What should I do if I feel that the other party is not as good to me as before?

I have experienced this process, and more than a year has passed, and looking back, I feel very regretful. I sincerely advise everyone to try to divert their attention and find something else to pay attention to, she is just a part of life, not all. Don't let go!

Don't let it go easily! Don't let it go easily! Important words to say three times, trust, stable feelings are all out of the long river of time!

Believe in yourself, believe in each other, and believe in this feeling! Don't feel that the other party really doesn't love you anymore, and don't make trouble unreasonably.

The love that has just started is always sweet, but slowly getting to know each other more, the fresh feeling is gone, and it begins to be cold, if it is true love, then be considerate and tolerant, if it is not sincere, let it go, since you don't want to be with him, then separate.

This depends on the period when you are in a relationship, because roughly there are four stages of emotion, disillusionment, introspection, and revelation, and most of the times when you feel that the other party's behavior is not tolerable are in the disillusionment period, because you have broken a good impression of the other party, so the psychological negative pressure is given to yourself, and at this time, you actually have to jump out of the relationship and re-examine the person in front of you. If you don't have too many emotional experiences, you will feel that you can be happy when you are separated from the other person, but if you have had some emotional experiences, you will still understand part of the reason for the current situation.

As an angler, they want the fish to bite the hook quickly, but they don't know what bait the fish like to eat, so they will take out the loach worms that the fish usually love to eat and make the bait into bait, and place enough on the hook to wait for the fish to take the bait. When you catch a fish, put it in the fish tank and raise it, just feed the fish feed on it, are you still afraid that you will run away, who still bothers to buy live insects to feed, people who have raised fish know that people who use live insects to raise fish are true love fish, because live insects are expensive and difficult to store, the fishy smell is relatively large, and the frequency of water change in the fish tank is high, in a word, live insects are troublesome to raise. The same is true for the pursuit of lovers, and it is naturally not so attentive to chasing it, it can't be said that this is the case, but the probability of the event is like this.

Empathy, you may not be able to do better than the other party.

This is because the other party's behavior leads to very little care for you, you feel that he does not love you as much as before, and is dissatisfied, but this time is actually the time when he needs you the most, if you can care about him, he will be grateful to you after adjustment, and will love you more, love is not just to get, but also to give.

Every relationship can't be "just as it first seems". Don't go for permanent freshness. I can imagine what it was like when you were in love.

But every couple of lovers will experience a wonderful after-peace. It's nothing at all. You also have to learn to be mature.

It's not a relationship issue, and you don't have to worry about it.

Emotional things are divided and combined, loving and being loved, both sweet and sad, love and hate, love to heartbreak. A person with deep affection, if he finds that one party does not love much, then he is crazy in his heart, disappointed, and has a particularly strong sense of loss, and some people will give up on themselves and give themselves up to the extreme, and their lives will enter a downturn from then on. Others, on the other hand, will reflect on their own mistakes during the relationship, show their new love to each other, and show a positive attitude, such as correcting wrong practices, being positive, learning new skills, and working hard to develop their careers, so that the other party can see a new person, give each other a new degree of adhesion, a new vision, and a new direction.

The other party has changed their opinion of you, so it is only a matter of time before the sweetness of love returns.

Another situation is that the other party has a new choice, or has a better person than you, and is in the emotional dissociation period, also known as the hesitation period.

At this time, TA's feelings for you will quickly cool down, show love and ignorance, answer non-questions, no longer care, no longer enthusiastic, everything you will seem redundant, if you still love TA very much, can't afford to let go, in addition to correcting their own problems, developing a new life, you should also show more care, more love, anxious about what the other party is anxious about, show your unique side.

After doing what you can do, if you are still indifferent, then your love may be temporarily stranded, let people go, your love is to give them happiness, and if they find happiness in another place, isn't it also a good ending? People are emotional animals, but after all, they have come to this point, and there must have been communication between you, if you don't like it, you don't like it, or you don't have the point he likes, or you may like the new and hate the old, anyway, he gave up. You still like him to show that you love more, you are the giver, if you are really reluctant to serve socks, you can try again, but don't grieve your heart, don't let yourself be in a humble position, such girls often end up very old and miserable, because it is too easy to get but will not cherish, for yourself and for your parents, don't be too wronged yourself.

Let it go, he's not your sweetheart.

Before falling in love, the other party will do everything he can, and then Hanhuai will talk about friends and make you fall in love with him, and when the two of them really fall in love together, he will not put all his energy on you, so you will feel that you don't love you so much, but he will still like you very much. It's just that the way of expression will not be like before, and the two people will get along slowly, and it will be good to get used to it.

Because it's not as sweet as it used to be, you're in a quiet period now, so you can consider taking her out for skiing or traveling.

Temporarily separate for a while.

Because the other party doesn't love him as much as before, then it must be due to some reason.

Therefore, the two of them should be separated for a period of time to calm down, have a good self-reflection, and only if they have a real way to change Zhaozhou Tan themselves, can they get along well.

If when you are in love, the man doesn't love you as much as before, it may be that he already has another person who is happy to be happy. Or that when it is pursued, it is too easy, so it will also appear to give up, because it is easy to get it, it will be easy to give up. There is also a possibility that he is with you, and he will be under a lot of pressure, so he will slowly forget.

If the other party doesn't love you as much as before when you're in love, then Lu Shuqing can also continue.

The other party didn't love you before, but it doesn't mean that Yu Xin doesn't love you, it's difficult to keep that kind of hot love, this is also normal, just like running, it's impossible to keep sprinting all the time.

If you are in love and the other party does not love you as much as before, this is normal, because the first time to date is slow, the two people still retain a lot of freshness, and when the two are familiar, these feelings will be gone.

Then you should renew your relationship with the other person or create a new limb and cheat type. Don't look for trouble, and don't look for unhappiness. Communicate with each other and build trust together. Respect each other more, and the relationship between you will be restored to what it was before.

When you are in love, the two of you have been together for a long time, so naturally there is no one, and it was a particularly strong feeling at the beginning.

At this time, both parties must accept the status quo, and constantly adjust each other's state, fully show their other charms and abilities, and talents, so that the other party will gradually fall in love with you.

If when you fall in love, the other party doesn't love yourself as much as before, I think that the emotional matter should still go with the flow, and you must work hard to fight for it, because it is impossible to fall in love forever The enthusiasm is like a slow rock, there are always dull times, and you must cherish it with a good smile.

You should take the initiative to admit your mistakes and correct them, it may be that you are doing something wrong, so the other party is very angry, and they don't love you as much as before.

If there is a lot of change and there is basically no love, then there is no need to continue talking. Only broke up. Why waste everyone's time.

If you find that your lover does not love you as much as before, then you must find out what is the reason? Generally speaking, there are two directions, one is that he has another new love, and the other is that your relationship has faded, and there is no freshness and a sense of cowardice as before.

If you encounter this situation, you should change the way you get along, and the two of you may be because they have entered a dull period, so they feel that they don't love themselves as much as before.

That means that this is the essence of him, and if you accept it, consider being with him, and if you can't stand his indifference, there's no need to shout that you're with him in Senna.

Personally, I think it's a normal phenomenon, and two people are like this in the process of falling in love.

At the beginning, the two of them will be like glue, eager to stick together every day, after the love period, Bu Xunwang's feelings will naturally become slightly bigger.

Then I might change myself and make myself more attractive.

First of all, the first thing you have to do, you have to think about it yourself, you have to find out the reason, why he didn't treat you as well as he used to? The question is on which person? It's something that causes him not to be as good to you as he used to be.

Second, if he doesn't treat you as well as he used to, will you still like him? You have to tell whether you like him as a person or how he feels good about you. Because if you like him as a person, then you will accept that he is not as good to you as before, and you will slowly adapt to his changes, but if you envy the feeling that you like him to be good to you, then you will not be able to accept his changes before and after, but you must also face this situation rationally.

Thirdly, whether you can accept that he is not as good to you as he used to be, you must face it rationally and accept it calmly. Don't argue with him, quarrel with him. Because there is still affection between the two of you, feelings are very precious, don't wear out this precious affection little by little because of the quarrel between you.

Even if he treats you badly now, or if you don't have the same feelings as before, you have to be as rational as possible and don't quarrel with him.

Finally, when you find out that he is not as good to you as he used to be, you have to understand that any relationship will have a lull period. Feelings are a matter between two people, when you have a good feeling about you before, you have to take the initiative to talk to him and communicate the situation. And if you can live like a fish in water in this situation, then congratulations, the relationship between you has not faded, but his kindness to you and his sweet words have turned into bits and pieces in life.

Every relationship has a period of passionate love.

In the quiet period, whether a relationship can last for a long time does not lie in the intense giving and giving, but after a period of intense time, the dullness left behind. Whether you can survive the dullness smoothly is the most important thing.

I will ask him why, if he doesn't love him, then break up decisively, because it's not particularly good for both of you.

Then I may take the initiative to say these things, and then I will tell the other person what to do, and hope that the other person can improve the situation.

I would have chosen to break up with him, he may have liked someone else, changed his mind, and no longer loved me so much.