that it is the most beautiful love, but all I encountered was bad fate. I burned my enthusiasm in this way, but in the end, I still refused.

Sad? Actually, there must be, but sometimes giving up is also the best way.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, it's wrong to pay without a bottom line for being emotional", I just agree. Liking someone is our right, no one can force everyone to love someone, and we can't expect anyone to treat us well. There is nothing wrong with liking, and all sincere feelings deserve to be valued.

Unconditional love is great, for example, a mother's love. Qi Feng.

But in order to be able to feel that there is no bottom line, giving is not the same as unconditional love, there is no bottom line, that is not real love. Regardless of the definition of "bottom line", everyone has a different correct understanding and norms for this matter. There is no bottom line to pay, it is a situation of imbalance, long-term failure, and it is very easy to be extreme.

Conclusion, not only hurt the people you love, but also hurt yourself. A healthy and happy relationship is not maintained based on bottomless giving and enduring. Even if you love deeply, you must not lose your independent character and self-esteem.

Before you can truly love someone, you need to love yourself well.

Only with self-worth can we really have self-worth. And the person you really love the most must not want your love to be so lowly and aggrieved. Love must be maintained with each other's diligence and operation, happiness, understanding, tolerance, attention, application, mutual nourishment, and mutual development.

It is difficult to move forward in the long term by relying only on one party and having no bottom line. Liking someone should be a happy thing, if one party has been giving without a bottom line because the other party, or even violating their own standards, then such a person is not worthy of your love. We can change some for the people we love, but we can't completely indulge ourselves.

When your efforts have not been reciprocated, you can even consider whether you can give up this relationship.

There's really nothing wrong with liking someone, but if you can't extricate yourself and keep touching your own social and moral bottom line, I firmly believe that this relationship has already changed qualitatively, and it is no longer so naïve. In fact, sometimes if you like someone, it will give you the driving force to go up, but the rise of the ant boy will create an excellent self, don't lose your original intention, lose your way. There is nothing wrong with liking someone, what is wrong is to be able to pay without a bottom line in order to be emotional, and in order to be able to be a person who is not worthy of love, it is too stupid to lose oneself in the end, so it is too stupid and too big because of small things.

We don't often say that we must love ourselves first before we can love others stronger, and a person who doesn't even love himself can cherish others.

The reason why the main tomb is important is that although these people have given everything in public in their feelings, the other party is not moved, because the other party does not love these people at all, and they don't care about these serious things, and they don't care about the other party's contribution for themselves.

The other party doesn't love her at all, and she is very self-righteous, very narcissistic, very fond of self-deception, and very fond of satisfying herself with fantasies.

Because you didn't meet the right person, the other party didn't love you at all, you gave too much, and the other party also felt that it should be.

At any time, you must learn to pay rationally, if you blindly choose to give everything for your beloved, then most of them end up as good people, and in the end, you will be hurt all over your body, so you must learn to pay rationally, and when you must reach a consensus with each other, then it is okay to choose your beloved to give some of everything at this time. Therefore, the relationship must have a solid foundation to maintain, in any case, unilateral pay, it is difficult to get due returns, so you can try to think from the following aspects. <>

In fact, for love, it is not equal in itself, and it is precisely because of this that blindly giving everything will definitely make it difficult for you to recover, so you must learn to restrain yourself. For the asymmetry of feelings, whether to choose to sacrifice regardless of the cost is also to consider your actual situation, and you must learn to manage love rationally at all times. <>

In fact, we will find that the relationship itself is slowly improving, and it is precisely because of this that after having a stable relationship foundation, you will slowly get used to paying for each other regardless of the cost. So it is obvious that with a stable emotional foundation, then being willing to give everything for the beloved will also become something that you are willing to do. <>

In fact, they are all first-time people, so there is naturally no need to judge the behavior of others with their own principles. It is precisely because of this that there are many people who are willing to give everything for their beloved in a one-sided relationship, and for the relationship itself, there is no right or wrong, so you should stick to your choice.

In fact, for feelings, unilateral emotional choices blindly will naturally hurt you, and in the end, you will be evaluated as a good person. Therefore, being willing to pay for the beloved is based on mutual reciprocity, and unilateral love is destined to be a tragedy. However, everyone's principles and beliefs are different, so if you are willing to pay regardless of the cost, then you should also be respected and understood.

I will give everything, I feel that this is the person I love the most, so no matter what he does, I will support him, as long as he needs me, I will give a lot.

Personally, I will give everything for the person I like, even if it is broken, the feelings should be vigorous, do not shake their determination for other people's statements, have not really loved someone, there will be no such feeling, not to mention that there is no return for paying.

Of course I used to, and most people would.

I used to like a person anyway, so I took out everything I had to be good for her.

But it's really too vulnerable, because if you treat the other person for a long time, it may make him feel indifferent.

Now it won't be like this, I will see if the two sides pay equally, thinking that only one person is unbalanced in paying, and if he also loves me, he will be as good to the other person as I am.

Maybe it's because I've experienced too much of my sequelae.

If you blindly choose to give everything for your beloved, then most of them end up as good people, and you will eventually hurt yourself, so you must learn to give rationally, and when you must reach a consensus with each other, then it is okay to choose to give everything to your beloved at this time. Therefore, the relationship must have a solid foundation to maintain, in any case, it is difficult to get the due return for one-sided efforts.

Will you give everything for your beloved. Absolutely. Since it is the beloved, then everything I have is his. He can take whatever he wants. This is also a manifestation of true love for someone.

I will pay for him, everything within my ability is what he is worth paying for me, although I love him, but what he is like as a person, I still have to have a number in my heart. I still have someone else I love, people in my family, and I don't want my family to pay for my love, so I can only say that I can bear what I can bear for him, not that I need my family to bear it for him.

If I really need to pay, I will think about it, there will be hesitation, but if it happens suddenly, I think maybe instinct will not hesitate to protect her, even if I give everything, I will not regret it!

I will pay but I will have reservations and leave some room for myself, because everyone lives this life for themselves, and there is no need to give everything to please others or for the people they love, so if your beloved hurts you, you really have nothing, so no matter how much you love someone, you must leave a way back for yourself.

I will not give everything for the sake of my beloved, because I have to keep my own bottom line, and the giving must be proportional to the return, otherwise it is meaningless to give, and love is the same.

I think the premise is to see if the other party also loves me, if the other party doesn't love me, then no matter how much I give, everything is equal to zero. If the other person really loves me, then I think all the effort is worth it!

I really like someone from the bottom of my heart. I will give everything for him. No matter how hard you work and how tired you are. I was willing, and I felt that the effort was worth it, because I loved him.

If you blindly choose to give everything for your beloved, then in the end it will end up as a good person, and in the end you will let yourself be bruised, so you must learn to be rational, your contribution and so on have reached a certain consensus with each other, at this time in the choice to pay for the beloved, everything is okay.

I think it, if the other party is a person worthy of entrusting his life, he is still willing to pay, after all, both parties have to go to the end together, rather than relying on a person to support in front, it is necessary to understand each other, understand each other, if you pay wholeheartedly, the other party is also willing to be your most solid backing.

I won't, but now I think about this question the other way around, I love my former girlfriend very much, but she just doesn't love me, why do I still miss her so much? I'm still worried about this, I still want to chase her down!

I will give everything for my beloved, it is worth it to pay in return, if you pay if you are disgusting, then you don't have to waste energy to do superfluous things, don't do things too absolutely, you think the other party may not empathize, express love moderately, can make both parties comfortable.

If you really like someone, you are willing to give everything for her. Because if you really like it, you will treat each other as yourself, and you will do everything for yourself. However, the specific situation should also be analyzed specifically, and it is still necessary to analyze rationally when doing things.

I will, because I love the other person too much, I am afraid that the other person will be hurt little by little, I am afraid that I myself will not be good enough for him, so I will make him feel that I do not love him enough and leave me. So I'm going to do my best and even give everything I have to be good for him.

I will not give everything for the sake of my beloved, because I think it is important for a person to have many other people in society besides love, such as relatives and friends.

If I truly love this person, I am willing to give everything for him, and he is really worth it, because I am deeply infatuated with him, and the love between us is priceless, so whatever I give, I feel is especially worth it.

I will give a lot, but I will not give him everything in my heart, because if I give everything, then my own emotional world will be very empty, and once I break up with him, then my whole person will be hollowed out.

If the other party will give everything for me, then I will definitely give my sincerity without reservation, because he is my beloved, so I have to make sure that he is worth my pay, if it is worth it, I will definitely have no reservations.